Monogamy, non-monogamy and polyamory

Well, a lot of poly women don't look like strippers. There are some exceptions, but they lean heavily to the 200 pound World of Warcraft type.

It takes a lot of discipline to be okay with your woman dating other men.

I dated a girl in a bi-polyamorous relationship once. There were two other guys and a girl living with her. I was fine with it as far as me dating her goes but I couldn't deal with the living arrangements for myself. She was pretty hot; not a dancer though.

 I was invited to a poly amorous meet up. It was underwhelming at best. The women were all overweight with goofy faces and extremely annoying self entitlement issues along with an unhealthy interest in video games and stupid looking outfits. The men were worse. The emotional hang ups on display were off putting and un erotic. I prefer the relative non-involvement of the clubs and passed on the poly amorous hook up. It all seemed sort of childish ,like these people never got out of high school and were trying to be"popular".. That they all drank craft beer. poseurs.

I was interested in a woman who was poly. A little on the heavier side, but it was mostly in her chest, so I didn't mind. She had other things going on in her head that kept us from getting together, but I learned a lot from her and she changed my perspective on things.

Read my profile, which I cobbled together from a couple posts over time. I'm poly at heart.