I think yes. It could still feel good having someone rub up against you even if you're not sexually excited by it. plus you could have titties in your face.
I should add to this scenario for all the non drinkers out there, the drinks make you feel better than the dances do. What would you do? Continue to get dances?
Your "titties in your face" argument convinces me.
No and this is why I generally stopped getting LDs many years ago. I don't find them to be very exciting anymore. And in those rare instances when a girl is skilled enough to give me a woody during a LD, so what? Unless she is also accepting cash to do something serious about it besides grinding or a HJ, neither of which will finish me off, then getting aroused is pointless too.
I wouldn't get LD's if I didn't respond. I'm an unashamed user of chemical enhancers so I always respond, even multiple times. Better living through chemistry! If had to quit drinking, I would. I really enjoy hot women grinding my junk.
I think every guy is gonna be a bit different here.
For me, if I'm not rock hard by the end of dance #1, she's doing it wrong.
If I ain't hard at the bar I ain't getting dances.
If by "not sexually excited", you mean horniness-wise, then ya, she has to get me horny. But if you mean full hardon, sometimes I get full wood from a low-to-moderate contact lap dance, sometimes I don't. But regardless, as long as it gets me horny, then I'll enjoy the inevitable VIP dance with her much more
Yeah. If I ain't getting hard just looking at her and thinking of what might happen during the dance... Then she isn't the one for me to get dances from...
no extras either. That might cause sexual arousal.