We PLs *are* a finicky bunch
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
From the annals (or anals) of SW:
“... Good reg complaining about waiting for me ...”
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From the PL perspective, this is an excellent example way it doesn't pay to have favorites. Plenty of fish and most dancers are interchangeable. .
Let me respond in this way. I run a business and all customers are not equal like it or not, if I have a customer that gives me a good bit of revenue I am not going to tick that customer off for a walk in.
Sorry but if you think that makes me a dick when I go into the club, I don't give a flying fuck I go for my enjoyment, if you don't like being aced out by me, or a guy like me you need to step up your game, or find another girl. So yes it may seem pretty entitled but if I am the customer and I came in to see one particular girl I'm probably spending a good bit of money and if she doesn't drop everything to spend time with me I will find another and usually she wouldn't like that to happen,
One more thing to keep in mind , no one knew Hanna Banna prior to all of us being there together.
Agree with Nina. On top of that, My girls keep their cell phones on them, I make the appointment in advance, and give them updates -- "Leaving now, see you in an hour"... "Parking now, see you in 5 minutes, can I pick you up a coffee on the way in?" Etc.
I am, obviously, one of those customers who generally expects my CF to be waiting for me when I walk in the door, and not with a customer. But, I 1. Make appointments beforehand and keep her updated on my arrival time, 2. Do my very best to show up at the beginning of the shift, 3. Believe myself to be a high-value customer. I do NOT get petulant and butthurt if my CF doesn't keep up with my expectations ... no harm, no foul, if the value proposition doesn't work for her, but unless she's making up for it somewhere else, I'll be moving on, and it's someone else who will be getting the regular payday during the slowest deadest portions of her shift.
If the dancer sees the regular customer - and she decides that she will stay with the other customer - thinking that she can get the other customer to pay for a few dances - while her regular $$$ customer waits - then she's taking a chance. You don't pass up a sure thing - unless you are ok with the possibility of losing out on the sure thing.
A regular customer may be a sure thing to buy dances - but their time is money too.
It shows the regular that the club/dancer values his patronage. Like a frequent fliers club - you get the first bag free/or they allow your ass to board first - after you've flown a bunch of miles. It's like a benefit accrued from spending your cash in that club.
I'm not one who feels entitled. If I come to a club as a regular for a specific dancer - I understand that it's business - and I don't expect a dancer to drop everything. I don't consider myself to be a whale - so maybe that's part of it too.
It comes down to her perception of the risk tolerance (how likely will the PL put up with it) and trade off (how much will she potentially lose short and long term from the reg vs how much she will make while not catering to him).
The strippers who are too oblivious to take this into account usually aren't worth pining for.
Cashman you are not wrong very often who you know is much more important. than what you know. Your example of a guy who drops good dollars at a strip club, it behooves the management to know who he is and treat him or her accordingly.
"The strippers who are too oblivious to take this into account usually aren't worth pining for"
Good point flagooner
Reading some of the SW OP's further comments; she states she makes the reg wait for an hour+ and *now* I can see the reg being pissed and feeling taken for granted b/c she's *is* pretty-much taking him for granted/a-sure-thing – it looks like the dancer is trying to have her cake and eat it too by having the reg/sure-$$$ sitting there while she simultaneously tries to make $$$ from the rest of the club – if you gonna have a reg you need to treat him like a reg.
Upon first reading the SW thread I thought the reg was pissed b/c she was not at attention as soon as he walked-in and maybe had to wait 5 or 10 minutes; but yeah; if dancer and reg agree to meet; the most he should have to wait for her is 15 minutes unless she's in the middle of a VIP and she was making some good $$$ while waiting for him.
But custies hogging up the dancer for e hours plus in a club just to mostly sit w her is kinda a waste – choose a better venue to spend one-on-one time.
I'm ALL about that, so we're not just opposites in our respective taste in women :)
Exactly. And not just a regular, but a VERY GOOD REGULAR who shows up at the same time, etc. She says so right here:
lilylilylily-->"I have a very good reg, comes in every week at the same time"
Of course, in the end, I think if she's not willing to give a very good regular any real benefits at all, she's got exactly the right idea:
lilylilylily-->"if he got there at the start of my shift it would be different. Should I just tell him that? "
She should -- then, instead of being hurt, he could decide whether he wants to show up at the start of her shift, or find a stripper who treats her very good regulars the way he wants to be treated. Problem solved
Communication is a must.
Never again. No more waiting around for strippers.
:)