From a recent article of Hustle Club in Cleveland:
“… Wednesday the 23rd - fell in love and closed the place with a 36 year old stripper.. This trip was memorable because it was the best dance of my life. My friend and I arrived around 11pm after drinking elsewhere prior. I didn't go with too much cash because I honestly wasn't planning on buying more than 3-5 dances. I turned down the first few girls that came my way. Finally a girl caught my eye on stage. And she had what I consider a perfect body. Apparently she noticed because she came and talked to me. She was older, in her 30's, and had two kids- which I absolutely could not believe. We ended up going back for dances. They were absolutely fantastic with good two way touching. I stopped after three so that i could try out another girl later. After her I took an Asian girl who was maybe a 7 back. She gave a good dance, but nothing to write home about. I saw the girl from prior sitting on a couch from earlier. We cuddled / chatted some more. Eventually I went back and we did 5 more dances before they kicked us out. The second time around the dances were even more fantastic. Very sensual and sexy and I fell in love. I didn't get her number because I didn't want to be that guy. But I'd give my left nut to go out with her. …”


The last sentence is what made me think this guy may be ripe for being conned:
“… I didn't get her number because I didn't want to be that guy. But I'd give my left nut to go out with her …”
he thinks getting her # is being “that guy”
he seems to think she’s into him and that a love-connection would be possible
I am a glass-half-empty PL but his mindset IMO usually ends in this type of dude spending serious $$$ and ending up w/ nothing b/c he doesn’t want to be “that guy” – LOL