Would you go for it or pass?
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I have been doing VIPs with a 24 year old white chick for over a year. She is attractive and all of my TUSCL buddies that know her, like her and her dances. She has a nice personality and is easy going. She does like her pot. I know that she lives with a black drug dealer and that he get physically abusive to her at times. I knew that she had a daughter that her mother has legal custody over because of her legal problems with the law over drugs. She just recently showed me a photo of her daughter and it is obvious that her BF is the father. She has told me and a couple of other guys that she is saving up so that she can leave him. I don't think that is going to happen because she can't seem to save anything, because he is abusive and because he is her daughter's baby daddy.
The problem is that she won't do FS ITC because she is worried about getting caught. Or at least that is what she tells me. But she tells me she will do FS with me OTC but only when her BF is out of town. The little head wants to go for it but the BIG head is saying I see red flags. What if the BF finds out what she is doing behind his back? I can't continue to do VIPs with her ITC with out it leading to FS. It is becoming too frustrating even though I don't leave with blue balls. But I don't want to become a 2AMer either.
There are other choices available for FS ITC but currently not much in the way of OTC gigs. OK lets hear it.
The problem is that she won't do FS ITC because she is worried about getting caught. Or at least that is what she tells me. But she tells me she will do FS with me OTC but only when her BF is out of town. The little head wants to go for it but the BIG head is saying I see red flags. What if the BF finds out what she is doing behind his back? I can't continue to do VIPs with her ITC with out it leading to FS. It is becoming too frustrating even though I don't leave with blue balls. But I don't want to become a 2AMer either.
There are other choices available for FS ITC but currently not much in the way of OTC gigs. OK lets hear it.
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If you do fuck her OTC, you've got to be 100% sure he won't find out. Also you don't know if she'll have a guilty conscience and tell him that you and her fucked. By the sounds of it, it sounds like she's not actually fucking many other people besides him.
I count you among my friends, and because of this, I think SS and JS69 are spot on. You have but one choice, I believe. Since you state, "I can't continue to do VIPs with her ITC with out it leading to FS. It is becoming too frustrating...", so the status quo is out. And I don't want to be the old guy here, pass is the only choice.
There will be another one coming
along soon.
There always is in this business.
This dancer goes both way, and often bring her husband a treat ( another dancer ) to their bedroom... When this other dancer had a falling out with her....She informed my CF husband about me ,, a 60 yr old black man .. I understood he made some threats... My, cf said for me not to worry, her husband is wheelchair bound,,, And they live in Peachtree City , which is a long way from the club... I've also had had the full menu with the girl that snitch on us.. in the ViP room ... ( just today)...
In your situation , I will pass on OTC...
In my's , I'm getting the full menu in ViP
BLACK BOYFRIEND DRUG DEALER + FUCKING HIS GIRLFRIEND = 45 CALIBER SLUG TO YOUR HEAD!!!
PLEASE, DONT DO IT!!!
This chick has drug problems. The BF will find out eventually. Probably not worth it.
Often times when one gets involved w/ a stripper; often times inevitably one may get entangled w/ their issues – and for many a dancer; the baby-daddy is often their biggest issue and a black drug-dealing baby-daddy is not the kind of stripper baggage a SC playa should deal w/.
You guys are like kids in here talking how your head will get blown up.
If you can't deal with these I would suggest the following:
1) Do not get involved with any Dancer.
2) Just watch the show, don't even try having a convo.
3) Leave around 11:45PM right around the time when these bitches will start selling hard.
You'll be OK.
That's fo-sho.
Then I'll join in the discussion of what happened to shadowcat?
And if she's serious about saving up some money to get away from the guy, maybe she could talk to her bosses at the club, see if they can put some -- not all, just enough not to raise her boyfriend's suspicions -- and one of those prepaid cards and get someone she can trust to hold onto that card until the day to run comes.
Not to say that all, or even most, young black men are like this; but it seems that a disproportionate amount of violence is perpetrated by young black men.
Do you live or hang-out/visit in the hood – if not - why not?
If a stripper lived with an abusive white drug dealer who found out she was fucking you... not such a problem? Those abusive white drug dealers aren't so dangerous?
I live in, hang out in, and visit fairly nice areas. I prefer clean and safe. There are many more problems in poorer areas, because they're poorer, not because they're blacker.
After hearing about the dealers in your favorite club and some of the discussions about girls that have dealer boyfriends, I decide that no I would not deal with this girl or anyone else like her. I would not see her OTC and I would not do dances or anything else with her ITC either.
Dealing with her means entering into her emotional world and it also means financially subsidizing it too. I won't do that.
You posted about one Gridget that you were seeing for 8 years. I replied to that. I bet she was not into drugs or abusive people. I don't see why you don't find someone else like her. You could still see others occasionally too. But you shouldn't have to deal with dancers that are involved in drugs or abusive people.
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