New dancers vs the ATFs
Friday, March 20, 2015 10:35 PM
I have recently noticed that a hot new dancer turns me on more than the ATFs who used to do the same when I first saw them. Now the ATFs are still smoking hot and they would probably turn me on more if I had seen them for the first time but the mystery factor diminishing seems to reduce the chances of an LDK significantly. Do others run into a similar problem? How often do you see new dancers or do you always stick with your ATFs? Do you prefer visiting new clubs or stick to the ones where you have previously had a good time? I tend to go to the clubs where I have previously had a good time with a dancer and try a new club or dancer less often but would like to get some tips on the best strategy here.
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ATFs serve a purpose -- they provide reliable ROI. But without risk, there is no reward.
I go about 50/50. Granted, it's maybe been more 75 new/25 ATF since I've started trying to play the OTC game, since more girls weed themselves out as non-ATF material as they're less open to other options. But when one gets a dance from the best looking girl in the club one night, there's a good chance she'll be the best looking girl in the club another night, too.
I do like going to the club and getting dances (And extras) from other dancers. I've recently met a new dancer who is definitely has ATF potential and she is close to DS status in the looks department. While I've gotten FS from her ITC, there was no GFE and I don't think there's any potential for OTC either. Of course I also didn't think this would happen with my ATF either but it happened a few months later. As far as looking like my DS she's pretty close; brunette, beautiful blue eyes, gorgeous face, perfect size natural tits (I think I enjoyed squeezing her tits more than any other dancers), and I even like her tattoos.
So while it's nice to get dances from other girls for variety, but is also nice having the ATF that I can go back to. And sometimes after you get bad dances from a different girl it will make you appreciate your ATF even more.
Making some guesses on what motorhead means by GFE, then I'm in the same boat -- I like the super-intimate, YMMV mind-blowing activities with an ATF best, and often spend many many months with an ATF before I move on, because of how awesome that can be. I always appreciate the hot new girls, but mostly watching them is fine... that is, until I need a new ATF
Even before I got FS from her ITC I still considering her lap dances/VIP time to be more like a GFE than any of the other dancers. Her LD's were very, very sensual. Lots and lots of eye contact and just acted like she was enjoying herself. In the VIP room she would give me HJ's without asking for anything extra, I could DATY, finger her and it just felt like she was I to it even though I know it was just an act.
She would also climb on top of me fully nude while my dick was out. There were a couple time when it was only an inch away from going in her. Most dancers would not be comfortable with that. Eventually I did get FS from her. It's just better than a dancer that just goes through the motions or doesn't act like she is enjoying it.
I remember a while ago there was a discussion on here on saying whether or not it was bad of a dancer put you in the friend zone. Well my ATF has called me her friend on multiple occasions, but I've still gotten OTC BBBJ, FS (both covered and uncovered) DFK and even a little anal (she initiated it, it wasn't something that was on my bucket list).
IMO... it partly depends on the club scene you frequent. Where I live any options (if they exist) are very on the down low, and a CF approach is the way to get it. In a place like Detroit, variety probably makes more sense.
But in any event, favorites have a limited shelf life for me as I get bored easily. I too like GFE, but after xx number of times with the same girl it loses its allure. And after all, one cannot find the next great GFE provider if one does not diversify a bit. Though I have always found it easier to diversify using multiple clubs for the reasons that sharkhunter raised.
Like "ATF", it seems to have started as something of a joke term, then gotten co-opted by earnest, literal-minded types.
It's a challenge maintaining a consistent schedule meeting up with dancer(s) where they work when all I want to do is go out and just try to have a good time.
Even my CF is complaining about why I don't answer her texts/calls. We hang out a lot but I just do it because there's nothing much else to do.
It's just too damn hard having to consistently deal with these women.
I don't know, perhaps when I finally see the person who I want to spend time my life with, but that is still in front of me and probably was far in the future.
Hopefully that day will come for me.
If my ATF doesn't make it in, for some reason: I go with my #2, or spend time interviewing new girls for the #2 spot (and hey, maybe the #1 spot!).
If my ATF does make it in: She'll clear her other customers away so she's alone when I get there, we'll have yet another mind-blowing time, at an embarrassingly low cost, etc.
I just don't see the complication -- unless you get emotionally involved, then it's a mess. But this is the simplest, lowest-hassle way to have an awesome time at the club, IMO.
Right now, what is probably I'm after is just spur of the moment chance meeting and see if sparks are going to fly.
I’m def into variety to the point I’m usually a one and done type PL; i.e. even if I have a great time w/ a particular dancer; I do not want to be w/ her the next time I’m in the club and I want to experience something new.
I have even taken to going on personal SC trips in order to scratch my “variety itch” and more often than not have a very good time b/c of the novelty.