So I met the OTC virgin. Despite the doubts of many (including me) she showed.
When I evaluate a new dancer, I have to be careful not to compare her to the most awesome stripper on earth who rocks my world with incredible sexual energy and amazing mutual intimacy. I compare every dancer to her at some level but I know that I shouldn't cause it wouldn't be fair and would just diminish the fun I have with non DS dancers. That'd be like expecting every ball player to be as good as LeBron James.
But applying normal and not DS standards, the newbie was surprisingly good. First though we had to overcome her fear. Turns out she was ver very scared cause she thought I might be a cop. Absolutely no doubt this was her first time. The DS wasn't as scared as this girl, and this one is several years older. So I took a few minutes to reassure her, and also to give her a tutorial on how to spot cops in strip clubs. The bottom line is no cop would invest the effort that I did in getting a date with her just to get a single prostitution bust.
She seemed relieved, and was very friendly from then on. She did everything despite earlier having refused a bj. And it was pretty good. Actually two years ago I probably would've thought that it was amazing. And despite her earlier sounding strict about time, she stayed well over an hour and we talked in the nude for a while about all kinds of things. I love talking to a nude woman after sex assuming that I don't fall asleep ( don't care so much for it beforehand, however, cause the little head's not much of a talker.). She said she was sorry for rejecting my offer of dinner and told me where she'd like me to take her to eat next time. Yes she is in love with me. Sorry I'm a tinsy bit high. I meant my money.
This date took a lot more effort than many of you would have been willing to invest. I get that. Hell I walked away completely once and only did it this time cause she brought it up and also cause my other date pierced her damn nipples without asking me. But at the very least I performed a public service here by making things easier for the next PL. And if we get a regular thing going that'd be another advantage of this investment of time.
So here are a few of my thoughts about trying out brand new OTC girls. First, if they or any other girl won't do what you want, then walk. I did here and she was back a couple of weeks later agreeing to do it all. But otherwise don't say no just cause she's new. Strippers are like a box o chocolates, so no way you can tell from the outside what you're gonna get. Plus, the DS was a first time OTC girl. Nough said.
Second, don't put up with SS, and don't let them rip you off, but otherwise be patient with them. A girl faces all kinds of potential risks by meeting us for OTC, and new girls aren't confident yet in evaluating those risks. Like most strippers, she'll be more comfortable and give better service if you are respectful instead of an asshole.
Third, recognizable that not all strippers are drug addicts. This girl refused my offer of free weed cause she doesn't partake. Well I guess this gives me something else that I gotta teach her.
Fourth, I know this is obvious, but girls who are desperate for money make great dates. This desperate need is also a very effective force in encouraging them to cross over to the dark side of fucking PLs OTC. I knew she was hurting but she seems much poorer than I had realized. For example, she drove an hour to an OTC date in the middle of July in a vehicle so old it has no ac. Fortunately my hotel had a good shower.
That was my experience. Anybody else ever taken an obvious OTC virgin on a date?
One time for me but there was none of the drama arranging the assignation that you experienced. This happened in a Calgary club, a club with touring dancers and private dances with virtually no contact. The club was The French Maid (now razed) and it was so close to my company's offices that I often had lunch there. I got to know one of the waitresses, tipping her generously, and she, in turn, got to know me and my strip club 'game'. This waitress would discreetly sound out the touring dancers for likely OTC candidates.
I am sure that my tame waitress gave me the 'in' with the OTC virgin. I had a few dances with the girl one evening at the club and broached the OTC idea. She agreed and I met her at the close of the club and walked with her the two short blocks to the Westin Hotel. During the short walk to the hotel the girl said to me, 'I've never done this before. You won't be nasty with me, will you?' I was very sceptical about that statement.
Her nervous behaviour during our first bout in the hotel convinced me of her bona fides. She did allow me a second shot on goal and it was much better. 3 further OTC assignations followed, one of them being a party/BBQ at my farm where she served as hostess. She did well as hostess for that party. The girl left dancing, entered the straight world, married, and moved to a different province.
I saw her twice after she left stripping, no sex either time. Once, she asked me for a character reference. I declined but pointed her to an oil patch company that had jobs available in her skill range. The second time she asked me to be Master of Ceremonies at the reception following her marriage service. I really gulped at that request but I also declined that invitation.
I have lost track of this girl......no clue how life has worked out for her.