Attract strippers inside the club?
I go to my local club semi regularly and I've seen and interacted with almost all of the employees there. I know several dancers that will seek me out and hang with me for a bit. Then move on but no matter which club I go to there are always serval tables with 1 or two guys( and their not always Brad Pitt lookalikes) that always have 3 or more girls with them, and their usually the better looking ones as well. All they do is sit and drink or smoke and never seem to spend money on any of the girls who spend hours with them instead of moving to someone like me who will actually spend money on them. Is there a trick I'm missing to be able to retain the dancers attention for longer periods of time with out giving them more money? I've tried the free beer thing too but it doesn't seem to be as effective.
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I used to wonder the same thing. Then I found out the answer. They are getting paid, you just don't see it.
A spin off of mh's is that they've been paid well before. Particularly at the clubs on the high end and the low end, there is a lot of boom or bust. If a guy comes in and drops significant cash from time to time girls will often spend time with him on subsequent visits. Ultimately its still about getting paid, but that particular visit may be more routine maintenance than full service. I'm counting this phenomena in with mh's started reason.
Like GCMan said, another reason is they might actually be "real" friends. I've been friends with strippers in the sense that we were friends before they became strippers or before I knew they were strippers. I've dated strippers or girls with friends who are strippers. I've got male (and one female) friends who have/are dating strippers. One way or another we've got a "relationship" outside of the typical entertainer/patron one and that leads to casual "hanging out" in the club. On top of the external friendships, friendships to develop within strip clubs. While not every day occurrences customers and strippers can become friends. If it happens to me, I gotta assume it happens to others too.
That said, I'm in exactly the same boat as jack above. Not particularly handsome and don't pay the girls *except* my fave, but often have a few girls at the table. But, for every girl at my table, I keep a drink in their hand and I keep them laughing. Sometimes, a girl will leave my table to get a customer, do a dance or two with him, then come back -- that is, she'd rather be at my table than working the customer again. The trick, I think, is to keep a drink in their hand and be interesting/fun enough that you are a more fun alternative to sitting by themselves and buying their own drinks. For me, once I'm going to the club often enough that the girls know me, this tends to start to happen.
In no-alcohol clubs, the same applies, except that that plastic bottle of water or iced tea in front of me is actually filled with vodka or some mixed drink. That keeps the girls who are comfortable enough to drink with me (i.e., they know I won't roofie them) back-and-forth to me the entire time. At least until the bottle runs out lol
The only one I am paying (or have paid, or will pay) is my CF. But her bored friends sit with us. So I have the appearance of being a whale - when in reality I'm just a Big Tuna.
The only drawbacks were that it was hard to get dances from other dancers when one sits with you all the time and that she was sitting with me every time I visited. Sometimes longer than I wanted her too. I mean I remember some nights the club started out slow but before you knew it, the club was packed and there weren't enough dancers and here I had three just sitting and chatting at my table ignoring everyone else. Plus you could feel like an ATM machine if every visit she wanted at least 3 beers plus two ten dollar dances and sometimes she wanted me to buy someone else a drink but I talked her out of that. Things changed. I no longer am stuck with one dancer for three hours at a time.
Of course she was hot and so were some of her friends. Just in case anyone wonders how I got in that sitation. She also lived close to me but we never hooked up.
Most dancers feel like they don't want to start really working till 10pm at the earliest. If they're on the floor before that, it's because club management pressures them to be there. But they're just getting their ticket punched, not really trying to earn.