Praising the loser boyfriend
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
I would have to concur with the overwhelming consensus on this board that the majority of dancers date what we've seemed to term "loser boyfriends".
I really have no interest in hearing about these bf's but in the course of getting to know a dancer often (eventually) they want to vent about the dire circumstances of their current relationship. To be courteous, I listen intently to the self imposed drama these honey's find themselves in.
Instead of saying anything negative about the loser BF, I always find something positive and encouraging to say.
Example:
"oh, he is going to open his own tattoo shop when he gets out. He sounds like an entrepreneur and will probably be very successful."
"playing video games take advanced technical skills. The government is looking for people that can do that and pay them very well. Sounds like he is on the right track."
"His idea of opening a medical marijuana shop is an excellent plan. Hopefully his parents will loan him the start up money and his probation status will not get in the way. He sounds very ambitious."
I say this all in complete seriousness with a straight face. I never say anything negative, never. It is pointless to do so.
This positive feedback seems to surprise the honey's and keeps a nice party vibe alive.
I really have no interest in hearing about these bf's but in the course of getting to know a dancer often (eventually) they want to vent about the dire circumstances of their current relationship. To be courteous, I listen intently to the self imposed drama these honey's find themselves in.
Instead of saying anything negative about the loser BF, I always find something positive and encouraging to say.
Example:
"oh, he is going to open his own tattoo shop when he gets out. He sounds like an entrepreneur and will probably be very successful."
"playing video games take advanced technical skills. The government is looking for people that can do that and pay them very well. Sounds like he is on the right track."
"His idea of opening a medical marijuana shop is an excellent plan. Hopefully his parents will loan him the start up money and his probation status will not get in the way. He sounds very ambitious."
I say this all in complete seriousness with a straight face. I never say anything negative, never. It is pointless to do so.
This positive feedback seems to surprise the honey's and keeps a nice party vibe alive.
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U will find stripper SO's are losers but this opens door for SC hobbyist to fuk these gals and make them his whores.
I would not run down the stripper bf w her or make jokes what a cuckhold he is. Just go w the flow and say little as you can about their relationship. She will tell u plenty. Just fuk her real good, give her shopx money, and she wb dripping wet for u excited to be y whore.
Dropped him off at band practice.
Or re-hab, or any other fill in the blank you chose.
That was funny :D lulz I gotta try it at the next opportunity. Did the girl laugh when you said it?
I remember saying to her yesterday when we were at Sloppy Cakes ( http://www.slappycakes.com/ ) in the Belmont district,
mentioned "How's your roommate BF doing, is he still giving you a hard time?"
She said "I told you he is not my boyfriend! Gawd, did you see what he looks like? Geez."
"Strong feelings you have, hate leads to love. Love leads to marriage."
"Oh shut up, let's eat now plz. Pancake almost done."
Ya think this is like a SD/SB going on? Neither of that shit. I am not putting money on the table now. She can drop me any time, I'm just waiting for the first shoe to drop.
I would not go after one which is married. But if it is just a boyfriend, after she has had some venting time, you might want to start to move on her, but maybe not. The more BF troubles she has, the more problem she almost certainly is.
Run away from the ones who have guys stalking them and who are changing their phone numbers every week.
SJG