Paying a dancer to leave another customer

JS69,

When she was dancing for you and 25 was beside me, she kept asking for a Monica. Ans you're lucky you didn't try to take away my Asian spinner. :)

Clubber, I would never take away your dancer cause you look like you'd kick my ass. Rech, on the other hand, only scares me when he's driving.

JS69,

With what I've done to my lower extremities over time, if I were to try and kick your ass, one or both might fall off! :)

I feel blessed that I can still walk with little discomfort. Any more than that, and I'd be back in a wheel chair or on crutches. Although, the times I went to a club in a cast or a boot, sure got a lot of attention.

Clubbed - dare I ask which "lower extremities" we're in a cast? Just asking...

John why would you do this when you have the ds?

No John I have never been so pathetic to pay a dancer to leave another PL...LOL But I have to ask...you said you and HB have spent much of the last 2 evenings together has this been inside or outside the club?

JohnSmith69 -->"If so, how much did you offer and what was the response?" --> END

On 2 occasions I offered each dancer $20 to draw her over to me. Neither worked.

In the first case, she was a darker hair tattooed goth. The response I learned was the regular had bought her out for the rest of the night (another dancer told be the sum quoted was $700). I wasn't surprised as the regular was quite distraught / upset / troubled whenever I was tipping her on stage and 'stealing' her attention. I'm not about to start a bidding war with a PL (in love).

The other case was more recently when I saw an acrobatic pole dancer. She was blonde and quite tall. I figured she might be fun. Maybe she would have been. She said she would try but not right away. Whatever broad. You have 10 minutes. It would have taken a crow bar to get her off of that regular. A white haired gentleman with a white mustache. He kept taking her back for dances when I was with other dancers. No skin off me. I still had fun.

oh you guys all met up in Miami? Good for you old farts. A few things for the OP though

1: You are really a grimy person to hang out with at the club if your devious enough to move in on your friend's girl like that in the club 2: your extremely desperate and pathetic if you actually have to PAY someone to leave their current company for you. 3: Your pathetically sad if you have to pay someone just to SIT DOWN with you.... 4: glad you all had fun stabbing each other in the back it seems. Not sure how I would have felt about that. I guess experience would be the answer.

Paying a dancer to leave a customer puts the P in PL.

Damn Esta. This is just strip clubbing, it's not brain surgery. Chill the fuck out and have some fun for a change. I would not have done this to Rech or any other customer for that matter if they were not clearly OK with it. Yes I was getting even with him for lying to me about the girl onstage, but it was just fun. If he had been in any way comfortable with it, I would've stopped.

And the girl ended up applying my $40 to some table dances, so it's really not like I actually paid her any money just to sit with me instead of Rech. Nevertheless, I hope I never get in such dire straits that I'm not willing to part with a measly couple of $20 bills if that's what it takes to have a gorgeous young woman available as my sexual companion for the evening. If I ever get that poor or that cheap, it'll be time to stop going to strip clubs.

Butter it was all itc.

Oh Ok , knowing you you will be taking another trip to MIA to meet up with hanna banana! Is she DS 3 material?

Gee Estafador Just out of curiosity do you have any friends or do you just judge everybody based on how you see the world ? My guess is you are between the age of 22 and 25 and from the way you opine about shit you come across as a bit of an ass. In fact we all had a good time we had a lot of laughs nobody was backstabbing anybody . It was all in good fun I would have posted earlier but since you mainly attacked JS69 I let him respond to you first. You need to grow up a bit before you come off the porch to play with the big dogs, at this point you are just a pup any one of the guys at the meet-up would school your whippersnapper ass easily and handily. All four of your points are way off the mark , maybe you might want to get a little bit more experience before you take such radical guesses.

** JS69 posted: "Now I'm wondering if anybody besides me has ever been pathetic enough to offer a dancer money to leave another customer and just come sit with him." **

No. Just you. ;)

I’m kinda a conservative guy so I don’t think I would be so brazen as to point-blank offer a chick $$$ to be w/ me – the best I’ll do is mention I’d like some dances (If I can catch her alone for a minute) so she knows I’m willing to spend “some” $$$ on her if the dude sitting w/ her is just hogging her time – but if I wanna get her attention usually I’ll just look over her way and make eye-contact w/ her when the dude w/ her is not looking.

