Taking the initiative for dances
chitownlawyer
Florida
Friday, October 21, 2005 9:08 AM
A recent experience causes me to make this inquiry.
At my last trip to Favorite Club, I approached an attractive dancer with the intent of getting a dance from her. We spent a long time in conversation. I waited for her to ask me if I wanted a dance. She spent a lot of time bitching about how no one was buying any dances that night. At my request, she described her best demographic for guys getting dances..which happened to describe me. Finally, in desperation, I asked her if I could get a dance. She explained to me that if a guy doesn't ask for a dance within five minutes of the beginning of the conversation, she figures he doesn't want one. I then had a great experience with her via both couch dances and a VIP...she turned out to be one of the best VIP dancers I've ever had. She is relatively young (probably about 21), and relatively new to dancing (she told me eight months).
My question...on which party does the burden lie in suggesting a dance. I always thought the seller moved first, but perhaps not. Thoughts?
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