Strippers, here is where you can pick up men:

Any strippers CARE to add?

Any strippers want to add?

What about the place where you WORK?

Strippers, where can you find a MAN?

But some strippers ARE attracted to LOSERS

RL: Two big factors I see at play here:

• strippers find customers desperate and pathetic since they are confessing that they need to pay for pussy. This is not the type of man women are attracted to.
• strippers do not have go images of themselves. They think, and often rightfully so, that the customers are just going to think of them as prostitutes. Deep down many believe (know?) that they are technically and in spirit prostitutes. Anti-Slut Defense kicks in.

The solution? Don't spend money on them. Then you don't look desperate and pathetic (although you can still, of course, blow it in other ways). Also you are not treating them like prostitutes. Try treating them like "exotic dancers" by tipping them on stage and nothing else. They like that one.

How do you feel?

Why not look in a STRIP CLUB? Do the strippers think that they are TOO GOOD to spend time with a customer OUTSIDE THE CLUB for FREE? Do some strippers find cusotmers REPULSIVE and PATHETIC and UNWORTHY OF AFFECTION?

Any STRIPPERS want to comment here?

Why should strippers look in a strip club? They are WORKING there. Do you look for dates where you work? The other problem is that strippers (and other people in the adult entertainment) is that they have to wonder if guys only want them for the fantasy.

RL: That would seem to be very logical, but didn't you tell us that strippers are mostly interested in dating jealous criminals, failed musician losers, and various other deadbeats? Do you think that many customers fall into these categories?

Places run the gamut from art galleries to biker bars.