But SCs are bizarro-world and often times if one is not proactive about what they want they’ll end-up being in a strip-club for 2-hours+ and have nothing to show for it b/c they couldn’t get with the dancer(s) they wanted.

To me if a dancer is just sitting w/ a custy; there is no way one can tell if he is spending any $$$ on her so I see that as a waste of resources; i.e. she is not making any $$$ sitting there w/ him (at least at plain-sight) and I’m not getting to enjoy any dances w/ her – I would not want to pry away a dancer who’s sitting w/ another custy so she can come sit w/ me; I just wanna get some dances while she is just sitting there w/ the RIL and that way I can get my dances and she can make some $$$.

I genuinely don’t have a problem with a dancer choosing to be with another custy over me b/c the other custy is giving her more $$$; that’s what she’s there for – but I do hate having to sit there w/ my arms crossed and not get any dances b/c RIL wants to have his arm-trophy beside him at all times.

So unless Rech really wanted to kick-it w/ this chick and they were just shooting the bull; then JS got to enjoy her and the dancer got to bank.

good way to get your ass kicked.

I've never tried to bribe a dancer away from anybody. Plenty of other pussy in the house that I can usually just find someone else.

So, when y'all see something you want, you just don't go and get it?

??!?

;) j/k You guys never cease to surprise me.

Related to what I posted above – I was recently at a club on a late night visit past midnight – it was a weekend night and the club was pretty packed so I was standing by the LD booths where there was some room to stand.

This club often runs 2-for-1s so they announce a 2-for-1 and I see this topless, slim, light-skinned AA with nice big soft natural Cs talking to this custy about 2 ft from me as if convincing him for a dance – I liked her and wanted to take advantage of the 2-for-1 so I looked at her and motioned with my hand pointing to the dance-booth and she dropped the zero and got w/ a hero – I ended-up getting 3 UHM dances (the 2-for-1 followed by a another dance) and she made some $$$ rather than wasting her time “talking shit”. She actually asked me if I wanted to fuck (right there in the dance-booth) – but she wanted her $$$ upfront, which I understand b/c the club is a bit of a dive, but I don’t pay upfront so no FS which was ok w/ me b/c I can get-it (P4P) whenever I want/need to.

Butter, she had the body to be a DS but she has no chance of attaining that status. Among my many standards is that a DS not be an extras girl and only fuck me. Or at the very least she must be extremely picky about the few customers that she has sex with. That standard was not met here.

gawker,

Cast wise, ankle left leg, foot right. Broken right ankle was never casted due to the surgery.

25,

RE: Estafador

Well, put! I sense a lot of jealousy from him as well.

Clubber he's a young kid all full of himself he has been a jerk on a few different threads.

+1 johnsmith I feel the same abt my OTC girls. If I wanted a Babe with that much mileage on her I would buy an escort

I've never paid just to come sit with me, but I did snake a gal from a dude who bought a bottle of champagne and just wanted to drink it with her at the bar. I was at the bar and when I looked over at her she rolled her eyes toward him. I nodded my head toward the VIP rooms and off we went. She had fun, I had fun...Champagne Guy was gone by the time we ummm "finished".

@JS69 sorry bro, but I'm consistantly blunt. I don't hide behind niceties just to make you feel better. A good time shouldn't be had for one if your having it with friends. If your with good people, all should make sure their companions are also having a good time...to an extent of course. Don't pay his mortgage worth at a strip club just because he broke.

@25 why are you so obsessed with overly analyzing me. And why are you incredibly slow on the uptake that I'm 24? I have never hid this nor tried to make myself seem older. In fact I made it a point to let everyone know I'm a young buck so you asking that makes me question your reasons for speaking to me about why I say what I do. From what I can concur, you just want me to get into an argument with you. Whether to fuel your ego that old folk are better than young or that I'm just an ignorant young man or whatever else your reason may be, cut the bullshit out bro. Though from the entirety of your post, I can deduce that you just like to make yourself look superior. You look like a bully, big guy pick on the little guy. Of course you assume I'm ignorant and trying to "play" with the "big dogs". I kind of can understand why Nina can get fustrated with many of you folk. You seem to intentionally start trouble. I started on JS69 BECAUSE he made those comments and he's OP, not because it's what I find "cool". I have readily disagreed with plenty of people you see me on her agreeing with, such as Papi, Dougstar, Ranukam, Shadowcat and so on.

