New Variety Of SS
rockstar666
Illinois
About 6 months ago a dancer introduced herself to me and there was an immediate attraction, but I was there for my ATF and after telling her she was my type (spinner Asian) but I'd have to take a rain check, she moved on. Then last week I was in the club when my ATF wasn't working and she came over and remembered the exact conversation in amazing detail. I proceeded to buy many dances from her and her grind was as good as it gets. I didn't ask for OTC because I figured the timing would be better on a second visit, even though our conversation was lively, interesting and quite varied. She spent the whole evening with me even between dances...she could have made a lo more money had she did the rounds a few times.
I saw her again this week, and it was every bit as good as the first time. Again, she stayed with me for about 3 hours, and I wasn't tipping her to stay. She obviously liked me at least as a PL. I then said I wanted to give her my card so I could tell her when I'll be in to be sure she was working, and she made it quite clear it was against the rules and I 'shouldn't take it personally'. WTF??? She had high boots on so slipping my card inside would have been easy to hide.
So my question is, have you ever had a dancer who obviously likes you refuse to even give/take a cell #? I NEVER mentioned OTC in our conversations...and even then dancers will always give a repeat customer her #, at least in my experience. She's no newbie either...she's over 30 and been dancing 10 years at least. I can't understand this type of SS...she knows I have a daytime ATF and she sees the opportunity for me to jump ship to her. So what's her game? I have half a mind to not see her again and stick with my day girl.
I saw her again this week, and it was every bit as good as the first time. Again, she stayed with me for about 3 hours, and I wasn't tipping her to stay. She obviously liked me at least as a PL. I then said I wanted to give her my card so I could tell her when I'll be in to be sure she was working, and she made it quite clear it was against the rules and I 'shouldn't take it personally'. WTF??? She had high boots on so slipping my card inside would have been easy to hide.
So my question is, have you ever had a dancer who obviously likes you refuse to even give/take a cell #? I NEVER mentioned OTC in our conversations...and even then dancers will always give a repeat customer her #, at least in my experience. She's no newbie either...she's over 30 and been dancing 10 years at least. I can't understand this type of SS...she knows I have a daytime ATF and she sees the opportunity for me to jump ship to her. So what's her game? I have half a mind to not see her again and stick with my day girl.
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Asian? Make her take it or send her my way! :)
She may have rejected your card because she fears that she may "steal" you from your ATF which would cause her too much drama within the stripper ranks. So... she'll just hang with you only when you're ATF is not around and nothing more.
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I am stating this so you know, that just because she invested a lot of time with you, DOES NOT AT ALL mean that she is interested in anything more than your money, and also seeming like, someone is interested in her. Keep in mind several dancers would rather talk to someone than sit alone, just so that while talking with a man they appear to other customers that they are worthy of attention.
Thank you trixxi for keeping it real.
@Trixxi: Thanks for the thoughts. To review, I never mentioned OTC...but your point is well taken. Just because she enjoys my company doesn't mean she wants to have sex with me, either for money or otherwise. In a regular bar I'd take that at face value, no problem.
In the club however, I always assume the girls are out to make as much money as they can either in the club or out, so OTC isn't a matter of 'if' but only a matter of 'what will it cost'. This was a mistake on my part; just my luck I find a 'good girl' dancer!
Obviously I'm really disappointed she wasn't more of a slut! I really wanted her, at whatever price. But I still say she should have taken my card at least. I was insulted.
As an aside, I've had dancers refuse to take or give cell numbers before. Not a big deal to me. It just means that they like things as they are and want nothing more. But Trixxi is right, more often those girls will just take my number and throw it away or give me a fake number for themselves. It's best not to get emotional about such things.
"She's like a slightly goth Japanese girl, and speaks English with a Russian accent."
Damn near a LDK! :)