Giving a Woman an Orgasm
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
So, I'm fucking more women now than ever before in my life. Yes divorce is good. One interesting observation is how unique and different women are in what gets them off.
Sure guys have our different sexual preferences, but you can get a guy off in pretty much any way. Hand job, blow job, pussy fuck, titty fuck, etc., a decent looking woman does even a mediocre job of any of these and I'll be good even if it's not my first choice. A woman would have to be incredibly incompetent, or ugly, to not give me an orgasm if she wants to no matter what method she chooses.
Not so with women. You've often got to know what act(s) give them an orgasm. Women are far more complicated, unique, and sometimes more limited than men in what gets them off. For example,
Everything did it for the DS. She made me feel like a stud because I could perform any sexual act(s) and she was always good for at least two orgasms. If I did something that she really liked (which I always did unless we were experimenting with something new) then three orgasms were likely. Four or even five happened a few times especially when I spent a while fucking her with my tongue. Adding a vibrator to her clit would lead to the same result but make it happen faster. I'm guessing that she would've probably cum from anal as well, but she broke it off just as we were moving in that direction. Perhaps now we'll have a chance to continue that pursuit.
Then there's DS II. Like her namesake, she loves oral. It drives her insane with lust and desire. But she can't cum that way. Loves oral, but you have to fuck her to finish. Bareback of course.
My wife (yes, this is the only time I have ever mentioned my wife in a thread on sexual satisfaction) was clit focused. Lick her clit and she'd cum. fuck her and rub her clit and she'd cum. But that's it.
Free girl, on the other hand, doesn't give a shit for oral or doing anything to her clit. I've basically given up on it with her cause I don't need to. Just put a dick in her and she goes nuts. Seriously she has little reaction to anything until I start fucking her. Ten seconds into fucking she's moaning, talking dirty, choking me lightly, twisting my nipples, and just generally being a freak. A few minutes of fucking and she cums every time. Clitoral stimulation doesn't t do much for her. She just wants me inside her.
Everyone but the DS just has just one orgasm, unless we wait a short while and then do it again. But the DS could move freely and rapidly from one orgasm to another no matter what sex act was being engaged in.
Video girl has never cum with me. Partially this is because it takes a lot of work to get her off. And partially it's because she's the only stripper that doesn't do a full GFE for me. She excels at being my mouth slut, and I'm happy with that. From all appearances so is she.
So each one is different. Doing what makes one woman cum sometimes won't do it for another woman. Each time with each woman, I have to modify the various act(s) that I know will get each one off.
Several questions. First, for the ladies, what makes you cum? Second, for the guys, what makes your ladies cum? Third, for SJG, what have you read on the internet about what gives women orgasms? Fourth, for ski bum, what has 33 years as a divorce lawyer taught you about what makes women cum? Lastly, for the trolls, never mind. No woman would fuck a troll.
Sure guys have our different sexual preferences, but you can get a guy off in pretty much any way. Hand job, blow job, pussy fuck, titty fuck, etc., a decent looking woman does even a mediocre job of any of these and I'll be good even if it's not my first choice. A woman would have to be incredibly incompetent, or ugly, to not give me an orgasm if she wants to no matter what method she chooses.
Not so with women. You've often got to know what act(s) give them an orgasm. Women are far more complicated, unique, and sometimes more limited than men in what gets them off. For example,
Everything did it for the DS. She made me feel like a stud because I could perform any sexual act(s) and she was always good for at least two orgasms. If I did something that she really liked (which I always did unless we were experimenting with something new) then three orgasms were likely. Four or even five happened a few times especially when I spent a while fucking her with my tongue. Adding a vibrator to her clit would lead to the same result but make it happen faster. I'm guessing that she would've probably cum from anal as well, but she broke it off just as we were moving in that direction. Perhaps now we'll have a chance to continue that pursuit.
Then there's DS II. Like her namesake, she loves oral. It drives her insane with lust and desire. But she can't cum that way. Loves oral, but you have to fuck her to finish. Bareback of course.
My wife (yes, this is the only time I have ever mentioned my wife in a thread on sexual satisfaction) was clit focused. Lick her clit and she'd cum. fuck her and rub her clit and she'd cum. But that's it.
Free girl, on the other hand, doesn't give a shit for oral or doing anything to her clit. I've basically given up on it with her cause I don't need to. Just put a dick in her and she goes nuts. Seriously she has little reaction to anything until I start fucking her. Ten seconds into fucking she's moaning, talking dirty, choking me lightly, twisting my nipples, and just generally being a freak. A few minutes of fucking and she cums every time. Clitoral stimulation doesn't t do much for her. She just wants me inside her.
Everyone but the DS just has just one orgasm, unless we wait a short while and then do it again. But the DS could move freely and rapidly from one orgasm to another no matter what sex act was being engaged in.
Video girl has never cum with me. Partially this is because it takes a lot of work to get her off. And partially it's because she's the only stripper that doesn't do a full GFE for me. She excels at being my mouth slut, and I'm happy with that. From all appearances so is she.
So each one is different. Doing what makes one woman cum sometimes won't do it for another woman. Each time with each woman, I have to modify the various act(s) that I know will get each one off.
Several questions. First, for the ladies, what makes you cum? Second, for the guys, what makes your ladies cum? Third, for SJG, what have you read on the internet about what gives women orgasms? Fourth, for ski bum, what has 33 years as a divorce lawyer taught you about what makes women cum? Lastly, for the trolls, never mind. No woman would fuck a troll.
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There was this retired stripper I was seeing, and she was a nerd, lived alone... So I was fairly confident I was the only person she was having sex with at the time, or she wasn't having sex often with other people. Sometimes it would take me over 20 minutes to get her off orally. She would be on the edge for so long but couldn't get over that "hump" once I did, she would have a massive orgasm and be spent for the rest of the night. There is now way I could let her ride me for 20 minutes straight as hard as she preferred which may have gotten her off. She was too small, tight and fast for me to last that long.
I remember reading an article that said "when giving a woman oral sex, imagine licking honey off of a butterflies wings versus licking a spot on the wall."
I'll try that tonight.
And don't take what I read about butterflies and shit too literal - I'm not getting all Albegonz on you... It's simply a technique. Just think you probably eat a juicy steak at a fancy restaurant in front of a hot date a different way than you eat a cheeseburger while driving at 1am...
Dream Civilian?
Or perhaps, Dream Whore?