What would you do in this situation?
Jpac73
A favorite of mine that use to work at a club in town has now started dancing at a club I visit out of town. Even though I like her, she has more competition at the club out of town. I saw her for the first time at the new club Friday. She spoke briefly to me while I was sitting with another dancer who is a favorite of mine.
The main problem is, I don't know whether she is worth getting a lapdance from at this club. Her old club didn't allow much contact. As a matter of fact, until about 6months ago they did not allow any contact during a private dance. At the current club she is at now, most of the girls give good contact dances. I have to drive about 1hour & 20minutes to this club. I want to get the most "bang" for my bucks. I do not want to risk getting a dance from her and it ends up being lame or way lighter than what this club gives.
She did not get up on stage until I was about to leave the club. I decided I would speak to her on the way out. She still gave me a hug as she usually does even though I had no more money to tip her. So would you take a chance next time around to see how her dance(s) would be? I just hate to throw away $30 when I now there are other girls who can give me what I am use to getting.
The main problem is, I don't know whether she is worth getting a lapdance from at this club. Her old club didn't allow much contact. As a matter of fact, until about 6months ago they did not allow any contact during a private dance. At the current club she is at now, most of the girls give good contact dances. I have to drive about 1hour & 20minutes to this club. I want to get the most "bang" for my bucks. I do not want to risk getting a dance from her and it ends up being lame or way lighter than what this club gives.
She did not get up on stage until I was about to leave the club. I decided I would speak to her on the way out. She still gave me a hug as she usually does even though I had no more money to tip her. So would you take a chance next time around to see how her dance(s) would be? I just hate to throw away $30 when I now there are other girls who can give me what I am use to getting.
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last commentwhy can't you just discuss what you expect/want from her?
if she agrees to what you expect, then you move forward
seriously, what could be more simple than just telling her how things are at the new club and if she wants to do things the way she did them at her previous club you tell her that you'll have to pass. if you can't or won't communicate with her i find it hard to understand how you can refer to her as a favorite.
If you don't know what kind of dance she'll give, I see only the two choices that have already been offered up, ask or experiment. If you're unwilling to do either of those, then I see "no dances" in your future.
As for the "unprofessional" comment, please put me in touch with the party who is paying you to participate here; I want in on it.
don't ask the question if you don't want to hear the answer or maybe take the time to figure out that tactful is a two way street.
She dances for you at one club, but you are worried about the dance at a new club that is more liberal. If this doesn't scream for common sense voyeur is correct.
I don't know about anyone else, but I don't go to clubs to save money.
As far as establishing expectations with dancers, this would seem to be second nature to clubbing. We've all blown money on bad LDs. The trick is "one strike and you're out." No second chances. There are enough dancers out there in the world. Make sure you have cash left over for when you find the best one at the end of the night!
Well, I have no business being in a strip club (for that reason and many others), but it hasn't stopped me yet!
I don't know what the problem is. A favorite at one club who moves to a new club is a favorite at the new club. Favorites are favorites no matter where they're at. If it turns out she's wrong for her new club, you can always dump her.