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Things that you should be cautious of doing

Jpac73
There are a few things that come to my mind that you should not do at a stripclub.

1.Do not pay extra or give a tip for a Lapdance no matter how good. If it's a dancer you've been knowing for a while it MIGHT be okay(not all the time) but if it is a new dancer I would in no way think of giving her extra money because you are leaving the door open for them to ask for extra money next time. If the dance is $20dollars and you give them 25 or 30bucks because you thought they did a good dance they will expect the same thing the next time you come in and you may have other plans for that extra 5 or 10bucks like buying yourself a drink or tipping some of the other girls.

2. Do not buy a new girl more than 1drink(preferrably none). I have seen it happen too many times when you try to be nice and buy her a drink and then she ends up asking for another drink as if she is trying to get her drink on at your expense. I don't mind doing this for dancers that I have come to know but most of the dancers I have been knowing don't even ask for drinks it's the new girls that do this shit. I have found that when the customer asks the girl does she want a drink she will usually leave it at one half the time they don't even finish that first one. On the other hand, if she asks you for a drink it seems as if she is in a "drinking mood" and want to get her party on or drink on but at your expense.

18 comments

  • lasvegasescorts
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    19 years ago
    One you you should never do is give a dancer too much information about yourself. Back when I went ou twith the first dacner I ever got to know I was free with info about me because at the time I was rather naive in general about a lot of these girls and it to a degree came back to haunt me. THis POS started using the info she did have and since she was a pthological liar added her little touches to it and did her level best to break me up with the dancer I was currently seeing. This all happened bacasue the night I was leaving to go home I stopped in her club to see her before I headed to the airport and unfortunately ran into this girl who minues later saw me with the current one.
  • chandler
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    19 years ago
    I don't know, SuperDude, I find a lot of what's posted here quite worthy of quoting. I do think we should be cautious about taking it seriously.
  • SuperDude
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    19 years ago
    Quoting this board.
  • FONDL
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    19 years ago
    I think that two things you should avoid doing are spending too much and spending too little. If you throw money around or are really cheap, the girls will think you're a jerk and will treat you accordingly. My approach is to be generous enough to reward good performance but prudent enough to look for good value. The value of money doesn't change just because you're in a strip club. I treat dancers the same as I do bartenders or waitresses: good service gets a bigger reward than does indifferent service, and truly bad service gets nothing at all.
  • AbbieNormal
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    19 years ago
    It's called advice. It is kind of what the board and site are for as opposed to trading insults.
  • parodyman-->
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    19 years ago
    What most of you should watch out for is catching your dicks in your zippers. Most of you don't seem to smart about this whole buying a drink thing. Don't you know that in a bar who a man buys a drink for, or dosen't as well as what he spends is no one else's business. wHY DON'T YOU ALL MAN UP AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS?
  • AbbieNormal
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    19 years ago
    I personally consider drinking beers an integral part of my stripclub experience. I just think the normal hazzards of excessive drinking are amplified in a stripclub.
  • casualguy
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    19 years ago
    I'm not afraid to drink and have fun. However I'm also not afraid to piss a dancer off if she doesn't take subtle hints I'm not interested in her. I don't usually get rude but step things up a bit if I want a dancer to leave and she refuses. I have rarely gotten a dancer angry since it happens more often to me than to her. Usually I just have fun. If a dancer sits with me and immediately asks for a drink I will typically tell her no thanks. If she immediately comes back with a rude comment, well I don't believe she is going to be working in that club for very long because I will spread the message about her if she did get me angry.
  • FONDL
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    19 years ago
    I agree with the general tone of this discussion but I think you need to be somewhat flexible depending on the situation. For example, I agree with Superdude's first comment to never buy a dance as soon as you walk in the door. But one time I did exaclty that and had one of the best dances I've ever had. I walked into this club that has private rooms in back with cameras in them. A girl immediately grabbed me before I even sat down and said something like, "quick, if we go in back right now we can do anything we want because nobody's watching the cameras yet" (it was early and the place had just opened.) The girl was attractive so I though, what the heck, let's do it. And was I ever glad that I did. So yes, guidelines can keep you out of trouble, but be flexible enough to take advantage of unique opportunities. The only rule I'm not flexible about is I never have much to drink in a club. If drinking is my objective, there are better places to do it than strip clubs. Two beers is my club limit, and I rarely finish the second one.
  • AbbieNormal
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    19 years ago
    I think the biggest things to wory about are drinking too much and being afraid to say no or to "offend" a dancer if you need to. I learned that one the hard way when one of the worlds ugliest strippers wouldn't leave me alone. I'd given a courtesy tip, and despite the fact that I would not give her another, buy her a drink, or even talk to her, she would not leave me alone.
  • Jpac73
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    19 years ago
    Superdude: Your first post happened to me last week. I knew the dancer was up for a bunch of bullsshit when she told me to save her a seat(The club was pretty much empty and no one was sitting with me). Sure enough she came back and sat down and asked for a drink after about 2 or 3minutes of conversation. I flat out told her that I didn't come into the club to buy drinks. She replied you must be on a budget? I said yeah you can say that if you want. She went on to try imply that I wasn't being a gentleman and what not, she soon got up and left after she got the point I wasn't going to spend any money on her. There was a guy at the table next to me whom said he didn't like her as well. She had hit him up for a drink before I got to the club. I just don't like lound & aggressive dancers.
  • SuperDude
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    19 years ago
    Never discuss the details of your business and give a dancer a card. I hear about offices being broken into by dancers' boyfriends, stealing equipment, money and files to sell stuff to feed drug habits.
  • SuperDude
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    19 years ago
    Accepting extras you didn't ask for. She will hassle you for all of your money and the scene could get ugly.
  • SuperDude
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    19 years ago
    Never get a dance from a dancer who picks you two seconds after you get in the club and haven't even ordered a drink. She is looking for you to buy drinks, lunch and dances only from her. Unless she is an 11, send her packing and take your time to survey the whole array. These days dancers grab a guy as soon as walks into an empty or slow club and will not let go.
  • chandler
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    19 years ago
    SC: You're right. I was being a little facetious. You've got to admit, though, it could bug you a bit to give a dancer a smoke and then see her go over and give it to another customer.

