This is more of a humble brag. My best guess is she was just venting to me out loud, however, on my last visit this Friday she said, "You're one of my best customers and my best tipping customer hand down. Most days I would rather skip my shift and simply fuck you for money than come to the club and deal with the bullshit here."
That and I would still have to get over the mental hurdle of escorting. :/ … assuming it's not SS. I think she was just venting though.
I would ask her if she was serious about that and if so what arrangements need to be made?
You need to learn to take a hint.
Think about it. If she can fuck you somewhere and make $XXX and only tie up 1 hour a day, versus making the same or only a little more at working taking up 8 hours, which do you think she's gonna take?
I get the dunce cap for the day. I was thinking . . I don't have any business cards on me nor do I have anything to write on except cash or write with. So I was unprepared. I wasn't expecting anything remotely like this to EVER fall in my lap (pun not intended, but still funny).
She pretty much caught me off guard with that. The reason on the spot that had me confused and thinking she might not have been sincere was when we first meant, she went on an extras hating rant. So I figured if she wasn't down for it then, then she's probably not down for it now. Her first rant 4 months ago was: "Hi. Please don't ask me to suck your dick. Please don't ask me to meet you OTC. Please don't ask me to date you. This other guy gave me a blank check and asked to write a dollar amount on it. Please tell me you are different!"
I figured you guys would give it to me straight.
That comment of hers came after a somewhat long dialog (she's in a money crunch -- dance prices dropped at the club -- and it seems to be the slow season. She mentioned switching clubs to yet another upscale one (Christies) which I said, I would probably follow her to (from time to time). I said she's worth more. Rather than nickel & diming it for 2 for $20 dances, I said she should be dancing nude (or at least topless) for 3 for $100 or something. Since I'd love to see her naked and the club won't allow it. And here, at this club, with $10 dances (plus Nina suggesting modest tipping amount of $20/20min versus the $40/20min I was paying, so I lowered my tipping), I said I can't give her enough $$/per as I'd like to. That and with the wife, I can only really stay out 2-2.5 hrs max. So no more 4 hour sessions with her anymore. That and I like to spend time with other dancers too -- which I have been doing the last few trips.
$10 dances? Damn. I like the sound of that.
That's always a great compliment. Of course, it's as likely to be hustle as anything else. But, inviting her OTC is a good way to be sure. There was a stripper who always told me "I'd rather make less money spending all day with you, than come in here and deal with everyone else." And she put her money where her mouth was (ha ha!) regularly. For the same money I always paid her in the club (a $20 lap dance and two $100 VIPs -- $220 total), she would regularly skip her shift and spend all day drinking with me, culminating in all-holes-access sex at the hot tubs. THAT stripper, I believe -- she definitely and enthusiastically preferred making peanuts and hanging out with me all day, to dealing with her daily grind at the strip club.
Oh, I misread this as you already seeing her OTC.
Sometimes dancers vent to me about work. I guess I have a kind face, and there are serious risks about venting to other dancers or management.
Be ready next time.
JamesSD, the way she said it sounded like she was "assuming the sale." No, we haven't had sex. I havent even bought condoms in twelve years. The most we've done were some high mileage dances ITC, where I ended up tipping her my "asshole tax."
Offer to let her vent you once or twice a week OTC and find out.