The things they get away with...

If they are hot they can get away wit pretty much everything except for stealing my possessions

@curiositycat - yeah I have had all of that stuff done, and then some. The only place I draw the line is that I don't allow a lot of overt sexual stuff out on the main floor, and I never allow it stageside. I am not there as part of the entertainment. I will tell dancers that I am more than happy to pay for privacy, so that we can get our game on without prying eyes.

I've had dancers go under the table out on the main floor and suck my dick. Can't remember that ever happening anywhere else.

As fun as it is in the club I'd still rather the lady and I have fun in private, I do not want other people getting a free show and while she is with me I'd rather have her to myself alone. Some guys don't mind others seeing what they are getting but I do as I feel it is less fun with an audience.

Yeah, some dancers do get a bit carried away. Guess it's all part of their sales pitch. I've gotten some nice LFK stage-side. One played with my hair almost the entire time she sat with me. I've been smacked on the butt, too. (I was at the bar, just getting a Coke, just minding my own innocent business.) Some dancers have fondled my chest and my privates, above and below the clothes, out on the main floor. A couple dancers have escorted me to the bar where I had to get some bimbo bucks, and then they'd lean over in front of me, plant their ass squarely on my crotch, and wiggle just that little bit -- the entire time we were waiting for the bartender. I even got a BJ in the lap dance area of one club, which was in full view of the club; I didn't ask for it -- she just did it. (Yeah, I was glad it was last dance.)

In my earliest mongering days, all of this would have made me very uncomfortable (okay, probably squirming and scrambling to get out of the place, stupid pathological shyness anyway), but nowadays, it really doesn't faze me -- a whole lot anyway.

One super cute dancer showed up from behind, said hi then sat on my lap, pulled up my shirt and started licking my chest. The waitress comes back with my order, she ignores the waitress, I simply pulled up my money and paid her all while the dancer do her thing. Waitress walks away smiling. Dancer whispered something into my ear and got a huge boner after that. After several minutes we went to the lapdance area and gave me a dance I will never forget.

She was very pretty and very horny that night.

I think that female customers get more overt sexual attention than male customers. I've seen female customers at the tip rail being fondled, disrobed, groped and taken on stage for some simulated 69. Makes for a good show for male customers and for the targeted female if she's not too shy.

I had this one dancer pop the pimples on my butt, stage side. Good thing she had those Oxy wipes.

Yeah they rip my bra off all the time. I fucking hate that.

Electron,

I've seen the same. Happened somewhat regularly at the club where I met my ATF. As time went on, she told me that that event was staged. Really got the guys spending more. Marketing 101, I guess. :)

Seen female customers get naked lots of times

Shadow, that happened to me at a Denny's corner booth once, but it was a stripper doing it, so maybe that shouldn't count.

Last week I saw a dancer play with a woman customer's boobs and then unhook her bra and pull out the boobs. I was directly across the stage and so I got a good look. Customer boobs are generally not as attractive as stripper boobs.

I had one at the bar that reached inside my shirt and was feeling up on my body, I didn't mind at all lol.

“…What strange things have happened to u in a club that would not elsewhere. …"

Well – when a woman (dancer) comes up to you and grabs your wiener as she is introducing herself – don’t recall that happening outside the club too often.

I’ve also fucked (on more than one occasion) right at the bar while sitting on my barstool with other custies pretty much sitting right next to me (it has been in one particular black dive down here in Miami) – don’t recall this “happening elsewhere”.


“… Do you ever draw a line …”

When they start doing stupid stuff just to show off or think that you will like it – like getting to physical and doing stuff that will actually hurt instead of being sensual.

Would you allow a female customer to grope you or give you a HJ?