Couldn't get it up for Current Fave (CF)

I've had that experience with my ex-wife but not a stripper.

oh, didn't mention above that the 2nd time was just me wanking off before sleep

The older I get, the more it takes me to get aroused. Thank goodness for new crops of young strippers.

>Or was it the fact that I had cum twice in last 36 hrs was pretty much spent before coming to the SC?

That and avoid caffeine and alcohol, take a couple viagras too. Alcohol just numbs you so you dont feel anything. If you cum too quickly with FS, alcohol is a good thing, for kiddie LDs, its a bad thing.

-->"Familiarity with the CF. I'm relatively new to the SC scene and the main thrill for me is to find a new hot girl and take her to the VIP. "

There's something to be said for getting some strange, isn't it?

That said, I've had a small handful of ATFs that are the exceptions that prove the rule. That is, the more I know them, the more crazy I am for them. There was a time when I'd had a week of more sex than usual, culminating in my then-gf climbing on top of me in the morning, just a few hours before I left to the strip club. I told my buddy, "I'm sex-ed out for a couple days, but will hang out and watch". Not happening. My ATF comes up, and just like always, she gets me hard. I take her to the VIP, where she keeps my hard until she decides it's time for me to cum. That girl was master of my cock, and it didn't matter how I felt, it always responded. And that, my friend, is why that particular stripper is one of my top 5 ATFs of all time.

Yeah – one would think the previous nutting would have some effect on the quality of one’s erections - also being that you had already been w/ two previous dancers perhaps your dick wanted to take a break since it was not feeling so energetic to begin with – i.e. only so many times the little-soldier can stand-up to salute if it’s not feeling at its best.

Also – IMO – and just IMO – I don’t think the fave did enough on her part to get you aroused – IMO she should have been “prepping” *you* instead of having you be her personal masseur.

And also could be a bit of the familiarity breeds contempt thing.


How old are you if you don’t mind sharing.

How old are you?

^I was thinking the same thing while reading this.

:):) My ATF always says I need time to "reload." It's natural.

^^^I'm not retreating, I'm reloading

OP- Does your gf not give it to you enough? Just wondering why you need to frequent strip clubs if you have a gf willing to satisfy you at home. I know some of us are sluts and aren't satisfied with just one woman but just curious.

I also wonder how old the OP is. Time to reload is vastly greater for a 60-year-old than for a 20-year-old. despite SJG's absurd claims to the contrary. When I was 40, I could cum twice from LDs in the same visit to a club; now, at 60+, I'm happy to cum from LDs twice in a week. Blowjobs are, of course, a completely different story. Until recently I thought I would need several hours to reload between BJs, but then I enjoyed two in two hours a couple of months ago.

It's B - Familiarity with the CF

I've known my CF for more than a year. I am mostly exclusive with her. I have not found one more beautiful. I've gone two weeks without any kind of release, thinking I will get a massive hard on when I'm with her. It barely gets hard. I have never LDKed with her or anyone else.
I am mid thirties.

Have you LDKed with your CF before?

My experience is that when I can't get it up its several factors at play:
1. Time since last ejaculation
2. Familiarity with your partner
3. Desire - are you really into it?
4. Physical reasons - medical conditions and pharmaceuticals
5. Other - Psychological state, hotness of the partner, her & your expectations, "fluffing", etc.

My ATF and I fucked at least weekly for more than 6 years. The first time I couldn't get it up with her drove me (and her) wild. She sucked my limp dick until I thought I'd have blisters - nothing. I week later, I was a stallion instead of a gelding. Climb back on.

I dont need any help. My dick is healthy

Thanks for the input guys :)

i'll be 38 soon and fit for my age weight-wise. I think it's a psychological issue too; when the CF asked if I do massages I thought she'd give me one but she wanted one for her, I wasn't offended, just thought it was strange. Her dances aren't great any way; she dances very slowly and sometimes can be a space cadet, however, she has a killer body, great tits and lets it be more sensual which I what I like. But this time I thought there was more air dance than before.

In a very extras-permissable Canadian club she hasn't yet allowed me to touch her kitty nor offered any extra when most girls at this club do. I'm not into extras ITC or OTC as I have a family with my GF of several years. May be she's taking me for granted, but she was the one who came over to me and asked where I'd been (as I hadn't been to this club for a couple of months). I think that will her last dance with me for some time.

Sex with the GF hasn't been great ever since she had our child and then gained just a bit of weight around the tummy and her tits sagged too. I know i'm an ass for watching porn and we've had many fights over the years when I got caught watching porn but now she's just accepted that the porn habit isn't easy to go away. But we do have sex regularly, although less frequently than before coz of the kid now.

I hardly went to SCs in my youth but now in the last 4 months it has almost become a weekly habit; I usually work late at the office and that's my alibi. I don't know if it's a mid-life crisis or what but these young hot girls have got me hooked and I've frequented around 10 clubs in my city and had dances with 40-odd different girls. I just hope that this fascination with the SCs diminishes over time.

typical old people problems. Good thing older women don't have this issue. Their sexual libido goes through the roof.

“…I just hope that this fascination with the SCs diminishes over time …”

You’re still a young-guy – do you foresee your lust diminishing anytime soon – the SC-habit often proves hard to break once it becomes a habit – not saying it *can’t* be broken but not as easy as one thinks once you get used to getting that instant gratification when there is nothing else that will meet that type of instant gratification.

IMHO it is not the simple act of going/not-going to the SC – more importantly IMO it is the *why* one goes – one *can* stop going but IMO this does not deal with the underlying reason we go or causes us to go.

My 1.5 cents.

It sounds to me your current issue with “CF failure to launch” may be mostly familiarity and her taking you for granted as sure/easy $$$ - but that’s just an opinion not saying it *is* the fact.

Thanks Papi, agree with you on both the points.... the "why one goes" issue does warrant introspection

Esta don't worry time wounds all heels, if you live long enough that is.

"I just hope that this fascination with the SCs diminishes over time …”

Thats not gonna happen unless the gf meets your needs. Or unless you get a better gf. Or you become impotent, which is not what's happening here.

“… the "why one goes" issue does warrant introspection …”

To put-it more succinctly – IMHO, going to the strip-clubs is the *symptom* of the problem, whereas the reason why we go is the actual “problem” to be addressed/analyzed if indeed one feels there is a problem/issue.

Discovering the world of SC is akin to a teenager discovering porn, he can't get enough of it in the first few months but it should reduce over time if you have a good sex life or at least try to have a it. I know there's an issue with the quality of sex with the gf but it's not her fault that her body changed after child-birth and she does her best, I'm the one who needs re-adjust expectations and needs to do more to make it right.

Time to make friends with a guy named Pfizer.

^ LOL

Or become a polygamist

:)

I use drugs. I always get it up at the club (or anywhere) and can cum 3+ times in a night. I'm not bragging, it just the help from our overseas friends. Less than $2 a dose.