Extras have always been my goal. As things loosen up here in lovely Detwaaa and the suburbs, it became a joy to experience. I've lost track of thekisses I have received, BJ's, full sex, and other enjoyments of the female body. What was the most outrageous sex act, you have experienced. For me it was anal sex with an exceptionally hot dancer one night.
2008 strip club binge in the Montreal area. I drove to several different "off island" clubs (lots of driving, these clubs were off in several different directions) finishing up with an afternoon visit to some hard to find (but well reviewed) club somewhere northwest of town. I enjoyed some time at the bar - discounted drinks because I was the only customer - conversations with all four of the "dancers" working, free tokes from one of them when I joined her outside to have a smoke, and a truly fantastic threesome when two of them suggested we, "fuck the afternoon away." This club had "VIP" rooms with couches, beds and locking doors so the ladies were not shy about and activities. By the end, they could get me hard, and I was still having fun, but I just couldn't cum anymore I spent 5 or 6 hours in that club (most of it in a room with two very willing women) and about $600. It was well worth my time and money!!!!!!!!
I'll have to think about my favorite ITC extras, although I haven't really pursued ITC in a long time.
If I can play with OTC: with my ATATF, I fucked her in the ass (Her: "I might moan and wince when you put it in, but don't stop, keep going and just take me"), and after I finished and pulled off the condom, she took it from my hand and drank the cum out of it (!!!!!!!!!!)
I'm not even sure this counts as an extra, but I rolled into the club after an hour's drive and was immeadately approached by a dancer when I sat at the bar. A short conversation later I had to pee. " I'll help with that" she says. So we walk over to the men's room where she grabs little Jack and sees to it that the back of the urnal was wet with pee. She even shakes it a little when the flow stops. Seconds later still in her grip little Jack is at full glory. Extras were than arranged for.
I don't think getting help with urination counts as an extra. It's more like what aides do for decrepit old men in nursing homes :) However, it sounds like it *led* to extras, so good on you!
Well the reason I don't go along with the 'extras' concept is that usually it means a girl verbally sells you a dance, with whatever additional sex acts you want.
I don't like it to be that way because the girl has not opened herself up to me. I don't need that, don't need to pay money for that.
Rather I always treat all women as civilians. So if I want to engage with her physically, I'll just do so. I don't need to discuss it with her, or even explain it to her.
Now sure I'll talk to her, but its coming on to her, not negotiating or asking permission.
While this does not always work, often enough it does and the results are mind blowing for both parties.
Of course in a P4P environment she will expect to be paid, and she will be. Its just that the money is merely a show of respect and concern for her well being. It is not used as a way to persuade her to do anything she is not otherwise willing to do.
Now kissing a girl is not the only way to do this, but it is certainly one of the best ways.
So you talk about kisses and you talk about extras. I see these two approaches as diametrically opposed. But do you ever treat your women as civilians and just make it happen with them, and in, say, the front room of a strip club and without doing any sort of negotiating with her?
You can still be feeding her money, and in the front room their should be no house cut. And then you can take her to the back room, but only when that is necessary. And as doing it this way will likely make it go extremely well, you might end up taking her home with you too.
Right after I joined TUSCL I did some extensive searching on StripperWeb for anything about DFKing.
Basically, the girls who talk about it directly are pissed, pissed that others do it. Some do it in the booths, and some do it everywhere and all the time, and so other girls are pissed.
But if you find different angles to look from which it is talked about, some talk quite positively. And then some talk about escorting, and they all do it there.
Papi, do you like to treat your strip club dancers in a civilian way, and just come on to them and let them get GFE?
Do you like the extreme FS clubs where the girls come and sit on your lap and try to get you to make out with them, in order to make it happen and cut out all competition right from the start?
You mean the extreme clubs where the girls get you to make out with them, to seal the deal right off?
That is mostly what my previous post is about, except in places where the girl's don't necessarily push it that way themselves, but need to be charmed and coaxed some.
What it also means is just refusing non-GFE dance pitches, verbal pitches.
Does "start the action" mean they try to get you to make out with them before making any verbal pitch or asking for you to agree to the back room session?
And do you oblige them, and do you come on to them some to further soften them up and get them off script?
Start the action means they approach you instead of you having to to them; they start feeling-up on and let you feel up on them even b/f anything is agreed to; then one takes it from there.to where ever it goes whether it's high-mileage dances for VIP FS.
The most recent was with my new favorite blown job queen. She's kneeling on the bed, hands cuffed (her cuffs) behind her back, sucking my dick and letting me be as rough as I want. As I started to cum, I was pushing her head all the way down with one hand and whipping her ass with my belt with the other. The feeling of her throat constricting around the head of my dick as she tried to scream was *incredible*.
The best part? When, hands still cuffed and gasping for breath, she said, "Please tell me we can do that again. I came twice when your belt hit my cunt."
Well shit, indeed. No wonder I don't care for blow jobs. Apparently I've been doing them wrong. I like GMD's style there. I can get into that! God, I love TUSCL.
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I'm not much of a kiss and teller - but the best nights are the ones where I am allowed to "make a mess."
All you had to say was "off island" and I knew what happened! Lol
If I can play with OTC: with my ATATF, I fucked her in the ass (Her: "I might moan and wince when you put it in, but don't stop, keep going and just take me"), and after I finished and pulled off the condom, she took it from my hand and drank the cum out of it (!!!!!!!!!!)
Well the reason I don't go along with the 'extras' concept is that usually it means a girl verbally sells you a dance, with whatever additional sex acts you want.
I don't like it to be that way because the girl has not opened herself up to me. I don't need that, don't need to pay money for that.
Rather I always treat all women as civilians. So if I want to engage with her physically, I'll just do so. I don't need to discuss it with her, or even explain it to her.
Now sure I'll talk to her, but its coming on to her, not negotiating or asking permission.
While this does not always work, often enough it does and the results are mind blowing for both parties.
Of course in a P4P environment she will expect to be paid, and she will be. Its just that the money is merely a show of respect and concern for her well being. It is not used as a way to persuade her to do anything she is not otherwise willing to do.
Now kissing a girl is not the only way to do this, but it is certainly one of the best ways.
So you talk about kisses and you talk about extras. I see these two approaches as diametrically opposed. But do you ever treat your women as civilians and just make it happen with them, and in, say, the front room of a strip club and without doing any sort of negotiating with her?
You can still be feeding her money, and in the front room their should be no house cut. And then you can take her to the back room, but only when that is necessary. And as doing it this way will likely make it go extremely well, you might end up taking her home with you too.
SJG
Basically, the girls who talk about it directly are pissed, pissed that others do it. Some do it in the booths, and some do it everywhere and all the time, and so other girls are pissed.
But if you find different angles to look from which it is talked about, some talk quite positively. And then some talk about escorting, and they all do it there.
Papi, do you like to treat your strip club dancers in a civilian way, and just come on to them and let them get GFE?
Do you like the extreme FS clubs where the girls come and sit on your lap and try to get you to make out with them, in order to make it happen and cut out all competition right from the start?
SJG
That is mostly what my previous post is about, except in places where the girl's don't necessarily push it that way themselves, but need to be charmed and coaxed some.
What it also means is just refusing non-GFE dance pitches, verbal pitches.
SJG
And do you oblige them, and do you come on to them some to further soften them up and get them off script?
SJG
The best part? When, hands still cuffed and gasping for breath, she said, "Please tell me we can do that again. I came twice when your belt hit my cunt."