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Clackport
Washington
I don't what to fuck to name this thread, so untitled it is!
Imagine this guy who's in his mid 20's. He absolutely loves women. He thinks they're the greatest creation on planet Earth. He meets women at strip clubs, nightclubs, bars, gym, work, etc. Of course the sex is the thing he loves about being with women the most. He's been in relationships, but he's always had a cheating problem. He's literally just addicted to women, and all different kinds of women.
He gets in a relationship with this girl a couple of years ago, and things change. First of all her beauty is breathtaking. She's beautiful on the inside and the outside. She's very nice, caring, loyal. Basically the perfect girl. Of course the sex is great, but it's the main part of the relationship. He loves just holding her close watching TV, he loves just looking into her eyes when he wakes up etc, just the simple things in life. He's only been with her for six months, but he knows he wants to be with her a year, but he knows he wants to be with her for the rest of his life.
He tries so hard in being the perfect man for her, and in that he makes a lot of mistakes. She breaks up with him. The first month or so he tries to win her back, but she's not budging. He's calling and texting her like crazy, she rarely responds. Finally she told him this is the last conversation they're gonna have, and she told him to delete her number. He finally let go.
His friends are telling him to move on, there are plenty other fish in the sea. He agrees with them at first and starts hitting the scene again like crazy and pulling girls left and right. It feels fun, but something was missing, a piece of his heart was missing, and none of the girls he got with had the missing piece.
He's upset and sad he messed it up with the girl of his dreams. He's in a relationship now, but it's not the same. He wants his ex back. It's been six months since there's been any contact with his ex.
Should he try contacting his ex to see if they can rekindle their love?
If contacting her isn't the right thing to do, what can he do to move on from her completely in his mind?
Is it healthy to feel this way?
He's getting with plenty of good looking girls, but why is this one girl seemingly have a hold on him?
Thoughts?
Imagine this guy who's in his mid 20's. He absolutely loves women. He thinks they're the greatest creation on planet Earth. He meets women at strip clubs, nightclubs, bars, gym, work, etc. Of course the sex is the thing he loves about being with women the most. He's been in relationships, but he's always had a cheating problem. He's literally just addicted to women, and all different kinds of women.
He gets in a relationship with this girl a couple of years ago, and things change. First of all her beauty is breathtaking. She's beautiful on the inside and the outside. She's very nice, caring, loyal. Basically the perfect girl. Of course the sex is great, but it's the main part of the relationship. He loves just holding her close watching TV, he loves just looking into her eyes when he wakes up etc, just the simple things in life. He's only been with her for six months, but he knows he wants to be with her a year, but he knows he wants to be with her for the rest of his life.
He tries so hard in being the perfect man for her, and in that he makes a lot of mistakes. She breaks up with him. The first month or so he tries to win her back, but she's not budging. He's calling and texting her like crazy, she rarely responds. Finally she told him this is the last conversation they're gonna have, and she told him to delete her number. He finally let go.
His friends are telling him to move on, there are plenty other fish in the sea. He agrees with them at first and starts hitting the scene again like crazy and pulling girls left and right. It feels fun, but something was missing, a piece of his heart was missing, and none of the girls he got with had the missing piece.
He's upset and sad he messed it up with the girl of his dreams. He's in a relationship now, but it's not the same. He wants his ex back. It's been six months since there's been any contact with his ex.
Should he try contacting his ex to see if they can rekindle their love?
If contacting her isn't the right thing to do, what can he do to move on from her completely in his mind?
Is it healthy to feel this way?
He's getting with plenty of good looking girls, but why is this one girl seemingly have a hold on him?
Thoughts?
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Net-net, he can only be what he is and if she couldn't live with him as he is, then there is no point in pursuing her. But cheer up - a new incredible love is just around the corner, especially for a guy so young.
Good luck to your friend.