I was considering going to the club where the DS works on Valentines which falls on a Saturday this year. In one sense, going to a club on Valentine's Day seems like an extraordinarily PLish thing to do. On the other hand, if I hang out with my wife the odds of sex are about 1%, if I hang out with the DS the odds of sex are 100%. I like the odds at the club.
What are the clubs like on Valentine's Day? Any different from an ordinary Saturday?
I've noticed that the PLs come out in hoards. There will be bouquets of flowers all over the place. It's fine if you have some one special that you are going to see but not so good for the guys that don't. The regulars will have all of the best girls cornered.
I you have an ATF it's a good day not to go because then you won't be expected to bring a gift. I was talking to one of my favorites about it on Saturday and I said it was a good day not to have a GF and she said that it was a bad day for a female to not have a BF.
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It hadn't even crossed my mind to bring her a gift. She's not my girlfriend, and me bringing a gift would just emphasize her lack of a genuine boyfriend at the moment. Plus bringing a gift for a stripper on Valentine's day seems like the pinnacle of PLness.
Many dancers need a baby sitter so they can go to work. New Year's Eve and Valentine's Day are the two most difficult days of the year to get baby sitters. That may affect the choices of dancers available at any given club. My ATF never worked on Valentine's Day because of that phenomenon. If you want to see a particular dancer, and you know she's a mother, she may not be at work that night.
Strippers love gifts on Valentine's Day. Cards and flowers and candy cost relatively little but will pay great dividends. If you have a favorite stripper, treat her like a girl friend on special occasions.
It depends on the gift – often times a gift is given merely out of the act of giving a gift – if it’s a gift she would genuinely like (jewelry, nice expensive perfume, etc) then she would probably genuinely appreciate it – o/w she’ll probably just pretend to appreciate it.
It is often hard to figure out what someone would like – so if a PL does not have any idea what to get a dancer as a gift; then being extra generou$ on that day may do the trick.
If doing OTC, a gift is a nice idea likely reaping dividends as escorts routinely expect/enjoy gifts. Otherwise, I say forget it and stay home. Go ITC Friday or Sunday, if you must.
Ordinarily I would heed the warnings not to go. However, this is a particularly good date in my travel schedule to be in her town, and she can't get off work on a Saturday, so the only option is to come to the club on VD Day. I don't relish being in the extra pathetic loser's parade that day, but the little head insists.
For a present I'm thinking of Papi's bow idea along with a couple Benjamin's.
If you are concerned about PLness..having a wife and going to have sex with a stripper on valentines day is the pinnacle of PL. Don't worry about it though, go fuck that bitch. Just because you're a pathetic loser doesn't mean you dont get to fuck.
I would go on a saturday just to spite the fact that I won't be going on Valentine's Day. Don't feel like I'll get my money's worth. Girls tend to think that day is meant to revolve around them i.e. you do things for her and she says thank you....that's it. Doesn't seem worth the hassle of trying to get anything done that day.
John, embrace your inner PL. (It could be the first step toward recovery.)
What you could do is hit one of the big box stores for a good-sized box of candy for all of the dancers and the rest of the staff to enjoy (that way no one feels left out) and a little something special for the DS (to make her feel special). But whatever you do, don't go in wearing a cock ring; as PL romantic as it might sound, she just might take it the wrong way, like you two are engaged or something.
Lopaw, I can -- Christmas, New Year's, your birthday -- pretty much any time you'd like to be among friends and the only ones are just available at $20 a dance.
We always go out of town on valentines day weekend for 4 or 5 days since it's also our anniv. She picked that day so it would be easy for me to remember. This year we decided we weren't going on a trip so a couple weeks ago she said we're shipping the kids off, getting a hotel room, spending valentines day at the SC and hoping we can get our ATF to come back for a 3 -some. Either way there will be tons of sex whether it's 2 people or 3 people.
True, Lopaw, provided certain PLs didn't have to work holidays and the titty bars were actually nearby. But it's probably a good thing they aren't because I'd be even more broke than I am already.
Valentine’s Day should be a “special” day if you are in love w/ someone or have a special S.O.; o/w it’s just another fucking day and a way for corporate America and Madison Avenue to make mega $$$ and sucker people into consumptious spending.
Any day can be a great day at the strip club – and any day can be a crappy day at the strip club.
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I you have an ATF it's a good day not to go because then you won't be expected to bring a gift. I was talking to one of my favorites about it on Saturday and I said it was a good day not to have a GF and she said that it was a bad day for a female to not have a BF.
And isn't make up sex always better? :)
Personally, that's a day I'd skip all together.
:)
It is often hard to figure out what someone would like – so if a PL does not have any idea what to get a dancer as a gift; then being extra generou$ on that day may do the trick.
If doing OTC, a gift is a nice idea likely reaping dividends as escorts routinely expect/enjoy gifts. Otherwise, I say forget it and stay home. Go ITC Friday or Sunday, if you must.
For a present I'm thinking of Papi's bow idea along with a couple Benjamin's.
What you could do is hit one of the big box stores for a good-sized box of candy for all of the dancers and the rest of the staff to enjoy (that way no one feels left out) and a little something special for the DS (to make her feel special). But whatever you do, don't go in wearing a cock ring; as PL romantic as it might sound, she just might take it the wrong way, like you two are engaged or something.
I can. Going to a party with all the others there being HOT lesbians. :(
@lo
Any day can be a great day at the strip club – and any day can be a crappy day at the strip club.