Plausible Arousability

15 comments

• AnonymousJim

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  11 years ago

  This doesn't really answer your question, but these things don't surprise me.
  
  Hair pulling, done right, feels really good. The key is to do it right. Is not like yanking a girl by the ponytail out on the playground, you bully. But a light-yet-firm grab and slight, slow tug from the roots, emphasis on the roots, can feel real good to a woman (heck, have your woman do it to you, too ... like a good scalp massage). Just make sure she doesn't have extensions in when you try it, otherwise she'll freak.
  
  As for anal, it's more the mental hangups with that. There's a lot of nerves down there to help you know when you've got other business to do. Some like play down there. Others ... most ... don't. But some do.
• DandyDan

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  11 years ago

  Anything can be sexy if you want it to be sexy.
  
  If you don't pull their hair like it's a tug-of-war, I can see how any girl could get into that.
  
  As for anal, most of the ones I've met seem repulsed by it, but I've also known some who are into it. One of my faves from long ago seemed to live for anal. Some strippers, you look at them close enough, you know they take it up the ass at least occasionally.
• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  I was fucking a stripper that didn't do anal because of her hemorrhoids,but she sure did dig a little hair pulling.
• alabegonz

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  11 years ago

  I have only one time have a dancer went for anal. I surely enjoyed the experiemce and i would do it again.
  
  She was clean I mean the cavity was clean. It just needed saliva often since it doesnt secrete juice.
  
  
  
  
• lopaw

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  11 years ago

  I don't like hair pulling personally and it's a bit awkward when a dancer asks me to do it. I'll do it somewhat half-heartedly, and very badly. They rarely ask again.
  
  Anal ain't never on my menu.
• knightwish

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  11 years ago

  Something like 15% of the population likes some pain mixed with their sex. Hair pulling which is just controlling isn't even at that level.Anal for women is intense but they don't have a prostate so they don't have quite the same experience as men do. But for women who don't cum vaginally, which often requires something more the size of a woman's hand or fist than a penis, yes it is likely to be more exciting. BTW anal stimulation works well for women in combination with intercourse or oral, I regularly put a few fingers up there to help stimulate them. Or visa versa when rimming and it helps them cum.
  
  I'd say you are just inexperienced. Try it for yourself and see if like it. Buy your SO a strap-on, or most doms will do strap-on.
• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  ????????
• sclvr5005

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  11 years ago

  Who are you talking to knightwish?
• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  Wrong site Knightwish.
• knightwish

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  11 years ago

  I was directing that at OP: ilbbaicnl.
  
  I don't get the reaction. Man was asking about hair pulling and anal and I weighted in on hair pulling and anal.
• steve229

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  11 years ago

  "Hair pulling, done right, feels really good."
  
  There was an Asian dancer that used to do the scalp massage/hair tugging you describe during VIP - and it did feel good, lol
• georgmicrodong

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  11 years ago

  Buttfucking doesn't interest me. I'll play around down there a bit if it's clean, but it's an exit, not an entrance.
  
  As for hair pulling, that can be a definite turn on. I've met loads of dancers who like that, and not just during sex. One of the local dancers like it when I grab her hair at the base of her skull and gently pull her head back, then nibble and nip gently on her neck.
• skibum609

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  11 years ago

  A lot of the younger dancers seem to like "choking". Amazing to an old guy like me.
• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  I often make young dancers choke.
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  KW no woman personally ever asked me for anal or hair pulling. Lap dances are as far as it goes for me these days, due to blood pressure medication.