Couple still being ignored
seaboardrr
Alabama
Granted we only go to the club 1-2 times a month but when we do go we spend between $300-600. I can tell the regular strippers and waitresses we see every time DO in fact remember us so you’d think after several months some of them would figure out that my wife isn’t going to “cut a bitch”.
I know the man hating strippers over on stripper web talk about how couples NEVER get more than 1 or 2 dances and want to spend as little as possible but I just feel those strippers are the minority. On the other hand we simply cannot get a stripper to talk to us no matter how much we tip or smile or anything. We don’t leave early giving the impression that we’re just out for a couple hours of fun hanging out along the edge of the room. We usually get there around 8 or 9pm and stay until they close around 4am and the majority of the time we sit at the stage tipping and enjoying the show. When we get LD’s we’ll come back and sit at a table until a spot opens up at the stage.
We have an ATF and for the last few times she is the only one we’ve gotten LD’s from simply because no one else will talk to us. We’ll easily spend $200-300 with her each time we go. How much do strippers talk about customers? We’ve been wondering if our ATF has maybe laid claim to us and the other dancers are simply steering clear? Don’t get me wrong; we love our ATF and she tells everyone we’re her favorite couple. Tells us she loves us. Tells my wife she loves her and calls my wife her “work wife”. Her and my wife text and call each other. She will do her rounds and come back to us constantly and be all over us. Of course this could be the usual SS making sure she makes her money when we come in but I’m pretty good at reading people. Once we got her # the conversations have gone from standard getting to know you superficial things to being almost all about OTC personal everyday life conversations like you would have with any friend or co-worker.
Have we just got to start grabbing every dancer we want? If our ATF has laid down the law so to speak in the DR that we’re “her” couple would the other dancers spread the word that we’re available to the other dancers so they’ll maybe start talking to us? I wonder if we should simply point out to our ATF the ones we wanted? Even if she gets jealous that might be a good thing. Maybe our ATF could grab them and tell the ones who are up for it that we have no boundaries and need some extra special attention. We’re not getting rid of our ATF but we just want to play the field. Even if it’s just a couple dances with each stripper we like we want them to know they can talk to us. My wife loves the attention and every time one of them talks to her they compliment her and it makes her feel amazing. She knows it’s mostly bullshit just to get a tip but she likes it anyway. I just want them to talk to her. Don’t care if they talk to me. I just supply the money and as our ATF says I’m the stunt dick between the 3 of us.
Yes, I know I can ramble. Sorry.
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Try going to a different club or to the same club when the ATF isn't working.
Your wife may need to start actively flagging down new talent. Bluntly tell girls to come find you guys after her stage set.
It sounds like you are clubbing during peak hours. I agree that you may get more personal attention if you try day clubbing.
We have gotten dances from a couple others and my wife always asks what their boundaries are which makes them in turn ask what our boundaries are. My wife has told every one of them that we have no boundaries and they can do anything they want without having to ask. Every single stripper upon hearing that has gotten a huge smile (almost as in disbelief) on their face and their eyes got as big as silver dollars with surprise. Needless to say they dove right in and went to town on us. We sort of figured this might be passed around to other dancers in the DR and make us more approachable but it hasn’t.
Lopaw, you’re thinking like I am. I think we’re to the point where we need to really make our ATF understand she is our ATF and she has no worries of losing that spot but we want her to set us up with other dancers we like who will do what she knows we are looking for. I think that might be our best bet. We hate spending money only to finish and look at each other with the same “that’s it” look on our faces. We’d rather get 3 or 4 dances in a row with the same dancer who makes it worth our while. We always get anywhere from 2-4 dances in a row from our ATF several times a night because we know what to expect. Our ATF knows we’re going to get dances from her and we’ve flat out told her to go make her rounds and make her money and we’ll be there when she has some time. She constantly comes by to play with my wife and me and talk and drink and then she does her rounds again. I think we need to get her to hook us up when she does her rounds.
Tobola, we actually went to the cherry last Friday night to see Teagan Presley and Alexis Texas. Alexis Texas actually sat at a table right next to us when she got there for about half an hour. We had planned on staying all night but by 11:30 we were done and went to the pony. The whole night we only saw 1 dancer we were somewhat interested in. I’ll do another write up about the cherry when feature dancers come to town soon. We can’t go during the day. Friday and Saturday night are our only free times.
Also, I'd say stop trying to drop hints that you're interested and just say when you tip at the stage. A simple "hey, we'd love for you to stop by our table when you're free" is much, much less ambiguous than a $5 and a smile; especially if you're tipping every girl and sitting at the stage. It's easy to perceive customers who sit at the stage and tip everyone tend to "just" wanting do that. Customers who sit at a table and tip some girls give off the perception that they are interested in "that" girl.
And as far as the "girls don't care about stage tips" - I gotta call BS. Maybe its a regional thing, but there's plenty of girls who live off stage tips around here. Hell, there's girls at Rhino who simply won't do a champagne room, lap dance, or even sit on your lap. They only work peak hours and only go on stage. I'm sure there's plenty of girls who will do them, but still make more off the stage than off private dances.
Your ATF might not have even warned the other girls off - they may just assume you are there to see here and leave you alone.
Last time we went our ATF's main competition (according to our ATF) was sitting next to us with another customer away from the stage. While our ATF was off making the rounds this other dancer starting talking with us for a few minutes and eventually said "if you guys would like I could give you a REALLY good dance". Our ATF was coming back and since we had just gotten there not 30 minutes before I guess without thinking mrs sea told her maybe later since we had just arrived. Next time I think we need to grab her competition because that might easily get the word around that we haven't been "peed on" lol.
I also find it flabbergasting that you actually expect someone else to know that "A means B, but C means D". Even if we dismiss the notion that most strippers aren't really bright, none of them are psychic. How the hell are they supposed to know what your little code is?
I'm old, fat, and bald. Yet my ATF was the hottest girl in the club. A rare 10. No kidding. She spent every minute with me.
There is no secret. Show her the money. Not chump change stage tips. Serious cash. It's not rocket science.
"We'd like to get some lap dances and fondle your titties. Come see us when you get off stage?"