Anal sex question

Whatever makes you feel better buddy. We're here to support you no matter what. Its OK.

Why are you scared? I like fucking a girls ass but for me it's got to be something she likes and wants to do with the same enthusiasm. Some girls I have fucked prefer it up the ass.

Go with Ginger, DS would of probably asked for it already if she was into it.

A third option if you don't want to alienate either one of them: check TER. You can get a short-term membership relatively cheaply, search your area or other areas to your heart's content (or until your eyes bug out), and then set up a one-off play date to try it out and just get it out of your system.

Not sure why anal became so popular, but in the porn industry these days, seems there isn't anything produced without anal play.

It's almost 2016, stop acting like anal is some scary taboo thing. Do it with whichever you would enjoy it most with... Ask DS if she's ever done it to guage her reaction, then ask. Tell her you won't be upset if she says no. If she says no, I guess ask Gingerbread. If you really want it with DS, give a her little present before you ask.

One of my girlfriends loved anal. So we'd alternate. Do what you want, guy, it's all fun. Go with your gut feeling.

That is, guys. I'd fuck her mouth, I'd fuck her pussy, I'd fuck her ass. Not she'd do my ass. LMAO

And by present I mean jewelry or something she really likes. That is if you really want to put in work to have anal with the beloved DS.

If your DS doesn't like it, and that means tried it before, leave it alone. If she hasn't, she might want to try. It takes a little planning but the 'taboo' part makes it interesting. It it was easy to set up it wouldn't be as much fun.

Nina's right about jewelry.

John, man up and take the lead.

While she is lying face down on the bed and you are fucking her, just lean down and whisper in her ear: "I'm going to fuck your ass now". And then switch holes. Done. Just wear a condom.

Corvus, isn't that more of an SJG thing? Course, then again, she wouldn't be sleeping when John climbs on top of her.

"C. Both A and B"

Brilliant option! We have a winner!

"John, man up and take the lead.

While she is lying face down on the bed and you are fucking her, just lean down and whisper in her ear: "I'm going to fuck your ass now". And then switch holes. Done. Just wear a condom."

I hope you use lube when you do this! If not you're suggesting first-degree dumbassery! Not brilliant!

JohnSmith69, just do it! Do it with Gingerbread and do it with DS! Just do it! And ask for a rimjob while you're at it!

Do I really need/want a condom? In other words, is the condom for stds or shit? I don't worry about stds with the DS but I imagine even her shit smells. And if the condom is to catch the shit then that makes me not want to do it at all.

Three words: Lots of lube.

Do I really have to spell this out step by step?

Yes, lube is important and you cannot have too much in most cases. And while it is rarely messy, and a condom is more for STDs, it never hurts to protect your dick from any danger no matter how unlikely. Shit on your dick is potentially a bad combination. And clean up with soap and water immediately afterwards.

And @PhantomGeek, yea, it does sound like a classic SJG move, but my girls are always conscious, willing, adventurous, and open minded. Did I mention they are awake and willing?

John, you sound very unsure, perhaps this type of adventure is not for you. At least until you run into a girl who grabs you around the neck and declares: "fuck my ass!".

Don't kid yourself John Smith, your DS had my BSLC up her ass many times. She even let rickthevulture put his beak up he asshole. Not my thing, but the little guy eats carrion so a little shit on the beak is no big deal.

And don't worry about lube. I never use that stuff. My penile spines tear you hairless ape up anyways. But I don't care. You're just a bunch of damn dirty apes. ROAR!

If she's got no 'rounds in the chamber' you don't have to worry about that. In all the girls I've fucked anally none had Percy about to pop his head out.

Yes, wear a condom for anal. If nothing else,it keeps your dick clean if if you wanna go elsewhere. With my ex gf I'd bareback anally I'd have to shower after.

Definitely try it, but honestly pussies and mouths feel better.

It always seems like a good idea when I'm high, and before I start asking questions about the particulars.

Maybe LDK can hook you up w/ a tranny – no need to convince them too much.

I think a lot of females may be kind of wary about anal or have been preprogrammed to think it's bad or nasty or that it may hurt (which can if the dude goes barbaric on her) – but a lot of times they end-up liking it after they've tried it.

I try for anal every time. If I don't get it I consider it a half a fuck.

Though I've had girls ask, and tried it once long ago, it creeps me out.

No thanks.

Think about it John. She is a young drug user. Who does she have sex with? What could go wrong with unprotected butt sex?

"Think about it John. She is a young drug user. Who does she have sex with? What could go wrong with unprotected butt sex?"

mikeya02 makes a brilliant point! Now is the time to really quiz her about former partners! Specifically, the lion and vulture! I would not want to pick up any vulture STDs!

Vulture STDs = not brilliant!

Four things to remember: 1] Condom! 2] Lube (not spit) otherwise unless she is a pornstar or likes pain you risk tearing something like the condom or skin or worse. 3] Not in a club ... way to much potential for a mess with no way to clean up. 4] Never go from ass to pussy without changing condoms unless you want her to get a wicked vag infection.

JS69, if you go for it, finger her pussy while you are going in and out -- you can feel yourself and it can be a real turn on for you.

I only have one thing to say lube, lots and lots of lube. Oh and if she's new to it laying down on her stomach will be more comfortable.

No Shit! There is actually something JS69 has not done yet?

Well, I sure know one thing, he won't be shy about letting know about it when he does it.

SJG

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Ask but she may turn it down. I have no interest in it and likely wouldn't do it unless he was a monogamous partner, he really wanted it and used a condom (germs are easily spread from anal material).