When a girl tells you that (regarding your dick), are you supposed to take that as a compliment or diss?
I've had a couple of girls tell me that when looking at Jr. They were worried about the pain the pussy was gonna take. In those instances we just ended giving oral on each other, but shit I wanted to fuck.
Society makes it seems like a big dick is what everyone wants, but I think in reality women prefer the smaller to medium dicks.
Opinions?
Gee. I've never had anyone say that to me without laughing. I guess I'm lucky?
@Estafador- I think the D every woman desires is smaller to medium. I've heard women say this. When women see my D, they say things like, "you're not gonna put that monster in me!" Lol
@flagooner- lol
@larry I hear both sides of the totem pole. Overall, every woman has an opinion that is different. Why else do you see catfights so many times. Because women can compromise with one another?
Sometimes I think its an excuse.
It's an excuse for crappy escorts to say they only fuck in missionary postion
Are we talking hos or civis?
Usually they only say that about JS69's wallet.
I was talking about civilians, but I guess it can apply to escorts and strippers too. I haven't fucked a stripper or escort though.
Not all women are the same but it “seems” to me most want a dick that is just big enough to give them pleasure but any bigger and many seem kinda concerned it may be uncomfortable for them.
I think sorta along the lines of what larry said that for most the desired size is medium and not small nor big; IMO.
I guess I'm "lucky" I never run into such issues :)
I've never heard a woman tell me that and can't imagine why they ever would.
I've never had a woman complain I was too big.
What is "Too big"? Are we talking length or girth? If it's length then you don't try to give her the whole thing. Girth can be more tricky with very tight young women.
I have only one been told that it was too big. By a prostitute while I was stationed in Japan. Perhaps she was used to Japanese men who are noted for small penises.
Unless we're talking Asian chicks I will second what Mikeya02 said, or that they will say it is painful and want you to rush and then try to run the guilt trip to a tip they don't deserve!
^ yeah - the "big dick" tax
:)
I'm bigger than average, especially girth. I've had plenty of pussy and only net one I couldn't get in well. Had a couple where the full length hit their cervix too much.
I've had it be a turn on for some women and scare others. I even met one poor girl who's vagina felt big, even to me.
^^^^ Ugh. Super loose pussy is the worst.
If you can find a stripper (or civie) that hasn't had kids, I've found it to be a much better experience. Having kids wrecks many a woman's body.
However, seems like quite a few strippers have had kids. Go figure, right? Lol.
There's a reason a lot of us are in search of young tight girls at the clubs so much.
@georgmicrodong- I never would have guessed from your username :)
@shadowcat- for me it's both girth and length, you're right though girth is the one that can be a issue.
"Having kids wrecks many a woman's body." Amen.
The girls that actually like the big dick expect us bigger guys to be great in bed (or so society says). That puts a lot of pressure on the bigger guys. Us bigger guys are really in a no win situation.
I've had women say that my gut is too big but I've never had any girl say that my dick is too big.
^^^ I can relate.
"Having kids wrecks many a woman's body"
Maybe kids should be band
Sounds like a big problem. just a little pun. Maybe drink lots of alcohol to shrink things but don't drive anywhere. Some dancers enjoy telling big dick jokes.
I'm guessing our black TUSCLers tend to run into this problem more often
:)
"I think sorta along the lines of what larry said that for most the desired size is medium and not small nor big"
So GPS could also mean the Goldielocks Pussy Syndrome?
I tend to be too rough with civilian women. I've found the roughness - coupled with my length and girth - can make civilian women uncomfortable. I might need to tone it down a bit!
Civilian women who aren't moms will tend to be tighter - and that doesn't help to accommodate big cocks - and that might be what you have been encountering. Once a woman has been stretched by childbirth - they can become much more accommodating.
Civvis (IMO) tend to like a slower, consistent penis thrusting, one that you should be able to keep up the rhythm for 10 minutes. If you can't, either you are going to fast (slow down) or you are out of shape (slow down & get to the gym). Where civvis like it rough, is where you use your hands and arms to rough them up slightly. That's what IMO they mean by rough sex. They like to feel you power (strength).
I'm just saying that I haven't found a woman (yet) who likes the level of cock "jackhammering" to the point of making her back wall bleed, as often depicted in porn. Or the jackhammering that makes her back wall sore and tender for the next day.
Meaning I don't think it's the stretching / tightness they are so much complaining about, though I could be wrong.
Also be sure to pick up and use some Lube (astroglide or whatever). That tends to help with the tightness especially with a condom.
Also I have no experience with P4P strippers so I have no idea what the they like.
It's a joke. Yeah, some women have small holes, but oh well.
Yeah lube helps a lot, and slow thrusting is the best way to go.
My vagina is very tight, I'm a small girl in general. I don't need a man with a huge penis. Even though I get very wet when turned on, a medium-sized penis gets the job done. It's also more important that the guy knows how to work it rather than how big it is. Unless it's like toothpick small. That would be a problem.
“… Civvis (IMO) tend to like a slower, consistent penis thrusting, one that you should be able to keep up the rhythm for 10 minutes …”
“It’s not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean”
"I'm guessing our black TUSCLers tend to run into this problem more often"
you got that right, chulo!
