Dear Coleen, I have been really stupid. I went to a party recently and got very drunk and had sex with all the guys there.
There was porn on the TV and, stupidly, I decided to copy it.
Now I’ve discovered that I’m pregnant – none of the men there wore condoms.
I don’t know what to do about the baby but I don’t think it’s sensible to continue with the pregnancy.
I obviously have no idea who the father is – he could be any one of 25.
I feel very ashamed.
Coleen says Your letter makes me really sad. I’m sad because you think so little of yourself that you’ve allowed these men to use you.
You need to look at how much you’re drinking and the people you’re hanging around with.
It also makes me angry that not one guy at the party tried to put a stop to it and considered how you were going to feel the next day.
You can’t change what happened but, hopefully, you’ve learned a massive lesson.
You need to stop beating yourself up over it and focus on what to do next.
Speak to your doctor about STI tests as well as your options for the pregnancy.
I think you need counselling to talk about what happened and whether you want to keep the baby.
Naturally you feel bad about what happened, but the important thing now is to learn from it and move on.
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"It also makes me angry that not one guy at the party tried to put a stop to it and considered how you were going to feel the next day."
Makes me angry too! If I had been at that party, I would have forced the everybody to stop because of how she would feel about herself in the morning.
Now, do you have the questioner's contact information? I'd like to invite her to a party.
Any idea when she will be on Springer???
I'm snipped too so we're down to 23.
I just fucked her in the mouth so its down to 22
She wouldn't have sex with Dolfan, so we are down to 21
I was just the restroom troll!
I have to wonder what kind of girl goes to a party where there are 25 guys and no other women? And why wasn't I invited? :)
My question is why wasn't she on some type of birth control. Obviously she's not new to this type of lifestyle, or she would have objected to a gangbang even being drunk. Just anouther bitch not wanting to be responsible for her actions.
impala,
To answer your question, had to be those Republicans!
I think she has the makings of a good future extras stripper.
As a regular Dan savage reader, I'd say this is a bullshit letter.
@JamesSD Me too, it's a fake. She would get five to six guys tops. 3 others jerking off at the side. Other would have been scared or grossed out (Based on experience )
Troll? Ya Think?
Thanks Obama!
@shailynn - not fucking me cuts down the total by two?
If it's true, the chick's upset because she's pregnant, not because she shared 25 dicks. She consented to a gangbang, so she knows she's a whore. She doesn't want everyone else to know by trying to find a baby daddy amongst the crew. Fuck what Colleen thinks
Sounds like Juice wrote the letter
If you eat a can of beans, how do you know which one made you fart?
Don't the guys always pull out in porn?
I've heard more than one story about chicks who do trains because that's what they're into. She should have demanded condoms though.
If there were lots of women like that, there would be no wars or violence of any kind. All straight men and lopaws would be in pussy bliss. Let's get real, we want money and power in order to get pussy.
Maybe we'd all be getting strange twice a day if it weren't a-holes like bigman calling the chicks who want to give it to us whores. Hey bigman, move to Indiana, open a pizza place, and only sell pizza to ugly virgin chicks cause that's your religious beliefs.
@gawker they can probably figure that out with DNA too.
I fuked her, gave her a full load, don't shoot blanks. Try and find me as I am a drifter. Then a guy named bang bang and me gang banged her along with a guy named Krudzo. Best of luck in figuring out baby daddy. I am 500 miles away in Indy and on my way to Brads.....
Springer is for fighting. Maury does the paternity tests. Some of the idiot bitches are still trying to find a babydaddy after hauling 6 duded on the show. BTW, most of the women who lost tack of who fucked em got fat asses - re: thread on fat assed women having smarter babies.
I'm not buying the story.
Take any group of 25 guys, and which ones are going to be the last 5? (bare back....)
There's sometimes that 1 crazy mofo that'd be willing to follow 10, 20, 25 guys, but 5 guys that are willing to go where 20 others just were, no. Especially assuming, all being at the same party, where something like this is going down at, they all knew each other?
@bkkruined: So you're saying guys will be enthusiastic to go 19th, but none would be 20th or beyond? What's the difference?
Maybe she got dragged to some fuckfest party while she was drunk.
Brilliant story! ;)
Hopefully she hit the bidet after each car on the train.
bkk, horny guys have tried to fuck an atm and a picnic table. This is not hard to believe.
@JS69 it is hard to belive that 25 of those same horny guys convened at a random party where this girl showed up to to be spontaneously gangbanged....unless it was a planned gangbang, which she gave no indication. But a planned gangbang would explain 25 ready and willing guys. Trust me, trust me, guys talk a lot of shot but in the end they're afraid to do gangbangs.
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