The Unthinkable - Tip Retracts
Estafador
BIG APPLE
So one day, for a homeboy's event, I and a couple of buddies went to a *ugh* NYC club. Bad day at work, so a good thing to let go of some steam. Unfortunately, like most manhattan clubs, the girlies just weren't to my standards and I was having a hard time readjusting my target body type in comparisons to the girls there. So after an altercation with a rude waitress (darn those greedy Russian women), I see a women on a side stage, with decent features and her crowd was yet to aspire. So I take the golden opportunity and use the solo trick to get some quality pole attention. But the chick apparently was full of herself, didn't like black guys or whatever, but deliberately avoided giving me ANY sort of acknowledgement, determined to not even make eye contact as I am watching her dance. So I'm thinking, maybe she thinks because I'm young, I gots no dough.
Recently (well as recent as I club which is occasionally but whenever I do...) I've been more inclined to tip bigger to these one woman pole stage dancers (any official names for these types of girls?) I've gone so far as to do $40 for one 3-song set stage dance. So to show her, the young bucks got dough too, I'm throwing down tips by every $3. And I wound up going to $20. Yet still not even a passing glance (and this was all within probably a minute) so in fustration I did the unthinkable, the gobsmacking, the jaw dropping, probably THE MOST TABOO THING EVER IN SC....A Lil Wayne i.e., took back all my tips back. Not sure if she saw or not since she wasn't paying attention, but I didn't care as I effectively left her stage and sat around for a little while longer, watching as my boy had his fun.
Eventually, wound up find a black girl. Body type wasn't my exact standards, but she was pretty in the face and black, so right now that was enough. Wound up giving her $40 in tips as she was on stage. Probably eventually only stayed for an hour before leaving.
TL:DR-Ever took back a tip from a stripper?
Recently (well as recent as I club which is occasionally but whenever I do...) I've been more inclined to tip bigger to these one woman pole stage dancers (any official names for these types of girls?) I've gone so far as to do $40 for one 3-song set stage dance. So to show her, the young bucks got dough too, I'm throwing down tips by every $3. And I wound up going to $20. Yet still not even a passing glance (and this was all within probably a minute) so in fustration I did the unthinkable, the gobsmacking, the jaw dropping, probably THE MOST TABOO THING EVER IN SC....A Lil Wayne i.e., took back all my tips back. Not sure if she saw or not since she wasn't paying attention, but I didn't care as I effectively left her stage and sat around for a little while longer, watching as my boy had his fun.
Eventually, wound up find a black girl. Body type wasn't my exact standards, but she was pretty in the face and black, so right now that was enough. Wound up giving her $40 in tips as she was on stage. Probably eventually only stayed for an hour before leaving.
TL:DR-Ever took back a tip from a stripper?
28 comments
Why didn't you just leave and find a place better suited to your situation? Or were you being STUBBORN and trying to prove a point?
In your case, if $3 got nothing, she is either really prejudiced or had something better to do. Girls know that even just a few bucks means lots more is behind it. I never tip a girl on stage unless I want to drop money on her.
Now I may sound like an asshole for doing this. But yet some dancers need to learn a lesson. I mean if she would have said....sorry I missed you at the rail and I will make up for it in a lap dance. I would have been sold. But all she did was go back and complain. She got what she deserved.
I mean I have before had this same type of situation where it was more people at the rail and the dancer came over and said....sorry I didn't get to you and was about to leave when I gave her the tip money. She said I didn't work for this... I told her to come back after she got dressed....she did and we had a couple of lappers. I mean some get it....others don't.
In the wise words of Mickey Bergman, "Everybody loves money. That's why they call it money."
Right there is your problem, don't throw your money on the stage (unless you like her stageshow), hold it in you hand and make her come get it.
@sclvr thanks bro
@esta... The guy might have been her Fav or was spitting good game. My beef with it all was she expect to just grab the money. Like I mentioned if she would have just said...sorry I could not make it down to you... I would have been fine. She just reached for the money.
I mean at this particular club I have had it when the rail is full of customers that a dancer will grab three tips on the rail and dance in the middle of the three customers then move on. Now you might feel you didn't get the attention but she did come over and do something. That is the main point I was making with the tip retraction. Hell if she would have just done pole tricks she would have gotten the money.
It is like tipping a bartender money when you served your own drink as they just sit there talking with another customer. Should they get tipped??? NO.
But always the money is placed on the rail first. If no money they skip that customer. It is like giving them a FUCK YOU for not having up the money. So it works both ways.
I mean I have had it at this club where I lost a contact on a nipple because I tipped some good money....and I knew the dancer from before. But the guy next to me asked how come I got that attention and he didn't... I said, "don't be a tight ass and lay down some money".
Technically, no. But that's because I don't actually *give* it to her, i.e. let it out of my hand, until she comes over to me to get it. I've quite frequently left the stage without tipping at all when someone ignores me.
Yes I have. At SC. Day shift. I'm only guy there & I'm at the rail tipping dancer as she strips. Off come the bottoms leaving g-string.
This is Missouri and new law doesn't allow full nudity under any circumstances. But with management's blessings each lady has the option to take off as much as she wants. So, I want to encourage this.
Back to dancer in g-string. I offer to tip her after she goes fully nude.
She: How much? and tip first!
Me: Nude first and I'll decide how much after the deed.
She leaves stage in a huff before her last dance music is finished; she's last of day rotation so I exit club and go to another local club to spend $$.
Upshot: Club has $200/30min single couple VIP rooms; she lost out on her cut of $130 + tip by arguing over a measly few $.
Life lesson: penny wise, pound foolish.
BTW lopaw you can really be a bitch, lol.