Probably many different definitions but I would describe it as the Dancer never asks for money directly and acts like she is so into the PL that it is not about the money. Often they won't even ask for dances.
The dancer will make subtle, indirect (almost subliminal), hints about her upcoming birthday, car repair, car payment, past due rent or whatever...but never makes it seem like she is asking for help directly.
This scenario may take awhile to setup so I consider it the long con.
If I could put my picture up here, that's what the long con looks like. I'm such a pathetic loser and fall for it over and over. I just realized that without being asked I just sent a text message offering to pay a $1000 down payment on a car for a fave dancer. What a schmuck.
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