GV , basically last night was just the last straw. But I have a couple reasons. 1) The girls are low class compared to other clubs I've worked in. I've been getting a lot of my stuff stolen. Even odd things like toothpaste and deodorant? Too many ridiculously trashy stuff going on. There's three pregnant girls at my club now, who I've sen two of the three still drinking and doing coke? What?!
2) DJ that is innappropriate who works most of my shifts and management will not handle it despite mutiple complaints from many girls.
3) Bouncers who do not protect me. A drunk guy came in about a week ago and demanded I give him 2 dances for the price of one despite that we were not running that special at the moment. He finally said okay to the one full priced dance, then we did the dance. (I collected payment before). He was upset that he didn't get extras (DURING A 20 DOLLAR DANCE), then told me he wanted his money back. He started yelling at me, I remained calm and polite and told him i already did the dance and the money was non refundable. He talked to the bouncer and the bouncer told me to give the money back. The guy SHOVED me infront of the bouncer so the bouncer told him to leave. He leaves. Ten minutes later I see him back at the entrance with the same bouncer and is allowed back in. I was on stage shortly after and the same guy (must not have remembered the incident) came and sat at my tip rail and tipped me. It was so uncomfortable.
4) Last night it was really slow and I needed a break to go eat. I tried to ask the manager and he said "not now" . Twenty minutes later I asked again. He said "you can go in ten minutes". So ten minutes later I asked the door guy to walk me out. He walkied the manager and no reply. He said "it's fine I'll just walk you out". I go, am gone ten minutes and bring my food back to the club to eat it. As soon as I walk in the door the manager says "follow me to the office" like I'm some juvenile delinquent. Then he says "I'm sending you home tonight because you left before I confirmed it was okay" I tried to explain and tell him what happened, he didn't listen. He said "pack your shit up and cash out". Keep in mind, management has never had ANY issues with me. I have never been in any drama with other girls, I make the club a lot of money and always tip everyone , including the managers, a lot of money. Then he told the bouncer not even to walk me out. I left with 20$, which didn't even cover the gas it took to get there.
It was so upsetting. So I just decide it's against my best interests to work there.
Sounds like your bouncer needs to be ass-raped by a big bear gay guy wearing lots of leather. That'll teach him not to make little girls give their candy back.
Don't expect too much in the way of improvement in your new club. I've seen far more bouncers and managers of the type you describe above than I have of the human type.
A favorite of mine last night asked if I wanted a dance. I said in 2 minutes. She said fine, she will com back. I was thinking really? She can't wait a minute or two? Another favorite of mine was on stage and I wanted to watch her until she got off which turned out only to be about 1 minute. I left the club a few minutes later. I'm not going to stick around for someone who can't wait 2 minutes. I meant 2 minutes or less, not the typical phrase a couple of minutes. If she asks later, I'll let her know I literally meant about 2 minutes. I do not give a specific time if I do not mean what I say.
Apparently a few people do not mean what they say, either it's now or ok, or they mean to check back later irregardless of the time they specified. I think we both got hit with people with this stupid thinking that if you specify a specific time in minutes, then in a strip club it means just check back later. That's not the way I operate. Except for the phrases a couple of minutes, a common phrase, and maybe later. a couple of minutes could be several. However 2 minutes is more specific. It looks like the best way to communicate is to spell it out. I wanted to wait for the dancer on stage to finish her song. It was no big deal in my case though.
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GV , basically last night was just the last straw. But I have a couple reasons. 1) The girls are low class compared to other clubs I've worked in. I've been getting a lot of my stuff stolen. Even odd things like toothpaste and deodorant? Too many ridiculously trashy stuff going on. There's three pregnant girls at my club now, who I've sen two of the three still drinking and doing coke? What?!
2) DJ that is innappropriate who works most of my shifts and management will not handle it despite mutiple complaints from many girls.
3) Bouncers who do not protect me. A drunk guy came in about a week ago and demanded I give him 2 dances for the price of one despite that we were not running that special at the moment. He finally said okay to the one full priced dance, then we did the dance. (I collected payment before). He was upset that he didn't get extras (DURING A 20 DOLLAR DANCE), then told me he wanted his money back. He started yelling at me, I remained calm and polite and told him i already did the dance and the money was non refundable. He talked to the bouncer and the bouncer told me to give the money back. The guy SHOVED me infront of the bouncer so the bouncer told him to leave. He leaves. Ten minutes later I see him back at the entrance with the same bouncer and is allowed back in. I was on stage shortly after and the same guy (must not have remembered the incident) came and sat at my tip rail and tipped me. It was so uncomfortable.
4) Last night it was really slow and I needed a break to go eat. I tried to ask the manager and he said "not now" . Twenty minutes later I asked again. He said "you can go in ten minutes". So ten minutes later I asked the door guy to walk me out. He walkied the manager and no reply. He said "it's fine I'll just walk you out". I go, am gone ten minutes and bring my food back to the club to eat it. As soon as I walk in the door the manager says "follow me to the office" like I'm some juvenile delinquent. Then he says "I'm sending you home tonight because you left before I confirmed it was okay" I tried to explain and tell him what happened, he didn't listen. He said "pack your shit up and cash out". Keep in mind, management has never had ANY issues with me. I have never been in any drama with other girls, I make the club a lot of money and always tip everyone , including the managers, a lot of money. Then he told the bouncer not even to walk me out. I left with 20$, which didn't even cover the gas it took to get there.
It was so upsetting. So I just decide it's against my best interests to work there.
Just sayin...
Any club not protecting their dancers is one I would (if I knew about it) stop visiting. Good luck.