    Jpac: In your 2nd post, are you seriously suggesting we should order a shot for a dancer, then get another glass and split it with her? I don't know, I think you'd do just as well to flip a coin for it. I'm with Shadowcat in saying you shouldn't sweat small stuff like this too much - save your caution for the big burns. I do agree with the thrust of your first post, that you should go slow in being generous to a dancer who's new to you if you expect to see her more in future visits.
  • chandler
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    19 years ago
    Another tip: Don't give away cigarettes to dancers who see you smoking and come over and ask for one. I've noticed when I ask a dancer if I can bum a smoke, she says sure and gets up and goes over to whichever guy she sees with cigarettes and bums one off him. So don't let her do it! Chances are she's not even going to smoke it.
  • Jpac73
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    19 years ago
    Shadowcat: I don't worry about over spending because I already have a budget limit before I go in the club. I also don't go to the ritzy gentlemans club so I can have a good time without spending a alot of money. There also might be some guys who might feel intimadated or feel guilty if they say no to a dancer therefore I was stating it so they wouldn't get anything started. If I was a dancer I would rather a customer offer me a drink than for me to ask for one because it's show that they like you but I guess some strippers don't care as long as they are getting what they want out of the deal.
  • Jpac73
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    19 years ago
    I also have another tip as far as the drinks. I remember one time I had bought this dancer a shot of liquor. I asked her how did it taste? She said "Do you want to taste some of it?" I said yeah I'll give it a try. She ended up getting another shot glass and pouring half of the shot in my glass. I didn't think about it then but later I thought to myself that I had just gotten back some of my money. So this is a strategy you can try as well if you think the dancer is being too pushy and trying to make you spend money on her when you don't want to do so.
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