My first visit to a strip club
Wednesday, January 21, 2015 4:34 PM
A few days ago, I went to a strip club for the first time on my 28th birthday. I had a great time. I want to share my experience, and then get some feedback for future visits. When I arrived, I saw a beautiful lady outside smoking a cigarette. I didn't know it at the time, but she was one of the dancers, and the one I ended up having a great time with.
This is a small club, but nice and well kept. The only downside is that there is no vip room, and the lap dance area is just a separate room with chairs that is open to the rest of the club, no curtain or anything. However, there are a few chairs off to the side that are much more obscured, and can pretty much only be seen if you are standing in the room (this is where I got my lap dance with the lady I saw outside). According to what I read online, because of the setup, this is definitely a no extras club, but they do allow plenty of 2 way contact.
So the first lap dance was with a different lady. She wasn't very friendly, she didn't even take her top off until I asked her to. She did grind me pretty good, but didn't allow 2 way contact. I was upset because I could see other guys getting dances, and they were all getting 2 way contact. This was my first lap dance, so maybe she could sense I was nervous and didn't know what I was doing.
So a while later the lady I saw outside was dancing on stage. My friend told her it was my birthday. While on stage, she was giving me lots of individual attention, and I wasn't even tipping (I realize now that was a big mistake, but I'm a total newbie). She was just genuinely being friendly. Near the end of her stage show she asked me if I wanted a private dance, of course I said yes. She led me to the chair that was the most obscured. I didn't want a repeat of the first dance with no 2 way contact, so right before sitting down I asked if she accepts tips (dumb question, of course she accepts tips). She got caught a little off guard and said "what do you mean?". I smiled and said, "I'm just trying to be friendly". I then gave her $5. She sat me down, took her top off, and instantly became very friendly. I ended up doing 5 consecutive dances with her, lots of 2 way contact. I started out cautiously, but when I saw she didn't care I got more aggressive. By around the 3rd song she was telling me that if I come back she will definitely remember me. She told me when her hours are. By the fourth song she was joking that I am wearing too many clothes, she then said, "and so am I!". She then tugged on the string on her G string. After that things got very friendly with lots of contact both ways. After 5 dances I paid her for the dances, and an additional tip of $10. At the end of the night when the club was closing she said happy birthday to me and asked me to come back.
So I definitley want to go back but I have some questions.
1. If she likes me, and knows I am a reliable customer and we build up a rapport after a while, will my mileage increase?
2. Based on my story, do you think she genuinely likes me? I understand I am just a customer, and she is doing her job. But I used to work in retail, there were customers that I liked, and customers that I didn't like. I imagine for strippers it is no different.
3. I figured that she made lots of money with 5 dances, because if it wasn't for that she would have had idle time making no money at all. I tipped $15 total. Did I tip her enough?
4. I want to go back to see her again. How long should I wait? I don't want to appear desperate, but I don't want her to forget me either.
5. Since I already danced with her once, if she remembers me, can I expect at least the same mileage I got the first time?
6. I read online that this club makes dancers pay to go outside and smoke cigarettes. I don't want to just offer to pay for her, but maybe through conversation I can pull that information out of her. Then I can ask if she wants to go outside and smoke a cigarette with me, and I pay for her. This will allow me to spend some time with her just hanging out, and I imagine she would be really happy and think I'm such a sweet guy. Do you think this will increase mileage?
This is definitley a no extras club, so there are limits. But other than that, the club basically doesn't care about what the dancers do with their customers. I'm a total newbie and looking for advice. So what do you guys think about what I said and my questions? Any additional thoughts on how to increase mileage?
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