Dear Coleen: I had sex with 25 men at a party and now I'm pregnant, what should
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Dear Coleen,
I have been really stupid. I went to a party recently and got very drunk and had sex with all the guys there.
There was porn on the TV and, stupidly, I decided to copy it.
Now I’ve discovered that I’m pregnant – none of the men there wore condoms.
I don’t know what to do about the baby but I don’t think it’s sensible to continue with the pregnancy.
I obviously have no idea who the father is – he could be any one of 25.
I feel very ashamed.
Coleen says
Your letter makes me really sad. I’m sad because you think so little of yourself that you’ve allowed these men to use you.
You need to look at how much you’re drinking and the people you’re hanging around with.
It also makes me angry that not one guy at the party tried to put a stop to it and considered how you were going to feel the next day.
You can’t change what happened but, hopefully, you’ve learned a massive lesson.
You need to stop beating yourself up over it and focus on what to do next.
Speak to your doctor about STI tests as well as your options for the pregnancy.
I think you need counselling to talk about what happened and whether you want to keep the baby.
Naturally you feel bad about what happened, but the important thing now is to learn from it and move on.
I have been really stupid. I went to a party recently and got very drunk and had sex with all the guys there.
There was porn on the TV and, stupidly, I decided to copy it.
Now I’ve discovered that I’m pregnant – none of the men there wore condoms.
I don’t know what to do about the baby but I don’t think it’s sensible to continue with the pregnancy.
I obviously have no idea who the father is – he could be any one of 25.
I feel very ashamed.
Coleen says
Your letter makes me really sad. I’m sad because you think so little of yourself that you’ve allowed these men to use you.
You need to look at how much you’re drinking and the people you’re hanging around with.
It also makes me angry that not one guy at the party tried to put a stop to it and considered how you were going to feel the next day.
You can’t change what happened but, hopefully, you’ve learned a massive lesson.
You need to stop beating yourself up over it and focus on what to do next.
Speak to your doctor about STI tests as well as your options for the pregnancy.
I think you need counselling to talk about what happened and whether you want to keep the baby.
Naturally you feel bad about what happened, but the important thing now is to learn from it and move on.
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Makes me angry too! If I had been at that party, I would have forced the everybody to stop because of how she would feel about herself in the morning.
Now, do you have the questioner's contact information? I'd like to invite her to a party.
To answer your question, had to be those Republicans!
If there were lots of women like that, there would be no wars or violence of any kind. All straight men and lopaws would be in pussy bliss. Let's get real, we want money and power in order to get pussy.
Maybe we'd all be getting strange twice a day if it weren't a-holes like bigman calling the chicks who want to give it to us whores. Hey bigman, move to Indiana, open a pizza place, and only sell pizza to ugly virgin chicks cause that's your religious beliefs.
@gawker they can probably figure that out with DNA too.
Take any group of 25 guys, and which ones are going to be the last 5? (bare back....)
There's sometimes that 1 crazy mofo that'd be willing to follow 10, 20, 25 guys, but 5 guys that are willing to go where 20 others just were, no. Especially assuming, all being at the same party, where something like this is going down at, they all knew each other?
http://fuckfestparties.com/maininside.ht…