98% of the time I leave with her which usually involves waiting for her to get dressed and/or exchanging phone numbers. 1% of the time she leave first which is usually after a wham bam, thank you mam. 1% of the time I leave first which is usually because she was so lousy that I couldn't wait to get away from her.
Usually I wait for her to get dressed and leave together. If Im somewhere where I know I wont be back again anytime soon I leave first by myself it I dont have a stellar connection with the dancer.
Same as Shailynn, I usually leave with her. But if she's lame or has grossed me out (see spitting on the floor), I'll leave ahead.
Most of the time together
If she's a regular, or I want her to be a regular, then I always wait for her. But if it's a one time thing, or if she spit my cum out in the floor, then I just take off.
Depends. Some will tell me to wait with them to get dressed and then chat. Otherwise, on to the next one.
Usually leave together.
Unless it's a really bad VIP experience and I don't want to repeat, ever. Then I leave first before she's dressed and I'm out of there.
I only do VIP with the CF, so together
About the same as shadowcat.
the bouncer
I dunno SC, even with that wham bam, thank you ma'am, wouldn't you feel a little awkward what with being alone in a VIP room even though you're a patron and not a worker?
I usually take off first – but not necessarily b/c I don't wanna stick around – more like I wanna give-her her space after we are done (and I assume once we are done and she got paid that she rather be left alone and do w/e it is she wants; usually go to the dressing-room).
Often times they either wanna sit there and count their $$$ or take their time to get dressed – so I rather give them their space to do what they wanna/need to do rather than me just sit or stand there doing nothing.
I also think maybe she rather leave out of VIP alone – if custy and dancer leave together everyone can see them and know what went down – if they leave separately I get the sense is not as obvious who was with who doing what.
Like others have said, if it is with a regular we always walk out together. If it is a new dancer or a VIP that is just so so, I will leave first, whether to give them their space as Papi says or to move on to the next victim err lady.
@Hotstuff, it's an old school etiquette thing. Holding the door, escorting her out, those so-called "gentlemanly" behaviours that some of use grew up with and see no reason to stop doing.
Possibly outdated, but I'm going to be holding doors, pulling out chairs and other such, for ladies (even if most people won't view them as such) till I'm no longer able.
If you want me to leave you there, you have but to ask. :)
together
I said yes to one dancer I hadn't seen before during an announced two for one dance special. About halfway through the first song, she hadn't taken her top off and I said most girls take their top off on the first dance. She said she wasn't like most dancers. I just about paid her the $25 for two dances right there before the second song even started. I didn't pay for one dance topless plus a little bit of grinding on the other, it was supposed to be a two for one. I did not tip her. I likely will not tip her on stage either if I see her again. I can't imagine her making too much money not taking her top off the first song if she does that with other customers. Her name was something like Lace or Lacy. A new dancer I hadn't seen before in club Lust. I noticed no one tipped her when she went over to the VIP stage. She must be getting a reputation already I thought. Probably won't be there long.
If the girl is hot and I enjoy looking at her half naked a lot, I'll stay and watch her half naked before leaving the lap dance area. Otherwise I might be the one leaving first.
Being a gentleman has gotten me a number of free numbers that have lead to free get togethers, its almost sad how far things have gone downhill that women see proper manners as something so rare. I almost always leave the vip with the dancer, usually after we chat post fun as it seems many will not even treat them like people making me stand out.
Only time I have left before the dancer was when one of the other girls needed to get to the dressing room/locker area.
@Eagle1191 proper manners is varies between cultures. If you want true tradition, tell that bitch to quit working, get in the kitchen and make you a sandwich! Don't have the "audacity" to tell a woman to make you a sandwich? To not work? Well then, expect change like everything else in the world
Oh thats just for lazy people, I prefer not to br poisoned by a person who can't cook.
With you, 98% of the time together.
If she's going to continue hanging out with me, pretty often we leave with her holding my arm or holding hands. If we're through with each other, often she'll hold my arm until we reach the point in the hallway where other people will see us, then she'll let go -- can't have the next PL get jealous :)