ROI On SC Frequency
MASCULINIST100
I know the conventional wisdom is that the more often you go to a particular club / see a particular dancer the more likely you are to get good service. And I have definitely experienced that.
However, sometimes I find after a while a dancer can start to take me for granted and the amount of time each dance lasts becomes shorter or the overall quality of the dance starts to suffer. Anyone ever find allowing a little (or a lot) of extra time between a visit gets the dancer motivated to provide quality service again?
However, sometimes I find after a while a dancer can start to take me for granted and the amount of time each dance lasts becomes shorter or the overall quality of the dance starts to suffer. Anyone ever find allowing a little (or a lot) of extra time between a visit gets the dancer motivated to provide quality service again?
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This outside contact might be civilian or P4P, but the guy has got to try. Otherwise he is just leading her on, or likely hiding something about his real life, like perhaps his marital status.
Most of the time if a girl talks to you and likes you, what she will really want is to end up making your breakfast by next morning. So if the guy does not try to close, then he is hurting her feelings, and she will bite back.
Been There!
SJG
IMO being a dancer is not all easy – having to have a cheerful look/demeanor/attitude every-time she's w/ a custy; be looking-good; pretending to be attracted to the custy (aka making him feel he's the greatest thing since sliced-bread); all takes effort and energy and I can see a dancer slacking off on the job (as even non-dancers do) – plus not to mention they have their bad-days and often drama in their personal-lives – so yeah; taking a break from them often times “re-motivates them”.
I once had an ATF who who go into this mode from time to time, but she was incredibly easy to manipulate -- I'd just go with another girl a couple of times, and she would snap right back to attention. I almost felt like she WANTED the competition to make things interesting for her and motivate her to compete for my business again. Playing these kinds of games isn't something I'm interested in anymore, I'd just fire hire, but back then I think I enjoyed the game.
That and what Papi and Subramen both said. You don't want them to slack on their hustle. You want them to be hungry for the $$ you have to spend.
No one wants to be stuck in a rut. It gets boring. Aren't most of the dancers interchangeable with each other, anyway?
Another solution might be to come in and immediately go to another dancer. When your CF asks why, let her know that your interactions have felt a bit stale and low energy lately. If she wants access to your wallet, then she'll reset her energy levels and attitude.
I agree with what was said above. It can't be easy for a dancer to be "on" continuously for every customer. A degree of stripper malaise is to be expected. But, it is up to the customer to (gently and politely) let the dancer know that you expect a certain level of service for your money.
It's just business ... but with a boner.
Regards,
Ishmael