Or like juice might say "if the vans arockin don't come knockin "
The "too big" is a contextual expression. A chick cheating her boyfriend with a guy with a bigger penis will say "too big" in reaction to a childhood fear about keeping the pussy tight (especially Caribbean women).
Same holds true for any chick Shaquille Oneal ever fucks. I would never follow.
Im all about friction and I've hit the cervixa few times but that's how i became an ass man. I need a thick booty. Fortunately i can also identify booties that are out of my hitting range too. I had one BBW plus size yet shapely girl. Unfortunately she wasnt flexible and was only trying to do missionary. FAIL.
Also i've met some small petite women that can seemingly take a baseball bat.
Given that the clit is the focal point for women, their decision on taking a dick is matter of them determining if you're stretching their walls for.
The "too big" is a contextual expression. A chick cheating her boyfriend with a guy with a bigger penis will say "too big" in reaction to a childhood fear about keeping the pussy tight (especially Caribbean women).
Same holds true for any chick Shaquille Oneal ever fucks. I would never follow.
Im all about friction and I've hit the cervixa few times but that's how i became an ass man. I need a thick booty. Fortunately i can also identify booties that are out of my hitting range too. I had one BBW plus size yet shapely girl. Unfortunately she wasnt flexible and was only trying to do missionary. FAIL.
Also i've met some small petite women that can seemingly take a baseball bat.
Given that the clit is the focal point for women, their decision on taking a dick is matter of them determining if you're worth stretching their walls for.
Thanks for the perspective Nina, it's good to hear it from a female's point of view.
Speaking of cervix, apparently R&B singer August Alsina's dick is so big it broke a girl's cervix. hiphollywood.com/2014/07/crazy-rumor-of-the-day-what-one-woman-is-saying-about-august-alsinas-man-parts/
Too big?
No, I have never experienced a girl telling me that. If she did, I'd think its just Stripper Shit.
SJG
In Swingers Clubs most people don't have sex in front of others. But of those that do, it really loosens up both the men and the women. So the management always tries to make the environment conducive to it.
This place was the most famous because of all the different kinds of play spaces it had.
I say was because now I see that it is closed and the property sold to developers. This is a major loss for the entire world!
from their rules: "Cell phones allowed only in the lobby and parking area."
Walt Disney Concert Hall, Los Angeles en.wikipedia.org
Atlantic City, one of the largest pipe organs ever built. Look how high the ceiling is. More information to come. atlanticcitynj.com
Yes, it is the largest in the world! boardwalkhall.com
It is one of only two organs in the world to have an open 64-foot rank, and the only organ to have stops voiced on 100 inches of wind pressure (about 3.6 psi). Its console features seven manuals.
The pedal manual can be divided into left and right divisions
10x 32 foot stops
The Diaphone-Dulzian's low-C pipe stands 59 feet (18 m) tall, weighs 3,350 pounds (1,520 kg), and produces a frequency of 8 Hz,[10] a tone that is more felt than heard; the sound of the vibrating pallet is described as "a helicopter hovering over the building". The pipe stands upright for about 40 feet (12 m), the remainder is mitred (turned) towards the Right Stage chamber's grill. All pipes taller than 32 feet (9.8 m) are designed in this manner.
The organ's wind supply is the most powerful ever used in a pipe organ. The DC motors for the original eight blowers had a total power of 394 horsepower (294 kW). These were replaced with AC motors in the early 1990s, which have a total of 600 horsepower (450 kW) and their seven blowers produce 36,400 cubic feet (1,030 m3) of wind per minute.
Some of the lower manuals are not only 61 keys, they are 73 or 85 keys! ( some piano music is written to take up all 88. But nothing in the standard piano repertoire goes beyond that , as with Boesendorfer's 97 keys. cmuse.org I saw one just like this in a local store, priced to sell at only $180k. boesendorfer.com )
Largest Pipe Organs In The World en.wikipedia.org
the only other organ with 64' open pipe stop. not sure if this picture shows that though en.wikipedia.org
extreme high ceiling! en.wikipedia.org
Yes, the 64' pipes are hidden somewhere behind the proscenium. They are square in cross section and made of wood. Pictures here show them. This one in Sydney and the Atlantic City Boardwalk Hall are the only two open 64' organ pipe stops in the entire world. Zero for the 128' octave.
I would think it easier to design these huge pipes for horizontal, but no one seem to have done this. I would go for cast out of concrete and an integral and load bearing part of the building, as well as having common sides. No one seems to have done this though.
With these extreme pipe organs, the building and the organ have to be designed together.
Code Red Warning! This is like ColdnShallow turned into a 501.c3 pornkillslove.com
3 Nights in Tunisia - Diz, Jimmy Smith, Barbara Dennerlein youtube.com acoustic piano action could never go as fast as these people do. I think even a semi-weighted keyboard would be too slow.
Dennerlein play list, REALY GOOD! youtube.com
If you honestly know that your shit is only average (5.5"-6") then her pussy too tight or she's just overall too small. Either way its up to you. I'd be happy to know I got the D every woman desires.