Coming out of the closet?

The question is do you want to suck a guys dick? :)

Eventually you'll get tired of the chase and find someone you'll want to stick with. The fact this crossed your mind should scare the shit out of you.

I hope so rh48hr, to date there's only been one girl I could see myself being with exclusively. The problem is I didn't get her, and there's no way to tell that if I got her that I would still feel the same.

I gotta find a girl where sex isn't the main thing for me. I wanna find a girl where I enjoy doing other things with her much more than the sex. The sex shouldn't the main factor in a relationship.

Maybe you're starting to like girls that have an Adams Apple :-) ?

I'm pretty sure going to strip clubs at a young age cuts down your chances of meeting "the one"

Mikey you have given me good advice before, I haven't listened to it. I think I need to listen to your latest advice. Thanks bro.

to Clack/ Sex is always the main thing, but I'll bet the girl you are looking for doesn't work as a stripper.

Good advice. You may be looking in the wrong places ranukam

Find a girl you can be friends with and the sex is good or great. Good luck in your search. That's a lot tougher than just finding a hot girl.

If you're interested in guys sexually, you're on your own. I can add that I saw a tv show discussing the subject of gay people and the show said their brains were different, ie a male with a female brain would be attracted to females and a female with a male like brain would be attracted to females. They suggested the brain differences were a result of hormone imbalances while the mother was pregnant. In other words possibly too much stress while the mother is pregnant could result in a female baby getting exposed to too much testerone hormones changing her brain and visa versa for male babies.

In your case I think maybe you're talking about just not being happy with the sex. You want to be best friends too. Good luck in your search. my two cents.

Yeah; strip-clubs and the ease w/ which one can get a hot piece of ass can def desensitize one w.r.t. the opposite sex.

All you need to do is find a bi-sexual girl you love. Trust me you two can have a ball together. You will be surprised how many girls are bi-sexual, and love a guy who wants to play with other girls with her. She like you is not looking for another cock...she is looking for boobs ass and then pussy. You can even enjoy the thrill of the hunt together....

I heard 3 drinks will turn many women bisexual. I think that was on this site so it must be true.

Exactly Shark I obviously want the sex, but I also want to be best friends with whoever I'm with.

With the majority of girls I've been with it's just pretty much about the sex. You bust a nut, then what's next? I want a girl that stimulates me mentally and physically. I want a girl where I have more fun hanging out with her than the actual sex.

If you really like a girl; don't have sex w/ her; and if you enjoy your time w/ her w/o having sex; then it'll be someone you enjoy being with overall (and then have sex when you know you like her for more than that).

A library is a place to find nice/good girls.

Finding a hot piece of ass is easy. Finding one that is not bat-shit crazy, and that you want to hang around with, long term, that's hard.

^^^ true

At your age it's pretty normal to get bored with new pieces of ass and keep chasing the next best thing.

There's some great advice here. The holy grail really is 1) hot 2) not crazy 3) has a career (not planning to just live off your cash 4) bisexual. Ticking all four boxes is tough. There are pros and cons to relationships.

What you need to do is change your avatar. That'll fix everything.

Maybe the op wants to start a search for a unicorn. tuscl.net

Here's a pic or chart to help find these rare creatures. i.ytimg.com