Foreplay/Afterglow

I wouldn't say so. Wham-bam, thank you mam has its' place, my girlfriend and I would fuck in the kitchen when we felt like it. I like the tease on both ends as it build to a climax for both of us when possible. My ATF and I would take our time, and she always liked that I made her cum, also.

I don't know if you're in the minority, but you're not alone. I'm of much the same opinion.

The sex act in and of itself is wonderful, however the older I get the more I enjoy a lengthy foreplay, spending the time to fully enjoy a young hardbody and to let her find new ways to please me. . You're far from alone.

"but don't really get the whole wam bam competitive racking up numbers thing"

No I don't think it puts you in a minority. I see it the way you do. Perhaps we are a silent majority.

But understand that for a sex worker time is money, and the more she can do in one day, the more money. And then there may be other parties, like the club owner, who have a financial interest.

As far as men talking about fast service, I think that is just bravado. Basically they are not paying for sex, they are paying for the girl to go away. They believe that by their bravado, they prevent emotional attachment. They have come to over associate sex with just their own ejaculation.

I don't think that is a good way to go.

SJG

Grace Slick and the Great Society - Nature Boy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=et0LLAdB…

You are not alone. In my experience - there's a time and place for both. It can be great to get down and dirty - in a quick feverish way. However, taking time, and enjoying the complete experience is amazing!