Is it dumb to like a strippers company more than the lap dances?

 Sounds like a keeper.  $100 for 2 hours of good GFE - that's a bargain, man!

It's human nature to want to be close to somebody. However, keep in mind she might not like you when the money stops aflowing.

Not dumb at all.&nbsp; I am not a big fan of lap dances, so for me pay for time is fine and $100 for two hours is good.&nbsp; Of course, I would be using that time also feeling her out for OTC, but that is just me. <img alt="" src="/editor/images/smiley/msn/wink_smile.gif" />

Have to disagree with you guys on this one. Two hours of&nbsp; &quot;talking, goofing off, etc,&quot; and no sex?&nbsp; Not for me. I am an &quot;action&quot;&nbsp; man and the sooner the better.<br type="_moz" />

farmerart, theres no sex in this club and we like each others company. Sounds like you would prefer an escort, nothing wrong with that.

Absolutely not dumb.&nbsp; There's a wonderful girl I occasionally spend an entire afternoon with.&nbsp; She's at college and i work in the same business she's interested in (and she's cleverer than me).&nbsp; We make each other laugh, talk about music we like (and don't like) and even play pool together (she even beats me sometimes and I never let her win).&nbsp; I buy her a few drinks but she's there to make money so I have a few dancers from her.&nbsp; She's beautiful and the dances are very pleasurable but most of all I just enjoy spending time with her.&nbsp; She knows I never even look at another girl when I'm with her and she never talks to another customer.&nbsp; If I was the same age as her and a thousand times better looking she'd be the girl of my dreams.&nbsp; So why is it dumb to enjoy her company?<br type="_moz" />

mikeya02: I don't know all the ins and outs of Cal. clubs - haven't been&nbsp; in Cal since a contract in&nbsp; 1995 and I wasn't a monger then. But I still don't understand. If everything is so cool between the two of you why not push for OTC aggressively? <br type="_moz" />

farmerart, I offered $1000 a month, and though she came close to saying yes, she backed off. I'm single and she knows I love her to death. Maybe thats it.

I'm in the same camp as you Mike. The clubs in DC and VA don't condone lap dancing so the type of relationship you are involved in (sans) OTC is what I revel in. I have to admit that from time to time I travel to other parts of the country to participate in more gregarious activities with attractive young women but I still come home to my local club and my ATFs there.