Speaking of getting girls off script...

May 8, 2015, 11:17 AM

I went to the club last night. It was weirdly slow as hell. At night I'm used to having to at least stage tip, make eye contact or smile at a girl to be approached, but the thirst was real. When one girl complains about it being slow she's having a bad night; when four girls in a row complain there's something to it.

Anyways, this meant a lot of shooting the shit with dancers who had no one else they needed to hustle. Somehow I got into discussion with one dancer about her babydaddy drama. It was typical stuff where he wasn't interested in being a dad, but I definitely felt like her therapist for a few minutes.

Also had one dancer who hustled me hard and ended up cutting me a deal on a satisfactory (but not outstanding) VIP. She had a great body, but I've had as much fun with other dancers in the LD room for half the price.

Of course when it's slow it can also stir up drama between dancers. Girls who are busy earning don't have time to start shit. My girl's drunk - ass friend came over and interrupted us twice to bitch about this other girl dancing to her song set. The drunk is beautiful, but she's definitely a drunk stripper. I've never actually had a girl mess with her friend's hustle so significantly before.

Overall it was a decent night. I definitely enjoy it when it's slow and the girls are thirsty.

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rockstar66610 years ago

I had a good night too. I went Wed expecting to see my ATF. I texted her on the way and she told me she wasn't working, so I figured I'mm go anyway. Luckily my #2 was there, and she took good care of me, but the highlight was my waitress. She's an ex-dancer and hot, maybe 40 years old. I've known her from the club for a couple years and we always talk and flirt a little, but nothing serious.

Well, it was really empty so she didn't have a lot to do, and she hug out at my table for almost the whole time after I was done with my #2. We had the funniest conversations and we really took a step forward with each other. So, now I'm thinking about asking her out, not as an OTC but as a date. But I'd fuck her for money if she asked! LOL

seaboardrr10 years ago

I wish we could go on a weeknight when it was slow. Would be nice to have strippers coming to us for a change. Maybe one day.

GACA10 years ago

Ya going on the week night is the best to establish rapport. And then if you go on the weekend you look like a pimp to the rest of them niggas.

sharkhunter10 years ago

I do not understand all this talk about strippers not coming to you. I guess if there are only a few dancers and they are all busy with regulars and you're not one of them, makes sense.

A dancer sitting next to you does really slow down other dancers approaching too. I rarely get approached at one club because a female is almost always already sitting with me. I don't get approached as much if I'm sitting in a VIP area either. I noticed if I stand near an open very accessible area near a high traffic area, all kinds of dancers stop and talk.

seaboardrr10 years ago

Well, shark we have 2 things going against us right from the start. We're a couple and can only go on Friday or Saturday nights when it's packed. There's always 50+ people in there and maybe 20 dancers at most so they're making a beeline for the single guys. You can easily spot some of the regulars that come in during the week too. Not trying to perpetuate or even bash a stereotype but they're all pretty much larger, older gentlemen by themselves and they always have 1 or 2 dancers lounging around or on them. We get it. While we may be more fun for the dancer to play around with and we may spend more money that night the regulars might be spending more on a monthly basis. We just have to try harder.

Now this summer when we ship the kids off for a week or 2 at a time maybe we can run over, hang out a few nights during the week and have a drink or 2 for an hour or 2 before heading home just to "be seen".

Subraman10 years ago

Love the slow times, always worth finding out when they are! It is definitely true there's more mischief going on -- the girls get drunker and meaner when it's slow, at the very least backbiting gossip gets to defcon 2, and I've seen a poor new girl get absolutely hazed in such situations.