This girl scared me
twentyfive
Living well and enjoying my retirement
A little background first. I am friends with a particular stripper for many years not even sure how many but its a good solid 10 years or maybe more, anyway we meet sometimes OTC hang out with each other a bit I have helped her out some she always pays me back if she is able to, also I know many of her friends and some of her family, most don't know that she is a dancer. A few weeks ago I was hanging out with her at the club she works at and she whispered to me I want to have a baby and I want it to be yours. To be sure I was shocked, I am more than 30 years older than her, I do not under any circumstances want to be that involved with her, or anybody else for that matter. I acted like I didn't hear her and continued to have drinks with her and sort of changed the topic.
Long story short I met her for lunch the other day and she repeated the I want to have your baby conversation. she also said that she wouldn't expect anything from me other sperm and that we remain friends even so, I told her in no uncertain terms but politely and kindly that I wouldn't consider it and she got very quiet, I am sure that is not the end of this conversation but I am very worried that she might try something stupid like get pregnant by me without my consent, I am considering not seeing her any more. She is a very sweet very pretty woman of 34 who feels her biological clock ticking, personally I like her very much and she is a great piece of ass. BTW she is a clean girl and never does extras with anyone in the club she has had boyfriends over the time that I know her and AFAIK I am the only friend she has, that knows about her work.
Anyway guys and gals I don't need advice I know what I need to do, I just wondered have any of you ever found yourselves in a situation like this.
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And thanks for telling us your around 64 btw.
Lol. Just kidding - people have had lawyers sign away their rights in situations like that only to have it come back and haunt them in the courts years later.
I assume you have no desire to knock her up even if you get to be part of the kids life?
She got one of your kids, got you for 18 years
To Corvus , I have no desire to be the father of a teenager at the age of 70+ That would be terribly unfair to a child
To Papi I thought about that but I don't believe that is what it is about although you never really know.
That idea is making more and more sense to me.
SJG
I would have let her down a bit more gently. Ask what happens when she meets a great guy but is 6 months pregnant?
I get her thinking. You're presumably educated, reasonably intelligent, not ugly. No major red flags, probably more genetically fit than the stereotypical stripper baby daddy. But a kid is a HUGE commitment.
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You cannot trust them with any access to your ejaculate! Used condom in a trash can, in the mouth, whatever. And even if they are P4P, you still cannot trust 'em. They got long fingers and they will do whatever they need to to make you into their annuity.
SJG
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It relates directly to how many more loads I'll be pumping out in the years of my life which remain.
SJG
Asshole that I am, I told her I'd consider it.
My earlier thread for exploring the idea:
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SJG
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