Seems she got a b/f who is supporting her and quit - or was fired; she was vague on details. I talked with her last night on the phone and she seems happy to be taken care of for once (she was supporting her last b/f whom she kicked out a couple months ago.) I'm sad about it, but I'll get to see her with clothes on from time to time at least. I already miss her affections though. I've known her over 5 years so we had a pretty long 'relationship' as far as dancers go. I've seen her through 3 boyfriends and at least one girlfriend in that time.
My #2 is now my #1 CF by default I suppose, but I want a #1 who does OTC (she doesn't; I've asked) so the job remains open. I wish she'd change her mind on that but even The System and my best white polyester suit won't help. She's got a live in b/f which is fine but she's depressingly loyal to him even though she complains a lot. Oh well...Wish me luck in my search!
Being supported by and completely dependent on someone else with no income of your own would suck. i bet she gets tired of that arrangement pretty soon. Esp after the first "I pay the bills around here bitch" gets thrown at her.
Papi no shi!. I'm sure next time I see her I'll get more details. She just said she didn't leave under the best of circumstances. She's always been popular with management because she was a top earner and didn't make trouble, but she also has her moments like anyone. Something happened. The week it happened, she set up and stood me up on 2 dates in a week; I didn't take it too personally but she could have texted me beforehand. That's when I stopped going on days she worked, or went at night; too much SS.
Seaboarder: Yeah, I agree. She's still in her mid 20's so she has a lot of years left. She could walk in anywhere and get a dancing job on the spot, so I'm not worried; I just hope she doesn't go too far away. We live just a couple miles from each other now....so she'll move away if she gets a job at one of the more far flung clubs.
I'm confused... Were you meeting her OTC prior to her quitting/firing? If you were and she quit/fired from dancing, what makes you think she would quit OTC?
Yes I've done OTC with her; it's complicated. With a new b/f I'm in the friend zone for now, which is actually okay with me as I have a civi g/f I'd just assume continue to fuck bb without worrying about difficult conversations. I'll still miss the ATF in the club setting though. Good times.
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lol @ Rech.
Seaboarder: Yeah, I agree. She's still in her mid 20's so she has a lot of years left. She could walk in anywhere and get a dancing job on the spot, so I'm not worried; I just hope she doesn't go too far away. We live just a couple miles from each other now....so she'll move away if she gets a job at one of the more far flung clubs.