MOVING ONI do have plenty of friends despite what you may think. Ultimately, your just upset that this young person refuses to grasp your inkling of what you call "reality". Of course it's generally agreed upon that the older you become, the more stuck in your ways you are. I won't discriminate against you for disagreeing with my point of views directed towards JS69 but that doesn't mean I won't shit on you when you try it on me.

ALSO, when you open a thread, on these sorts of websties, you open yourself to people giving their opinions whether it be positive or negative. I post everywhere because I don't block people just because I don't like what they say. Everyone says something informative at least SOME of the time. Or entertaining. Either or

^^^ Siunds like the kid got stuck by the safety pin in his diaper.

I once paid a customer to leave so I get his girl away from him. Custies pimp out for less!

I think it's more rude than pathetic. It also depends on the circumstances. I mean, you knew Rech so it was different. If you did that to a stranger it would be rude, especially if the guy is spending money on her. I guess if anything, you should just politely ask her to come see you after she is done with the customer and imply that you have plenty of money to spend.

JS – perhaps you should start making it rain on yourself to let her know you’re a spender.

Nina, if I didn't know the other customer, and if the other customer had not just lied to me to keep from getting the particular dancer, then I wouldn't have done this. At least I wouldn't have done it this way. I would probably have waited for her to get on stage, given her a large tip, and suggested that she'd make a lot more money by dumping the other guy for me. Papi also has a good alternative suggestion.

If you have to resort to these tactics you have it all wrong. Why would offer a stripper money for the privelge of offering her more money?

^ b/c it's a strip-club - aka "bizarro world"

Rech,

Truth be known, there are no friends in a SC. It is survival of the fittest, and in the SC environment, "fittest" equal $$$. :)

Rech I didn't know you weren't ok with it, I was sitting on the other side with Club when the switch occurred and when you didn't say anything I thought you were fine with it, but that's no consolation now, I don't think either Clubber or Papi knew that you were unhappy about it either.

Real smooth john. Its no wonder ds dumped you.

I was going to post this earlier but yeah it is a dick move I admit it. And like Nina said it's rude. 2 times I tipped the girl on stage and asked her to come see when when she's free as I was interesting in dances. Now I ask them if they are free to sit with me, it they are great, if not, another stage set with another dancer is about to start on in my case last time, there as a girl off in he corner by herself without anyone (the body rub girl) and she was free to sit.

So dislodging a dancer from a customer is rude and not worthwhile in my opinion

See also: tuscl.net

^Full disclosure: at the time I asked her, I didn't know she was with someone else.

Yeah; Rech is very easy-going/laid-back and no way to tell the JS move bothered him - perhaps if Rech wasn't so high he would have tried to kick JS69's ass

:)

I'd put my money on Rech, were he somewhat straight.

In case you guys haven't figured this out yet, Rech's quasi-troll persona is to be a schizophrenic. He says he's glad I liked the girl he said I could have, then he's pissed about it. He's coming to the meet up, then he's not coming, then he's in Detroit. At the meetup, he tells you his "real" name. Then he tells you a different name. Then he adds a 3rd name. Everybody calls him Rech because nobody knows what to believe.

Whether this is real, drug induced, just an act, or some combination thereof, I don't know. My guess is it's mostly an act but he's very good at it.

Children, Children, Children! Play nice now.

I wouldn't interfere in any way if a dancer is with another customer. Let them have their fun.

Also, strip clubs only work if the dancers can pick whom they associate with. If guys start getting possessive, then it's all lost. Preventing this is why strip clubs do need to have bouncers.

Farmerart wrote about putting a Hamilton into an older dancer's cleavage when she was with a whole group of young guys. Okay, but these guys being young and in a group weren't going to do anything with her.

Farmerart ended up doing a real nice toda la noche with her.

Otherwise, I say leave dancers alone when they are with someone.

SJG

Autism and the God Connection, William Stillman youtube.com

did he really tell her rech cleans toilets though?

chess,

He did. I heard him say it.