Using a Strip Club as it is Legally intended

After 17 years of clubbing(18-35) and mainly sad to say in clean to grey area clubs. I've blown through alot of well spent money on these services. Been through the make it rain faze, 30 lappers in a night and 120min block of time

I've learned a lot and I've calmed my ass down as well lol. For me i debate stage tipping as low as $20 to as high as $60 for a night. As well as lap dances go i debate it as well from as low as 4 to 8 dances for the visit. Drinks only if i feel the need. Used to get water or a beer but, i started taking breaks outside for fresh air and cheap refreshments in my car lol

As for the block of time 15 to 30 min for my highs and lows.

So as you can see depending on the clubs i go to and the prices of lap dances ( $5 my low and no higher than $20 per song for 2 way contact aka high mileage) i can spend $150 to $300 on a clubbing visit without sex witch is ok in some respects because i do enjoy the services but i also understand i could had enjoyed sex.

This is kinda the struggles i find myself in as i still want to enjoy the basic and legal activities but maybe at a reduce cost.

So often i try to keep stage to $30, dances to 4(about $20-$80)but, often i feel like this is to light although i have had plenty nights full of fun for just $100. The $300 is a blast but feels to heavy or excessive for a non sex experience

"opinions on how much really should be spent on these categories"

i don't know about how much should be spent, because that's all a matter of personal preference

however, here's my typical visit:

lap dances: $70 including tips drinks for self: $15 cover, misc. tips: $10 stage tipping: $10

my visits are pretty tame, so i'm only spending about $100 per trip

^^^ I agree..btw is "taking a break for fresh air" code for taking a few tokes?

Yes i either get the dances or the block of time not both...both only happens at dirty clubs aka extras clubs dances are fluffers and sex for the block of time but that's for another thread.

I suppose i could just keep it to a clean $200. I mean money isn't the issue im just trying to be wise and get the best bang for my buck

I love the idea of the $100 visit its y I've did home work on tuscl just to find those $5-$10 dances at semi to high mileage

JUICE,

Quit with all these retarded questions about how much to spend. Spend WHAT YOU WANT TO and WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD and WHAT YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH. Most busy nights, there will be a guy spending $1,000 in a club, and another guy sitting next to him spending $20.

Mikea you and SJG bust me over and over

BUS TESTED!!!

Shaylin well excuse me for thinking to much lol. Its just in my nature to analyse the activities i love to do like poker, coaching youth football, church pastor, strip club patron, factory wing supervisor and so on. I just strive to be more efficient and profitable/productive with my resources(time,money,friends)

my last two visits, roughly two two for ones total $60 with tip maybe 10 to 20 in stage tips, only one dollar with almost no tipping at a time but I might tip twice. possibly up to 20 to 30 in drinks including one 6 to 9 dollar dancer drink. quantity of everything could drop I spent roughly 60 total around two weeks ago and about 80 last week. I'm saving more money than ever at this rate.

I've lost a lot in my 401k recently so not spending much seems fine with me. I was apparently foolish getting bullsh on stocks the last few days.

church pastor - are you serious?

Alright Juice I'll play along to make you happy.

on a typical night when I am driving: $10-$15 Cover $20-$40 Drinks (Usually around $7 each and I usually just give the waitress a $10) $5-$20 Stage tips, I tip girls I don't want to get lappers from, because I'm polite like that. Ugly girls need tips too. $0-$15 Dancer drinks, if a dancer sits and chats and I am interested I will buy her a drink $0-$200 Lapdances, most places I go a dance is $20 or $25 and if I am getting standard lapdances. If I don't see anything I like, I don't get any dances. $200-$300 Typical full service cost at the clubs where that is a normal option.

Shark yea me2 on the saving money part

ITC, my typical layout: Stage tipping: $0-$10 Lap dances $0 Block of 30min $0 VIP (3 songs) dances: $200 Drinks and food for self & dancer: $100

church pastor - are you serious? Lol believe it or not its true but , its a liberal community. I actually hold a degree from the southern Baptist bible college in my area non credited though. Its y im back in trade school. I dont preach or pastor for money...i work my ass off at a factory for my cash.

Thanks for sharing bro it does help..also you made me laugh bitch

Drinks and food for self & dancer: $100

As cheap as i am with drinks this ^^^ in resent years i do ponder doing because it gives you a beautiful chance to really visit and dialog with your girl before activities. In the long run i could see this bringing more trust and intimacy between the two

This is y i like to look at my technics and see whats working and whats not

I might implement this strategy soon because I've never really used it

You left out the "Extras" category. That's where I spend most of my money. I haven't had a lap dance in years.

Lol^^^ this guy i like

---> "As cheap as i am with drinks this ^^^ in resent years i do ponder doing because it gives you a beautiful chance to really visit and dialog with your girl before activities. In the long run i could see this bringing more trust and intimacy between the two"

Well, if you're one of the guys who doesn't enjoy drinking and talking with the girls, then 4-5 hours straight of drinking with the same girl is going to drive you insane. I love drinking and flirting and shooting the shit with a gorgeous young woman -- and I get my extras OTC so no worries that the alcohol clubs are no-extras clubs -- so it totally works for me. There is no doubt in my mind that I get heavily YMMVed from this approach, but not so much so that it's worth doing if you don't really love it.

