Being watched

Yeah, the kid was probably a strip club virgin. You should've told him the shows cost extra.

My mum taught me that there is never an excuse for bad manners. Manners are not limited to those with money because they cost nothing. There are no ethnic, religious or political restrictions on being a decent, well bred, civilized human being who is able to behave properly in the company of fellow human beings.

You should have apologized to the dancer, politely excused yourself and killed the stupid fuck.

LDK in two songs or less! Nice job maintaining focus. Sounds like the 50s are the best time to club.

Should've LDKed right in the kid's eye. That would've taught him.

A couple of years ago at the Columbia Platinum Plus I was in a semi private lap dance room with my ATF. There was a couple sitting across from us. She got up and left after one song but he styed there and kept watching us. So not wanting to put on a show we decided to leave. So while she was getting dressed the guy moves down to watch another couple but this time pulls out is dick and starts jerking off. My ATF ran for a bouncer who escorted the guy rudely out of the club.

Hell, I'd be looking too !!! Dude, were you fucking her doggy style in plain view of the club floor?? Awesome.

Personally, I have a hard time getting too pissed at someone watching the lap dance activity. You've got some hot chicks dancing nasty on some guy. Hell, often that's a lot more entertaining than the stage show. But yeah, I can see how some guys get pissed. But I'm usually so focused on the dancer that I don't notice if anyone is watching.

I remember once a very hot dancer in my favorite club was giving a guy a lap dance while I was getting one maybe 5 feet away on the long couch. She was riding him RCG and I could have sworn the way they were moving and she was grinding on him that he was fucking her. Damn. This guy was eyes closed and totally getting into it. And the entire time she was staring at me with this nasty grin, just looking at me and licking her lips as if to say "Baby, you gonna get this next". Fucking insane. I'll never forget it. One of the great moments in lap dance history. So yeah, it sucks to stare, but there are times that red blooded males just can't help it.

One of the great things about a strip club: old guys get the cute young girls and the young guys can do nothing but watch cause they don't have our money or our maturity.

Nevertheless staring like that is a breach of strip club etiquette. Its ok to watch but you must be subtle if the other guy is paying for it.

By the way, unlike how some lesbians, for example, might not give a fuck if other strip club customers are somewhat uncomfortable if lesbian or other women are present in a mostly men's strip club, I do respect those who might be uncomfortable if other patrons are staring during laps. So I choose not to stare when I can help it, out of respect. Yeah, I have the right to stare, but, y'know, I choose not to.

Just sayin'....

Staring is more than being rude and cheap. The worst part is how it can inhibit the dancer from doing anything really nasty. Much as I love the great table dances at Follies, once in a while some dumb shit will ruin it for us.

And it's not always some broke young guy. There are a few regular old farts who the dancers have come to recognize as watchers. When they're around, we just wait until they move away before our groping commences.

Chandler, the problem is that you have great taste in women. While I didn't stare, I did sneak of few peaks at your dancers in my recent visit cause I wanted each one of them. Try choosing some ugly dancers for a change and I bet you don't have this problem.

Hey, thanks for the pointer, JS. I'll try that. I might even send a few fuglies your way next time, as long as you don't stare too much.