Do some strippers "Cockblock" you from another dancer
I know that a stripper's main goal is to make money but some seem to not get the hint that you don't want a dance from them. I might see another girl that I want a dance from but the dancer I don't like keeps sitting at my table. I was at a club today and I thought by me not saying much to her, getting up and tipping the dancer on stage would make her leave but it didn't. I wanted a dance from this other girl but had to get rid of this other dancer first. I played the waiting game and finally she decided she would leave. I know she would be mad that I didn't get a dance from her after I said I didn't want one so I waited till it was her time on stage and got a lapdance from the dancer I really liked. My point of disscussion is that some strippers are like men at a club in that they sometimes block you(or try to anyway) from getting to the girl you really want. Do any of you agree?
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I think the big thing is, if the customer is up front and tells the girl that they are going to get dances with someone else, or if they say they have an eye for some one else, we "usually" but not always respect that. I do know a few girls who will throw a major temper tantrum if the guy turns them down (HOW SAD). But saying that also has a back lash if you are not truly honest about saying that. Because whenever a guy tells me that he would like to get a dance with jane stripper, I will go get her and have her go to him. So if he was lying, he gets put on the spot.
at least I tried to help
evil laughter lol
Sara
Unfortunately, there is a very good chance they would say YES to an IOU!
I was trying to be rude, but I guess I wasn't rude enough.
I was thinking about asking her if she knew that other girl that you wanted a dance from. You can point her out and that should be enough of a hint for her to either move on or introduce her to you. If she is friends with the other dancer, then it should make her feel good about bringing her over so she can make some money. It has worked for me.
If she doesn't know the other dancer or doesn't like her, then there is the chance I will need to explain that, that is the type of girl I'm looking for.
It is frustrating when that happens. It'd be nice to turn the lemon into lemonade. Even if she was intentionally "cockblocking" I'd like to try and treat her positively. If the music isn't too loud, then there might be an opportunity to have her leave on friendly terms.
I knew this fat shortish charming stud who had a way with ladies and positive with people in general. Watching him get people to smile and feel good was a pleasure to observe. Part of his secret was his generous smile and openess and he seemed to like *all* people. Also, he like to tell jokes and amusing stories. I also remember this really fat huge terrifically ugly lady. Strong as steel and super pleasant to boot. She had a way to handle even nasty people with aplomb (sp?). Her secret was a big smile and *strength*.
One technique for a "cockblocker" is to ask her if she knows the dancer you are interested in. If she knows and likes the other dancer she will feel good about introducing her friend to you.