Judging by the video it doesn't look forced at all. How many college freshmen do you know that would have to be "forced" to bury their face in a naked strippers crotch? Hell, that was probably the main reason this "victim" wanted to pledge the frat.
At least no one is bitching about the stripper being paid for it?
I might believe it was forced if there was something wrong with the pussy, like maybe the dude standing behind him naked maybe just dropped a load in it?
That guy ain't being forced to do anything. He's into it, as you'd expect. Just more politically correct bullshit insisting that guys being guys is "disturbing." What would these people say about what we do if this video is disturbing?
The question is why would you post that video onto the internet and identify your selves. The house is now permanently shut down even though no pledges were involved and the video was staged. The media and colleges are just looking for an excuse to shut down frats and sororities even though this stuff goes on all the time in political offices and Hollyweed parties. [I think most of the internet "frat porn" and "dorm porn" is staged for money by both pros and ametuers and simply titled as "Frat Party Gone Wild", "Dorm Orgy" or "Sorority Sluts" because the media has painted college dorms, frats and sororities as a continuous drunken party so everyone believes college life is like that.] While that shit went on at IU while I went to school I spent a bunch more time in class and studying than partying. One problem I see in colleges today is that the media portrayal of college life has now influenced how students think they should act (IE STUPID, witness spring breaks now). I guess I'll never understand why young people think that 'posting' everything on line is a necessity. I really don't give a crap what you had for lunch or when your last dump was. Posting something like this is going to force a reaction.
I dare say college life at 75% of the schools/frats/dorms ARE out of control. The media portrayal is an UNDER-representation of what really goes on due to peer pressure to mainatin silence and respect the "brotherhood" over candor and truth. I have three boys in college and we talk openly.
It should alarm fathers of daughters AND sons that sex, alcohol and drugs are everywhere (and in many initiation rites, compulsory). It should alarm fathers that 25% of all college women claim to have been sexually assaulted at some point while in college. Every college male is one accusation away from having their reputation fucked for years, if not forever. It should alarm fathers how many students each year are hospitalized for or die from alcohol poisoning.
Hey, I am absolutely all for having harmless fun. I am also all for what happens between two sober, consenting adults in private is nobodys business. But, it is 2015. Ritualized, coerced drinking, drug use or sex in order to receive inclusion in social groups should be long since a thing of the past by now. If that kid says he doesn't want to eat out the herpes-infested snatch of a stripper, I can imagine how badly the "brothers-for-life" would fuck that kid up in some other way. If that kid was coerced into becoming belligerently drunk to the point of losing the ability to exercise judgment and winds up with herpes, what a hilarious time everyone will have had!
Thinking about what i would want to do during a private dance tonight is one thing. YUM! However, thinking about my 19 year old son being coerced into becoming blasted, then stripped to his boxers and made to perform sex in a room of 100 screaming, drunk, horny dudes (or suffer the consequences of saying "no thanks") is quite another.
Fucking is fucking, but this neanderthal shit sickens me.
The 25% statistic is bullshit, has been proven to be bullshit and will always remain bullshit. There's a problem with college culture right now, agreed, but let's at least have a real conversation about it.
This is totally wrong and wasn't "forced". But like someone mentioned who were the idiots taping it. Now the frat is fucked and not in a good way.
Now for sexual assault....
Now I am not making light of sexual assault...... AGAIN I AM NOT MAKING LIGHT OF SEXUAL ASSAULT....
But some of the sexual assaults reported by these women via survey (which are slanted) are more of being ashamed for what took place or feeling of guilt.
Some examples...
1. Now did a girl get talked into a 3-some while drunk and next day was branded a "slut" by her peers? Possible...and she claimed assault... (some college athletes have been under the microscope on this exact issue)
2. Did a woman go to a party and hook up with someone while she was in a relationship. Then wants to come "clean" with her partner and says.... well I was drunk and this guy took advantage of me?? (again another instance happened to college athlete)
3. Again... drunk woman hooking up at a party and gets "branded" a slut by peers.... So again says guy took advantage of them.
You see the main factor in it all is "drunk". These situations happen and the survey was slanted to make those scenarios as being "assaulted". Now again..... Sexual Assault is wrong and needs to be dealt with harshly and swiftly. But some of the stuff you see isn't Assault and once allegations are thrown out towards a male they are there for life even if that male is found innocent. There needs to be a happy medium that nobody has thought of on this issue. Because also the real victims don't come out because of fear as well.
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I might believe it was forced if there was something wrong with the pussy, like maybe the dude standing behind him naked maybe just dropped a load in it?
Yeah, he's not being forced.
Then again, doing that in a room full of guys wouldn't apeal to me as something I'd be wanting to do volunterily.
It should alarm fathers of daughters AND sons that sex, alcohol and drugs are everywhere (and in many initiation rites, compulsory). It should alarm fathers that 25% of all college women claim to have been sexually assaulted at some point while in college. Every college male is one accusation away from having their reputation fucked for years, if not forever. It should alarm fathers how many students each year are hospitalized for or die from alcohol poisoning.
Hey, I am absolutely all for having harmless fun. I am also all for what happens between two sober, consenting adults in private is nobodys business. But, it is 2015. Ritualized, coerced drinking, drug use or sex in order to receive inclusion in social groups should be long since a thing of the past by now. If that kid says he doesn't want to eat out the herpes-infested snatch of a stripper, I can imagine how badly the "brothers-for-life" would fuck that kid up in some other way. If that kid was coerced into becoming belligerently drunk to the point of losing the ability to exercise judgment and winds up with herpes, what a hilarious time everyone will have had!
Thinking about what i would want to do during a private dance tonight is one thing. YUM! However, thinking about my 19 year old son being coerced into becoming blasted, then stripped to his boxers and made to perform sex in a room of 100 screaming, drunk, horny dudes (or suffer the consequences of saying "no thanks") is quite another.
Fucking is fucking, but this neanderthal shit sickens me.
Now for sexual assault....
Now I am not making light of sexual assault...... AGAIN I AM NOT MAKING LIGHT OF SEXUAL ASSAULT....
But some of the sexual assaults reported by these women via survey (which are slanted) are more of being ashamed for what took place or feeling of guilt.
Some examples...
1. Now did a girl get talked into a 3-some while drunk and next day was branded a "slut" by her peers? Possible...and she claimed assault... (some college athletes have been under the microscope on this exact issue)
2. Did a woman go to a party and hook up with someone while she was in a relationship. Then wants to come "clean" with her partner and says.... well I was drunk and this guy took advantage of me?? (again another instance happened to college athlete)
3. Again... drunk woman hooking up at a party and gets "branded" a slut by peers.... So again says guy took advantage of them.
You see the main factor in it all is "drunk". These situations happen and the survey was slanted to make those scenarios as being "assaulted". Now again..... Sexual Assault is wrong and needs to be dealt with harshly and swiftly. But some of the stuff you see isn't Assault and once allegations are thrown out towards a male they are there for life even if that male is found innocent. There needs to be a happy medium that nobody has thought of on this issue. Because also the real victims don't come out because of fear as well.
Who forces a guy to perform oral sex on a stripper? Seriously? The only issue is that this came out public. Was one of the pledges secretly gay?