Mileage Composition Question

For me the more contact the better – if at the least I don’t get good grinding, and groping (me to her), then I consider it a wasted dance.

Her touching me is nice but not a requirement unless the touching is petting the snake (I def like that type of touching but is not a requirement as long as the grinding and groping is there).

Def like GFE also; but as w/ stick-shifting although I like-it it’s not a requirement if I’m getting good grinding and groping.

I like the grinding, being able to touch her breasts, and then when we get to oral sex or vaginal sex, that completes the trip for me.

^ that's not really asking much

:)

Grinding is good - it definitely gets me worked up - and I enjoy a good grope - some DFK while I grope her usually gets her worked up (and it gets me ready for FS).

Then I'd call it a successful trip.

For me grinding is a pretty low priority, tho there have been some dancers who can scissor like a champ. I like the GFE - straddling and facing me, running her fingers thru my hair, some LFK or DFK that evolves into mutual booby play (mmmm) and eventually has her either on her knees or her hand down my pants while she's still in my lap.

I Like GFE over everything else. I love touching and being touched. I love oral and love giving it and getting it. Any or all of those make it a good night for me.

I like grinding as well. I used to club a lot in a warm-weather state where it was painfully hot during the summer, so shorts were universally accepted. There's nothing quite like a dancer slyly reaching her hand up the shorts and gripping/maneuvering the stick for a good 10-15 seconds before continuing on with the dance.

I like it all it just depends on the girl. This one Asian wouldn't let me touch her tits, but would her ass and the rest of her body minus pussy. But she really gave the GFE in my opinion slow grinding, her face, body close to mine. It was great. Now anything above that is always good too.

When I first dove into SCing I made out with this one dancer many times. Now, I'll pass on the kissing as I've come to learn more of what a stripper will do in their respective club.

In clubs that allow it the minimum standard I have for an extra is hands all over her body, fondling her tits, playing with and sucking her nipples, LFK, and rubbing my hands on her panties covered pussy while she grinds on me. In places like Detroit, Tampa or Atlanta it goes much farther.

I can't stand grinding. In fact, I request that they don't grind on me. I love having my hands all over her and her hands all over me. GFE I guess.

Grind = *yawn*

Exciting:
Her hands on my nipples or dick
My hands on her nipples or pussy or ass
Her bringing her face very close to mine, face nuzzling, and with a few special ATFs, light kissing (not interested in kissing most)

I like a good grind with my hands on her tits and ass. I consider that OK mileage. Anything less than that is low mileage and not worth the money.

My mileage begins with a blow job and then moves to fucking. You guys need to step up your game (or move to Detroit.)

I'm a non-grinder. No grinding (or very minimal) with my ATF and ATF Lite for a couple of years). I have to have titty sucking, DFK, and DATY.

I love kissing -- and those SW ladies that think kissing is gross are missing out on draining my wallet.

No grinding here either. Groping and the like are nice. I don't mind her touching me, but unless its leading up to a blowjob or more I'd rather be the one doing the touching. Kissing is fun, but I visit some shadier joints with girls I'm not really interested in kissing, so its not always on my agenda.

when a lap dance can move from soft touching to sensual dry humping complete with garbbing onto your body for support is when you have the best mileage on the planet. Outside of actual sex of course.

Its not a lap dance if she ain't in your lap. That said, grinding of any kind is just dancing in your lap, hips are a requirement, otherwise what the hell else are you paying for? excessive touching. A dance still involves using the hips and being the lap (thus lap dance) requires body on lap contact am I right fellas?

I'm not a fan of grinding either. For lap dances, groping boobs is the minimum I ask. More is fine, but boobs out and nipples free is a must.

For VIP, there needs to be sex, which pretty much means blow job anymore.

JamesSD desribes my definition exactly. For that I would pay for 1 and maybe 2 dances. To pay for more dances I would need more liberal hand roaming by both parties.

I was at heavenly bodies in IL awhile ago and got a grind only 5-song lapper from an 8. There was no groping given/permitted and no stick shifting and no kissing or nuzzing. She kept her back to me most of the time and worked it up and down like she was waxing a car. After being rebuffed several times to secure more intimacy, I was bored to death somewhere around song 2 or 3. There was no illusion of a sexual encounter whatsoever. I might as well have put my knob against a shoeshine machine.

Maybe I am old and numb and jaded, but simple grinding is passe. No thanks, anymore.

^^^^^ My sentiments exactly PensionKing! I would much rather have her sitting in my lap while my hands roam her entire body and she at least pretends to be into it.

I'll say this: as much as I love a good grind, I've been conditioned (corrupted?) into cutting a girl off after two songs if there's nothing else to accompany it. Stick shifting seems to be girls' normal course of action to get to song three. It's not even so much that I would mind "just grinding", but I tend to go to clubs with more dancers on shift and know I can take my chances on finding someone who will do what another dancer won't.

Escort grade GFE only. I treat her as a civilian, moving on her and making it happen. No need to make me ejaculate until such time as she and I are ready for FS. So I don't go along with the 'extras', or even the 'mileage', concept. Otherwise maybe DATYing her.

Preliminary BJ good. But BJ 'till completion something better for some other venue when we have time for lots of rounds of FS.

SJG

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All of the above. With Uber hot dancers, I like grinding because I can hold onto their hips like I do in doggy style sex. Almost a guaranteed LDK if she's willing to keep up a slow grinding. Sensual touching works with most dancers I'll ever dance with, as I only dance with those I consider hot. Lately I've been getting some consistent HJ's from my current favorite, which I consider sensual touching.

I like girlfriend experience. Breathing, whispering, lip play, nibbling, hand holding, Other naught things I like:
016 Extra peek (tits when it's a bikini dance and pussy peeks when it's a topless or bikini dance).
015 Basic Nibbling (I like it).
014 Ass grinding (but not too much, like the others said)
013 Forward Grind (missionary position; full straddle; and/or when she "saws one leg")
012 Spring Cleaning (dancer gives you a bath with her tongue - - on my ears mostly; but I won't limit her to there)
011 Stevie Wonder
009 Stick shifting (dancer grabs my Gameboy through my slacks and plays away - - oh boy - - I love this).
008 Feeding (like nibbling on *both* boob flesh and on the nipples/pasties)
(These are Dispater codes)

I also love when she stands up facing away from me, and grinds/rubs her ass *all* *over* my face. Yum. I love me some dancer ass in my face.

I also love when see aggressively rubs her boot/shoe on my groin.

With a stong pole dancer, I love when she chokes with with a single hand. I love me some Kung Fu Grip. Using the Pole Dancers and the Dommes have the requisite finger strength for this one.

Hair Curtains. I love me some hair curtains when she has long raven/black hair.

I also love when she sits next to me on the lap dance couch, swings her legs over top of my lap, lies down, she plays with her upper half, then she opens her thighs, and invites me to play with the lower half, all the while her full body is on display for me, sensually writhing for me.