I spent a little time on a cam site tonight. After talking with the girl for a while, I am starting to wonder if she was trying to tell me that she was trafficked. Below is the last part of a text exchange I had with her.
Rickdugan: It is good to be a man sometimes, lol
Cam Girl: hehe
Cam Girl: well...but its good to be a woman too...sometimes
Cam Girl: :loll
Cam Girl: or bad.....sometimes...:lool
Rickdugan: I have no doubt. I could never have made money the way that you do. As one woman once said to me, "Nobody with a pussy should ever be homeless." lol
Rickdugan: But of course, there are things like child birth
Cam Girl: hmmm....its not like that
Rickdugan: I know that I am dramatically oversimplifying what is much more complicated
Cam Girl: sometimes we have no choise
Cam Girl: and when the things are not normal...
Rickdugan: Aw shit. I'm not sure if I'm understanding this correctly, but if so then maybe being a guy is even better than I think.
Your thoughts?


I think for alot of these girls, be it cam girls or strippers or escorts, they believe they have no choice. Like their current situation, whatever it may be, lead them to do this, I always, always say that no one holds a gun to these girl's heads (except on VERY rare occasions) to make them do it. they have to make money. They find it is easiest to use their bodies to make money and they capitalize on it. Of course unless the rare occasion that they are forced comes up, they are free to do so. Unless you were talking to a girl from thailand or cambodia, then they could not possibly be trafficked. Here in Texas, minimum wage is 7.25 an hour. Clearly a stripper could make more money at $20 a dance before or after club dues are in.