OT: Any one been to France ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
South Beach (Miami Beach) gets lots of tourists of course and many European tourists.
I been sitting by the window of a Starbucks in South Beach most of the afternoon looking at the honeys walk by many scantily dressed (been surfing TUSCL/web on my laptop and trying to write a review or two but keep understandably getting distracted).
Anyway - had a young (early 20s) French guy ask me if he could charge his ph using my laptop's USB and I said sure (he was trying to get an Uber to take him and his 2 friends to the airport - said he was flying back home today).
Friendly guy - we spoke a bit while his ph charged - says he loves Miami and wants to move here - said the people are very friendly which IMO is not the case for the most-part but I explained to him South Beach is not really Miami and is a tourist area so people are more chill than in the city.
Anyway - he said he loves Miami and everyone he's met has been very nice - he said people here talk to you and carry a conversation whereas in France people pretty-much tell you to fuck-off if you try to engage them in convo.
Anyone been to France - what was your take on the French? I always thought it was us Americans that were the rude ones.
I been sitting by the window of a Starbucks in South Beach most of the afternoon looking at the honeys walk by many scantily dressed (been surfing TUSCL/web on my laptop and trying to write a review or two but keep understandably getting distracted).
Anyway - had a young (early 20s) French guy ask me if he could charge his ph using my laptop's USB and I said sure (he was trying to get an Uber to take him and his 2 friends to the airport - said he was flying back home today).
Friendly guy - we spoke a bit while his ph charged - says he loves Miami and wants to move here - said the people are very friendly which IMO is not the case for the most-part but I explained to him South Beach is not really Miami and is a tourist area so people are more chill than in the city.
Anyway - he said he loves Miami and everyone he's met has been very nice - he said people here talk to you and carry a conversation whereas in France people pretty-much tell you to fuck-off if you try to engage them in convo.
Anyone been to France - what was your take on the French? I always thought it was us Americans that were the rude ones.
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I spent a month in Paris a couple years ago, and I had a great time. The French I met ranged from very friendly to very snotty. But they definitely have a different attitude toward life than Americans.
Just remember to say "si vous plait" if you ask for something over there and "merci" if you get it.
By the way, I happen to think that Americans are some of the friendliest of people among the advanced countries -- but then I'm from the Midwest, not one of coasts :)
That said, Paris is definitely worth a visit. The scale of the museums and public buildings is really incredible. Like an earlier poster said, an attempt at speaking the language is appreciated.
BTW, I wholeheartedly recommend the Viking River Cruises. They just do everything well, and because their crews are drawn from all over Europe, English is the standard language on board. Their tour guides were outstanding at every point along the way. I surprised the Captain (French, and the only female captain in the fleet) by greeting her in French (I learned it growing up in Canada). I got the biggest smile of the trip from the normally reserved captain.
The rest of France is much more friendly.
I used to spend a lot of time in Naples, FL (opposite side of Miami) and have had dealings with a lot of French and German tourists and they were always dicks. Keep in mind if they were in Naples chances are they were pretty "well off."
I have also spent a little time in the French countryside (just passing through Paris) and there certainly is an arrogance they carry but if you try to fit in the are accommodating. Their jobs are secure and they don't have to work hard so they really don't give a fuck about anything, sometimes that can send a mixed signal. I feel they certainly think they are the best Europe has to offer.
Hobbying a lot in Toronto and Montreal, it's amazing the difference between a Canadian and a French-Canadian.
I greeted all in french, mentioned I don't speak French and then asked if they spoke English. This was enough to show I was polite and was not the ugly American tourist.
I look forward to going back.
As for French Canadians, again, never a problem. Some of the friendliest people I've ever dealt with.
Of course I've met exceptions but in general I avoid France when I go to Europe which is sad because there are many things the country does very well.
To address Papi's question, in to 10 days or so I was in the country i did the best I could speaking some very bad French. Everyone seemed nice and accommodating. I was traveling in the more rural areas and avoided the biggest cities if that makes a difference. I didn't really try to get into conversations as my very basic travelers French wasn't up to the task. I would go back but probably in a month that offers more sunshine.
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The French don't have a lot of love for American's but you're in good company because they hate us, that's the thanks we get for liberating their country.
Elsewhere, I think the reputation of "rude French" is more about language and social norms that behavior. Some of the nicest women I have ever met are from the South of France. I know a wonderful old expat from Champagne, who claim he would be there still if his daughter hadn't married that rude American!.
If have visited several places in Europe and I often hear complaints of Parisians or Berliners as rude and Spanish as having the worst behaved kids. What I usually hear about Americans is how we keep leaving money laying around when we leave how we don't know their language (whatever language that is), and how overweight we are. I think - generally - Americans who can afford travel to Europe, either for business or pleasure, are usually more careful of the impressions of others while there than traveling Europeans.
Regarding how tourists behave in other countries, I worked in hotels in various international cities and local staff shared their opinions of how different nationalities behaved as tourists. Americans were always considered to be nice, if a bit clueless. ("How much is this in dollars?") The tourists (and tour groups, especially) who were the most dreaded in other countries were the Germans. I write that as someone who has spent a lot of time in Germany (which has the best brothels in Europe bar none, and it's completely legal) and who always found the Germans very nice on their own turf.
The only complaint I hear about the Euros and Canadians is non-tipping.