I Did Something with a Stripper That I Should Not Have Done

So I had to call Walmart and answer a bunch of questions to prove that the transactions was not some type of fraud. My favorite question was "why are you sending this woman this money?" I desperately wanted to say that she's a stripper who gives me the best blow jobs of my life and I'm giving her an advance on our next meeting. I so wish I could have said that. But of course they would have declined the transaction since paying for sex is illegal. And we can't have that. So I said it was a gift. Let's hope that explanation doesn't turn out to be true.

Well, I guess it depends on how tight your are with her. But giving her an advance, I don't know! I hope that's what it turns into thought, an advance. Enjoyed your previous post also, but I too poor to get a stripper for OTC action on a regular basis:(

JS - A girl who can give great blowjobs can get a guy to do things they normally wouldn't. I had a girlfriend who wasn't crazy about giving them, but when she did OMG I was in heaven. I would do just about anything for her after one of them. I feel your pain.

In my limited experience w/ giving dancers $$$ w/o anything in return is that they'll easily turn it into a habit – some will purposely string along a PL with fake or real tales of woe and some seem to almost-always be in genuine financial distress and have no choice but to continuously ask.

So the "I don't want you to pay me for sex" girl turns out to be the "pay me in advance" girl

Ya the best drug dealers alway give the first hit for free.

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GAC, this is video girl, not free girl. I'm still teaching free girl how to give a good blow job.

Oh, well OK then. Still suspect FreeOTC girl will be doing the same shit.

Against my better judgement and for the 2nd time, I paid my ATF's cable bill with my credit card. Her cable service had been cut off because the bill was overdue. I know she makes good money, but she is constantly behind on her bills.

Today she repaid me with something better than dollars. I did not get ripped off this time, but paying in advance is always a bad idea.

Paying in advance has never worked out well for me. You'll probably end up paying her something at the next OTC even if it should be free .

Cross your fingers. The less time between the advance and the collection, the better. Remember the Stripper Money Management System (SMMS) means they will always find ways to spend as quickly as you shell out.

You could treat this as a tip for the service she's provided so far. A bonus of sorts.

For everyone who answered this post you are the dolts that I made my money off of.There is one born every minute.

I once paid in advance via Western Union for an out of town escort who was drop dead gorgeous. Had the session and a year later Western Union sent me a claim form to return the money as the prepayment had never been picked up. Signed the form and a few weeks later the check arrived via the friendly postman.

Does it mean that I got paid? (For time only, anything else was between consenting adults. LOL)

She paid me? Well that's my story and I am sticking to it.

Or...she could have returned the money because I wasn't very good? Now raising my hand as chessmaster's biggest PL.

Lol I had a regular send me an entire month's rent via western union and put it in my boyfriend(at the time)'s grandma's name. I never even saw the guy OTC ever, just kept stringing him along and letting him think he could one day do something more sexual with me than me dancing naked on top of him. That western union was a one time thing though with him... I was just being lazy and knew he would do it. :) Plus I prefer moneygram lol.

Now js69 if the girl wants to continue getting paid by you, she will take the advance and do exactly what is expected of her from you on your next designated otc meeting. If she was scamming you out of money she is either stupid or a drug addict; why would a girl fuck up a regular part of her income? See how it all pans out I guess.

Heh, I have paid in advance a couple of times, when it was with women I knew reaaaaallly well... and in both cases, the generosity worked both ways, as in, sometimes we'd do an OTC even though I was tapped out, and she trusted me to send $ the next day. Haven't done this in a few years, though.

What I have never, and would never do, is western union or anything like that. If she wants to get paid in advance by me, she texts me a photo of one of her checks and I deposit it directly into her account. If we don't trust each other with real names, etc., I'm definitely not trusting her with an advance on her services.

@ Nina,

Do you think it's ok for a guy not to pay you for your services?

Why would you think it's ok for a custy to send you a month's rent worth of $$$ under false pretenses?

^^I think it's OK because he said it was OK... I asked him for money for rent, and he gave me the money. I didn't tell him I'd give him a specific service in exchange, he just did it 'cause he was my regular at the tine and he always spent money ITC and had extra cash at his disposal. It was no big deal.

Time*

I've prepaid my ATF hundreds of times ( I joke that I'm the Western Union Man of the Year. Right now she owes me about 8 hours of ABA (anything but anal)

gawker, you're my hero, but I don't want to follow you in this regard.