I actually do enjoy that type of time spent...with escorts i usually pay for a extra hour for snuggling and conversation then next hour for the fun....as im getting older i really think i might enjoy this a lil more...i think you just convinced me to add this to my game...so you think i should cut back on lap dances ? Since really i want the OTC more

I think it's all about what you like. I find lap dances completely useless, especially at the low-touch alcohol clubs I go to. I literally touch her 10x more when she's sitting next to me (hell, I've had my fingers buried 2 knuckles deep in girls pussies and assholes, out there at my table, in heavily-patrolled clubs) than I can from a lapdance. I only spend for VIPs, because there's lots more room to maneuver for a girl who wants to please me.

Yea if i can't get 2 way contact i spend a lot less to almost 0. I also find myself going for the block of time but with no sex 15min seams good enough a rare 30min

It's very possible i might just try $100 at the table with $100 for the 15min VIP

That would work well with even adding the OTC carrot for more $$$ back in my room if she desired to. Plus it might up OTC because the time spent made her more comfortable with me...i like this idea..thank bro

You ever just spend the $100 at the table and shoot for OTC ?

I kinda like that move...hell if i did it like that i could go up another $50-$100 and hold my favorite down at the table...snuggle up, and shoot for OTC and if not hell i save money but i spent some solid time with a sexy woman that over time could even pay out.....very nice very nice

"You ever just spend the $100 at the table and shoot for OTC ?"

No, I tend to do looong SC trips, often (not always) with buddies, and we plan to be there for hours. Plus I like my OTCs to be like my SC trips only more so... e.g., meet for lunch, go strip clubbing and drinking all afternoon, have sex, and even after that, sometimes instead of going home, go back out to party more or have her crash with me in the hotel room.

Hell yea....i like your style bro

Thanks for shooting the shit and brainstorming with me it's been helpful

I'm moving towards just stage tipping and drinks for myself and the dancers. Lapdances are a waste of money, especially in my area.

How much for greasing the bouncers?

To me, really depends on many factors, and there are no "set" rules. Factors can include, first visit or are you are a regular, have a CF or playing the field, know the management/bartenders, quick visit or stay a while, day or evening, etc. You should get the picture.

Juice: $0-100 drinks and food.

You know if a club offers food, juice is gonna order some chicken tenders or some cheese sticks!

This is my breakdown from last night. Stage tipping: $50?(give or take) Lap dances: $300 2 different dancers Drinks for self: $15 Cover: $11 I was there for 2 hours.

Normally I spend more money drinking and less on lap dances.

How much for greasing the bouncers?

Lol Mo"Head

the dancers. Lapdances are a waste of money

Yea same im my area unless i drive to follies

You know if a club offers food, juice is gonna order some chicken tenders or some cheese sticks!

Lol, you damn right i will

Cover? $15 - 20 Stage tipping ? 40 - 60 Lap dances ? usually 3 each from 3 to 4 dancers at 2- per song or 3 for 100 - $300 - 400 Block of 30min ? no Drinks for self ? $50 - 60 with tips Drinks for dancers ?$10 - 30

Stage tipping: $20-$100 depending on length of visit

Lap dances: $20/per song = $60-$120 depending on length of visit

Block of 30min: $150 + tip (tip = $50-$150 depends on type of services rendered)

Drinks for self: $20 for a couple of sodas + tips

Drinks for dancers: I mostly go to Northern Kentucky clubs that use the "buy the lady a drink" hustle where you buy the dancers different priced drinks that equate to different amounts of time i.e. $20 for a drink that equals a 1 song lapdance or $150 for a drink that gets you 30 minutes in vip.

If none of my favorites are there I may spend 2-3 hours at the tip rail and get a few lapdances from various dancers. These trips usually cost about $100-$200. ($50-$100 stage tips + $20 drinks + $40-$80 lapdances)

If one of my favorites is working I usually sit at the rail tipping until after her first stage rotation. I then move to one of the tables for a little flirting and some mild hands on fun. Then a 30 minute vip. These trips usually last 60-90 minutes and cost about $200 + tip in the vip. ($20-$40 stage tips + $20 drinks + $150 vip)

If it's an off night and I don't find anyone worth while, I may be in and out after 30 minutes spending only $20 in stage tips.

I wait for the girls who give me UHM/VHM dances for me and make me but in two songs. At $10 a piece I tip them a little for their effort so total of $30 for dances and about $10-$20 for drinks. Add about $5-$10 for stage tipping and I'm out the door for around $60-$70 each visit. Boom! (Mic drop)

Good thing I'm not spending much at the strip club because I'm losing thousands in the stock market hoping for a bounce. Now ISIS attacks. I can make a killing if I just start doing the opposite of whatever I was going to do.

^^^ Unless you're old and need to spend your 401k in a few years, any drop in the market is a good thing as long as you're adding to it. Volatility should be embraced, not feared!

Waiting for LDK to speak in this thread as he's the best man that pays for clubbing without sex. I do so too, but I'm extremely stingy and picky and don't go as often as you gentlemen do.