Having recently had the good luck of doing a 3 sum with another dancer from the club where my ATF works, I've been thinking it might be better to scout out other clubs to find another gal to join us next time we connect for a 3 sum.
Do you think it is best to conduct a solo scouting mission for a #3 at another club and then bring ATF over to that club for approval, or would you recommend just visiting the other club together to let her pick out somebody? In either case, I would encourage/ expect the new prospect dancer to perform lap dances for my gal to see if there is enough fire / chemistry between them prior to attempting arranging an OTC 3 sum. Of course i would also want some dances and then would arrange for a visit to the VIP room for all of us.
On the other hand there may be a built in trust between the girls if they come from the same club
I realize this a good problem to have but thought the wisdom of the board might give some clarity on this. I am wanting to arrange another 3 sum ASAP
Jared


I've tried to negotiate several 3somes unsuccessfully so at least I have a good sense of what doesn't work. And I do have a 3some scheduled with DS III, plus free girl says she's looking for a friend for us, so there's that.
My advice is let your girl lead in picking out the new one. Of course you have to approve but chemistry between the girls is critical. So take her to the other club with you, or let her make the connections in her club. Doing it together is ok but if she leads. Other dancers will also be more receptive to another dancer trying to set this up than dealing with just you.