Why do strippers ask loaded questions?
Hard4Dancers
Heard both of these in the last week:
(Girl 1 after declining VIP solicitation): "Do you think I'm unattractive?"
(Girl 2 after finishing mechanical VIP): "Did you enjoy my dances?"
Of course, if you had to ask, then you already know what the answer is.
Is this for guilt trip reasons or do they want to evoke pity in exchange for $$?
(Girl 1 after declining VIP solicitation): "Do you think I'm unattractive?"
(Girl 2 after finishing mechanical VIP): "Did you enjoy my dances?"
Of course, if you had to ask, then you already know what the answer is.
Is this for guilt trip reasons or do they want to evoke pity in exchange for $$?
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A) The "I can't be homely cause I'm a STRIPPER" stripper. Attractive to a some custies, but usually not well-paid custies. Supplement their income by guilt-tripping or just generally badgering other customers, finding those who have not grown immune to these tactics. May not even make minimum wage, but of course it's not really about the money for them.
B) The "every dime helps" strippers. Pretty to most, but rarely anyone's first choice looks-wise. They carefully study each new post in stripperweb Hustle Hut.
In the case of the bad dances, "Did you enjoy my dances?" it often seems like dancer knows she isn't doing well, but isn't sure what she is doing wrong. In the case of the good dances, in some cases it might be she wants validation of her skills, but it's most likely the dancer making sure that you remember the dance was good and you tip her well.
loaded question= loaded answer
So why did she ask? This is why these days I avoid most new girls.
I honestly do believe that many, but not all, strippers take rejection harder and feel it more powerfully than "Normal" women. They hate rejection more than anyone else because of that.