Unsolicited dances
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I imagine this has been posted b/f – even probably by me – but I read a recent review that reminded me of this.
Have you ever had a dancer approach you and start flirting w/ you; or grabbing your package; or dance for you (sorta; to where you are not sure if she is dancing for you or just playing around and flirting) – all the time you never asked her for dances nor did she ask you if you wanted any – but at some point in her flirting/act you tell her you don’t want any dances and then she tells-you you owe her $X.
Below is the review that reminded me of this happening to me a time or two.
A recent review of Treasures Houston:
Be very careful about letting them dance at your chair or on your lap. I went there around midnight with my wife and one of the girls came up and started giving me a lap dance, I thought this was cool, especially when she said touch me where ever you want. She went on for a good 10 minutes before another girl came up and started giving my wife a lap dance. After about 10 more minutes they stopped and the girl that was dancing for me said she danced for 10 songs and it is $20 per song and I owe here $200, the one that was with my wife said she danced 3 songs and owe her $60. We told them we never asked for a dance and they never said what it was going to cost or that they charge for it. It was our first and last time there also.
I gave them $100 which was mistake and complained to the manager who did seem to be concerned. The only reason I gave two stars is because the girls were not that bad and the manager seemed nice.
So make sure no girl starts dancing in front of you or you will pay the price.
Very bad business practice.
Not the place to go if you don't want to get hounded by the women.
If you want to go to a upscale professional place, go to the mens club and yes women are welcome also.
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I tipped her.
Fortunately I haven't run into any unsolicited dances.
For the reviewer you posted, if he didn't want her dancing for him, he shouldn't have participated with the ROB.
The girls make more money that way, when they don't ask permission first. They just dance, and then pull out their G-string to get you to give them $1.
If you don't want to play you just wave them on. But most guys play.
Dancers have told me that they make more money that way, just $1 at a time and not having to ask permission. They rake in about $180 per hour. For a largely Mexican venue that is real good.
The girls can be quite aggressive too.
Now here Dr. F writes about the Hong Kong bar.
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=2…
They will just come and sit on your lap and start DFKing you. They don't ask permission. Or they will come up to you and say, "give me a dollar". This is an invitation to fondle and kiss them.
Unsolicited is BETTER. The verbal pitches and the fixed dance prices and the booths destroy the quality of the interactions.
What do you guys think of Dr. F.'s narrative?
SJG
Robin Trower
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmoMb0gN…
I mostly sit at the bar now though, except for my forays to the stage, so it hasn't been an issue for quite some time. Though I did once get a girl who got upset with me because I didn't tip her for talking to me and trying to sell drinks and dances. :) Bartender told her she wasn't allowed to *ask* for tips.
I look at the web sites for Roaring 20's and for Garden of Eden, now liberated from the control of Deja Vu, but still similar looking.
I notice that most of the seating away from the stage looks to be high chairs, the height of bar stools.
This is not conducive to lap sitting, though some other sorts of front room fraternizing would work. Is this true, do they discourage lap sitting?
SJG
Thailand
http://bangkokredeye.com/wp-content/uplo…